Hey people i have been going out with this guy for a year and i didnt love him i was always afraid to break up with him
or tell him how i feel(that i dont love him)...i finally broke up with him and he did have a hard time and still does....\
but i still care about him..he loves me so much and tells me that no one has ever been so nice
and sweet to him in his life like me.....what should i do so he can forget me?..other than be mean to him....?
2007-03-24 14:26:39 · 5 answers · asked by Mila 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he says that he can never be "just a friend" itll be hard for him.
2007-03-24 17:40:13 · update #1
lol me and u are in the same situation. you cant help but feel bad can u? so far what has worked for me was talking to him but only like once every 2 or 3 days. he will never forget you so dont even try to make him. still be his friend but make sure that its just friends. eventually he'll find another girl and will move on. but it might take a while...
2007-03-24 14:36:20 · answer #1 · answered by lzanchettin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats pretty tough but you did the right thing. I think for his sake you should leave him alone for a while and not try to be his friend. Dont be mean to him about t but dont go out of your way to be his friend cause it'll be tougher on him. Other than that there isnt much you can do. Its up to him to get over you on his own. You cant help him with that
2007-03-24 14:34:11 · answer #2 · answered by Kazza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't contact him at the moment. Leave him alone and don't give him any hopes. Let him know that you will be his friend and nothing more.
My ex kept in contact with me and gave me hopes that we will be together oneday but he changed his mind later and destroy those hopes. It was a terrible blow to me and its tough having to let go.
He will have to pick himself up and keep himself busy.
2007-03-24 14:31:09 · answer #3 · answered by Grace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him your not ready for a boy friend and you want to be friend if his hot go for it you;ll never find a boy like that trust me the other hot guys are cheater but i would just stay with him
2007-03-27 09:03:27 · answer #4 · answered by geenie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, thats the same thing with me, i didnt love my ex but he was crazy over me, and no we didnt get back together. but you should just wait a while and if he starts being crazy psycho, then just stop talking to him and he'll realize it that your so over him. he'll understand it over time
2007-03-24 14:33:45 · answer #5 · answered by dubbLe x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋