I just got this email from my ex. I still love him, but I don't like his attitude. What do you think?
I don't want to have to feel like I have to call you because I feel forced. Our conversations don't feel the same way to me as before. I feel strained. This is partly because it is not important to me, I find myself running out of minutes. Maybe I am being heavy handed, but I cannot give you the time you want and the ability to say I can call you at this time. I would rather say, let me get back to you when I feel comfortable, rather than, tomorrow, because I know tomorrow I am going to be busy. There is no rush, either, to do anything, and if there was a rush, I would really need a good explanation...
I do not want the responsibility of being the reason you are visiting NYC. What do you want now, out of our conversations? Be clear. Right now I feel there is nothing to be had except that we had a history. I know what I want. I would like to stay in touch and feel good when I talk to yo
2007-03-24 14:36:08 · 5 answers · asked by calliope 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you are not really feeling anything then why put yourself through the whole forcing it...we all know that does nothing but make us unhappy...maybe you should move on, tell him that maybe one day when youre more comfortable you might be able to be friends. hope this helps
2007-03-24 14:41:42 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♫§weetTart§amantha♫♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy has come right out and told you he doesn't care about you. If he even remotely cared about you as a friend, he wouldn't feel "forced" to have conversations with you. If this guy was the only reason you were going to go to NYC, do yourself a favor and cancel the trip. Save yourself some money as well as your dignity. Move on. Lose this pricks number permanently. And don't answer any of his calls. You can do SO much better. Good luck.
2007-03-24 14:46:39 · answer #2 · answered by cmg1977 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt want to be in a relationship right now because its to much work ...if he really loved/liked you he would want to talk to you no matter what ...no matter what time of day...no matter where you are ....no matter whats going on ...when you reallly love someone you want to be with them ....not just when your in the mood to be with them.
2007-03-24 14:42:41 · answer #3 · answered by mrsaprilberg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a jerk
move on
you can do better
2007-03-24 14:41:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on....
2007-03-24 14:39:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋