Singles & Dating - 24 March 2007

I am Korean. I moved here when I was 5. My parents are very traditional. Of course they want me to end up with a Korean guy. No one in my family has ever married a white person. I have tried dating Asian guys, but the truth is, I have not found myself attracted to any of them. It is not that I have a problem with my own people. I think it is a beautiful culture and I have been back to my country several times and love it. It is just that, on a physical level I am not that attracted to them. Is that a problem? Whenever I date a white guy, my parents never, never find out. It would break their heart to know and i just dont know how to tell them.

2007-03-24 14:36:20 · 56 answers · asked by shelleyinthecity 1

i like this boy.exept im to young to date.and to shy to talk to him.but im only shy becus i onely talked to him with my friend who know's him.and i onely see him at Thursday and somtime's Sunday.and i need a anser not a spell checker.

2007-03-24 14:36:09 · 8 answers · asked by kk 1

I just got this email from my ex. I still love him, but I don't like his attitude. What do you think?
I don't want to have to feel like I have to call you because I feel forced. Our conversations don't feel the same way to me as before. I feel strained. This is partly because it is not important to me, I find myself running out of minutes. Maybe I am being heavy handed, but I cannot give you the time you want and the ability to say I can call you at this time. I would rather say, let me get back to you when I feel comfortable, rather than, tomorrow, because I know tomorrow I am going to be busy. There is no rush, either, to do anything, and if there was a rush, I would really need a good explanation...
I do not want the responsibility of being the reason you are visiting NYC. What do you want now, out of our conversations? Be clear. Right now I feel there is nothing to be had except that we had a history. I know what I want. I would like to stay in touch and feel good when I talk to yo

2007-03-24 14:36:08 · 5 answers · asked by calliope 1

2007-03-24 14:34:46 · 1 answers · asked by M.C. 1

do you think you have to be with someone before you can class it as a 'long term' relationship?

2007-03-24 14:34:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

So this guy that I loved a lot and been with for 1 year broke up with me and said that we'll be friends, then a week later he stopped taking my calls... I was very worried because he was depressed before breaking up with me and I wanted to stand by him and support him. a couple of weeks later I started sending text messages(over a few days), asking why he didn't want to be friends with me, he ignored me. I waited a month and couldn't take it anymore I sent him messages again, I even told him that I was still in love and that I just wanted to know what's up with his job (his biggest problem) he ignored me... a month later I put my number on private (hid it..) and called to hear him say hello (I missed him a lot) he knew t was me somehow.. He hung up and next day he called and started yelling telling me: NEVER EVER CALL ME AGAIN OR TEXT, LEAVE ME ALONE ETC...


I loved him and that's why I couldn't let go so easily. But him, will he think I was desperate ?

2007-03-24 14:34:32 · 15 answers · asked by leave me alone 1

If I like a girl and have been showing signs, how can I tell if she likes me back? She's been giving me mixed signals in response - she stares back at me for the right amount of time, points her shoulders towards me, and laughs at all my jokes, but she does not smile when she talks to me, and we'd always become odd and look straight ahead if we encounter each other in the halls.

She is the sporty type of person who rarely talks to any boys. I wonder if she is just shy (like me), or are the signals truly mixed.

2007-03-24 14:34:16 · 1 answers · asked by excelblue 4

first to see if we click. middle aged couple

2007-03-24 14:33:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to go to prom with friends but everytime someone asks who im going with and i tell them im not going with anyone they give me this "wow thats sad" kind of look, even my mom is trying to find guys for me to go with, is it really that horrible to go with friends?

2007-03-24 14:33:46 · 24 answers · asked by chicadelsol 2

how do i meet guys. like so they will ask me out.

2007-03-24 14:33:23 · 1 answers · asked by shianne 1

Id like to know if you are or not, and what do you think about it?
Im still saving myself even though i had a boyfriend, and dont you think im WEIRD? :( or is there something wrong with me for keepin it cuz most of my friends arent. Im 19. Do you also have a boyfrind but still try to keep yourself from it?

2007-03-24 14:32:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay well, i never like anyone before and im starting to wonder if l like him or if hes just a good friend to me.....I love his simle and hate it when he mad but i feel the same about my girls friends...All i know is i think about him more tham i think about anyone else?what should i do?Do i even really like him?

2007-03-24 14:30:55 · 4 answers · asked by love is so....... 2

I love this girl; real love, not the typical high school "i love u" crap, but genuine love. I've made a list for her; Please tell me what u think.
10) The way you read me like a book
9) The way you can tell how I feel without a single word.
8) The way you walk that absolutely stuns me
7) The way your long, dark hair falls on your shoulders
6)The melting feeling I get whenever I see you.
5 The things you say that make me laugh
4) The sweet sound of your voice
3) The way your smile can brighten my whole day.
2) The way you say "I Love You"
1) You. Just you.

My next question: Is this love bound to last?

2007-03-24 14:30:31 · 11 answers · asked by Yep 2

Please bear with me, I want you to see the whole pic. I've been pretty much single for a while and just been about my kids, school, and work. I Started talkin to this guy who resides n the city where I wanted to celebrate my 21st b-day. Anywayz we started off as penpals and when it came down to it I just wanted to know someone in the city me and my best friend were going too. We have been talking for some months and just met on the 21st of this month. Everything feels so right about him, I see flaws but I'm more flexible with him then I would be wit guys in my past. He meets me half way on things, there's chemistry, and he's able to handle my mood swings. I'm leaving tomorrow and we talked about what are we going to do from this point. He's in texas and I'm in minnesota, He kept saying that to me and just seem a little disturbed about it. Today he tells me that he only likes me as a friend and he didn't want to hurt my feelings because i seemed so happy. I don't believe him.

2007-03-24 14:30:28 · 2 answers · asked by kizzykay86 2

I want to be able to access public buildings that are more than one story in my wheelchair. Is their a specialized transportation mechanism besides elevators that have been developped?

2007-03-24 14:30:25 · 2 answers · asked by hittheswitch 1

2007-03-24 14:29:13 · 9 answers · asked by tONY g 1

I'm just curious, dating in general just scares me from all of the horror stories my best friends have been through. All the guys in my area, go from intelligent conversationalists to bumbling idiots in 30 mins. Not to mention they all treat me like I'm just their friend, so I'm thinking about trying the online thing but I'm not going into anything blind.

2007-03-24 14:28:54 · 7 answers · asked by anjelfun 4

how can you tell if you really like a guy or if you just have regular feeling for him??
i think i might like one of my best friends but im not for sure. he has a gf which is one of my best friends too but he is aways hugging me & sometimes he even tells me that he loves me.
im just not that sure if i do or not so how could i tell if i do???

give advice not stupid crap!! thanks!!

2007-03-24 14:28:21 · 9 answers · asked by pink_mcr_girl 2

or where can I find someone to talk to

2007-03-24 14:28:10 · 8 answers · asked by Skittles 2

Dear Slicksport, I visited the DR in the early 90s with a national and lived with his family in two different places. The DR is like a 3rd world country in most areas. Your best bet would be to go with a government type job to an established medical center. I spent time in the capitol city. The people did not have electricity except when the government decided to turn it on for a few hours per day. Most water is obtained through wells. Children had to walk for miles to attend grade schools. The government section of the city had electricity most of the time(but not always.) the people in that small section of the city were a little better off than the rest. His relatives in that area had a more comfortable home than the others we stayed in. As a white person, I went to areas where they did not usually see white people and they were very shocked. The carker a person is the more they are prejudiced against. My friend and his siblings ranged from light-like Italian to light-skinned black. He had a very dark black friend who talked about being very prejudiced against by the nationals. The government is socialistic from what I understood. the river that went through the city, the main water supply, was charcoal gray.
In the rural area where we stayed the people were open and friendly. No running water or electricity. The small town we came through is some kind of tourist city. The tourist resort area is nice and expensive. The cost of living is much, much less than ours if you live like the people. Learn Spanish! Get your shots! There are not a lot of medical facilities there. Their salaries are low and most people live in poverty, unless they have an education-like lawyers and government workers. When I was there, there were soldiers carrying weapons openly on the streets-if you are prepared for that. Because of the poverty, there is a lot of medical problems and crime. My friend bribed a customs guy at the airport to get a 32" screen tv in for his mother. Voodoo is practiced there-if you are ready for that. Are you aware of some of the medical situations that you would be seeing? I got a wierd rash there and was able to buy some sauve at a local drug store with the help of my friends. Do not drink the water or use any ice! Catch the rain like they do! I got really sick from using ice in one pop. I almost passed out and could barely walk for two days. Thank God my friends mother is a naturalist healer! She gave me a tea made from grapefruit leaves with a large amount of salt in it. It cleared me up by the 2nd day. The country is lush. The people like baseball, as a few of the countrymen have broken out of poverty by going pro.
A sad story. I was visiting other relative's rural home, I saw about a 3 year old girl sitting in the nieghbors yard. I glanced at her at different points of the day, from going in and out of the house and their yard. And the outhouse was in between the two houses. After a 3 hour visit, I commented that the little girl was very quiet and sure had not moved around a lot. She had two older brothers who would go in and out of their house and yard. I had seen her in a few different spots during the day. But I had not seen anyone interact with her for more than a few minutes at a time. They all told me that she had been born with a spinal condition and would never walk. The family did not have the money to take her to a medical Dr. I met her and her family. She liked me a lot. She doesn't talk. She sits in a woven chair that has a whole in the middle for when she goes to the bathroom. It was deplorable. I almost threw up at the idea of her existence. But instead, I spent a few minutes with everyone interacting with her. Something I always wonder about is if she is alive and what her quality of life is, if it ever improved? What would be done with a girl like that after her mother died? I can only imagine what possible abuse might occur.
I visited the local rural school and spoke with two of the classes. There were no maps and only a few things on the walls. They did have some books and there were doors to lock to keep thieves out. Most people still do not get to go to school. I knew and have seen people live in worse conditions, but it is still heart-wrenching to see it. The zoo is interesting, on open model, to see.
That is my overview. I hope that I gave you some insight and some info to consider. I would really check out the situation that you are going to and have a job before you go there. I enjoy latin people and their cultures. It's best to be prepared before you go. Medical people are desperately needed and you could make an impact if that's what you want. If you want to breeze by, pick somewhere else. Most of the 3rd world countries I have been in, there is not running water or electricity even at the hospitals. The emergency rooms usually have plastic over them or are just open to the outdoors, where other people are. Mexico just had plastic. Liberia, Africa the door was open. Russia, they had facilities but no equipment or medicine to give out in their communist way. Most of these countries still wash out plastic tubing used to run blood and medicines-just for an idea.
I do not want to discourage you in any way, just reporting honestly. I am wondering why you would want to go there? Look it up on the web.

2007-03-24 14:28:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i passed some gas on my girlfriend's head last night and some dookie came out of my hole and i think she's pissed.

2007-03-24 14:27:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey people i have been going out with this guy for a year and i didnt love him i was always afraid to break up with him
or tell him how i feel(that i dont love him)...i finally broke up with him and he did have a hard time and still does....\
but i still care about him..he loves me so much and tells me that no one has ever been so nice
and sweet to him in his life like me.....what should i do so he can forget me?..other than be mean to him....?

2007-03-24 14:26:39 · 5 answers · asked by Mila 2

2007-03-24 14:25:50 · 4 answers · asked by nfogey_1981 3

Ok Guys and girls a tricky one....My sister is married and her fella...has a friend who i have known,like forever and basically we see each other twice a year as he is single comes for xmas dinner and stuff and last year.....i was talking to him...and he seemed to find it difficult to talk to me...yet he could talk to my mum and sister fine...and he was seated nxt to me at the table for dinner and it was if he was afraid to look at me and bro in law asked him if he wanted to swap he said no....i have always fancied this man...and liked him but does he like me too...and why is he always scared to look at me or talk to me?

2007-03-24 14:24:50 · 6 answers · asked by LucieSmoothtalker 2

WHAT CAN A MAN DO TO A WOMAN THAT WOULD BE CONSIDERED A TURN OFF? AND FOR THE MEN SAME QUESTION?

2007-03-24 14:24:12 · 26 answers · asked by LAID2DASIDE 1

without doing anything obvious like grabbing his a$$ or pressing myself in to his crotch

2007-03-24 14:23:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-24 14:23:00 · 3 answers · asked by brian d 1

2007-03-24 14:22:56 · 6 answers · asked by Matt 1

i want to go with him and some friends but i don't want it to seem like a date becuase i don't know if he likes me in that way and i don't want to rune our friends ship (he can though lol)

2007-03-24 14:22:39 · 8 answers · asked by blah 3

They both go to the same school and are in the same grade. They even know there related from my mother's side.

2007-03-24 14:21:47 · 28 answers · asked by Varayla D 1