I've gotten to hang out with this girl for sometime now and we've become pretty good friends. She's never dated anyone, she is of legal age, and she's not shy at all. I can't tell if she's just be friendly or if it's her lack of relationship xp. She has a lot of admirers but blows them off.
She cancels plans and asks me to hang out with her. When i visit her workplace and am about to leave, she makes a sad face. She asked for a piggy back ride the other day and i carried her to the otherside of the street. When she came over, i gave her a shoulder massage while she was checking her email.
She said that the reason she likes me is because she can talk and bother me i will probably never fall for her. Then she said she was unsure about that and that her charm might rub off on me.
Everyone thinks we're a couple because we hang out a lot and when asked if we are, she always says i'm too good for her.
2007-03-24 14:00:09 · 8 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she has on the other hand invited me to dinner and a movie. She has also rated me a 9 from a scale of 1-10 in hotness. In addition when i jokingly mentioned i would stretch my arms in theatres to make a move, she insisted she wanted to see it. When we went with a group of people on a seperate occasion, she insisted i sit next to her and that if i continued sitting in front of her i would block her view. We walk close together a lot and play weird games. She even took my phone, decorated, and put pix of herself making weird faces and kissing the screen. She played the piano while i was napping and then jumped on me after. We playfully get close to each other and poke or tease.
Her statement about never falling for her has thrown me off... what do you think? Could this all just be a friendship? Or is she setting me up and planning to crush me.
2007-03-24 14:00:59 · update #1
Go for it. The statement was a challenge, or a dare. You have chemistry, she feels comfortable with you, she has hinted she would like to you to "test" your moves on her.
So take her to a movie and put your arm around her. Hold her hand next time you are close.
Dont get all mushy and romantic, or try to surprise her by kissing her. just try one of those two things and see how she reacts. If she likes you, she will be cool about it. If she doesnt, she will pull away,
But do SOMETHING and dont keep wondering "what if" If she is playing you, find out and move on.
2007-03-24 14:07:31 · answer #1 · answered by alcaholicrage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like one or both of you is scared to make the first move. This girl may be different, but if I were acting like that toward a guy, it would be my way of sending "ask me out" signals. You both are playing, laughing, and beating around the bush literally....girls ( I guess I can at least speak for me) want you to make the first move! If you are ok with this maybe gradually turning into something serious, then that's ok...if not, wait until the time is right and ask her.
2007-03-24 21:08:27 · answer #2 · answered by cudancegirl1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see where she is playing you. I think she is trying to get you to make a move,(that is, if you see something more than a friendship) and if you don't soon, she's gonna think you are gay or something, I would make a move- take her chin (gently) and move her so she is face to face with you, and look her in the eyes, and say- "do you want me to kiss you?" If she says yes, then go for it. And if she says no, or maybe, say "should I find out for sure?" and then move in for the kiss. you will know right there if she wants you or not- works every time. Good Luck!
2007-03-24 21:39:11 · answer #3 · answered by trusted 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like she just wants you as a friend or maybe she doesn't know what she wants. Why don't you just be friends and you never know..best not to rush things.
2007-03-24 21:08:06 · answer #4 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say it but shes playing with you your there wen she needs for or comfort a girlfriend wouldn't treat you like that and neither would a true friend
2007-03-24 21:08:36 · answer #5 · answered by Ty-baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is neither a relationship nor a friendship. You are being played with.
2007-03-24 21:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like a wonderful friendship, but sounds like more too
I would talk to her about how you are feeling with all of this as she is the only one who can really answer your question
be cool...
2007-03-24 21:05:40 · answer #7 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This girl is a lesbian and is scared to let you know.
2007-03-24 21:06:01 · answer #8 · answered by lady bug 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋