Id like to know if you are or not, and what do you think about it?
Im still saving myself even though i had a boyfriend, and dont you think im WEIRD? :( or is there something wrong with me for keepin it cuz most of my friends arent. Im 19. Do you also have a boyfrind but still try to keep yourself from it?
2007-03-24 14:32:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don know
it depends if the girls have fresh new batteries or not
2007-03-24 14:35:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing is wrong with it at all! Don't feed into peer presure, I am 24 with a 6 year old daughter, married at 19 divorced by 21. I now am "saving myself" or am at least a lot more cautious. Don't feed into that "Sex in the City" mentality that in order for women to be strong and independent, we need to be sexual. Concentrate on you and in the long run you will appreciate yourself that much more!
2007-03-24 21:37:51 · answer #2 · answered by Linzanne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good that you're really thinking about your sexuality and trying to make an informed decision. I don't think it's weird at all. There are plenty of reasons an emotionally healthy adult might choose to become sexually active or choose not to, and you have to weigh your own reasons for yourself. Definitely don't base it on what your friends are doing or on what someone else is pressuring you to do. You are much much much more likely to regret having sex before you were really ready than to regret passing up an opportunity, so don't rush into it.
2007-03-24 21:40:22 · answer #3 · answered by threngec 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my girl is a virgin. she's almost 20 (in april)
however.....she has been talking about taking the plunge with me, and i think even though people say you should be married, i see nothing wrong with it if you are VERY careful. i sont think you are weird, but when you are ready and have no doubts about it, id do it. now with my current thing, she wants to...then we will have a long discussion on how that is going to happen. remember, the first guy you are with, you'll get even more attached to them no matter what you do. b/c it is your first LOVER so to say.
2007-03-24 21:37:18 · answer #4 · answered by brianju 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No longer in that age range but I started having sex regularly at the age of 12. I have no regrets but there's nothing wrong with wanting to wait either. Just do what's right for you and try not to compare yourself to others around your age who are or aren't having sex.
2007-03-24 21:38:38 · answer #5 · answered by SDTerp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not 18 yet and i hate to say im a virgin but im a guy with girls ius different girls should keep thir virginity untill they are married. i wish my wife was a virgin, at least my girlfriend wich i dont have sex with because she did.
it sucks but its good that youre still hanging in there. just make sure you give that to the right guy and not to some idiot!
2007-03-24 21:36:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not a virgin but I see nothing wrong with you saving yourself...I may be a guy but sometimes I wish I would have saved myself for marriage because I would have definitely appreciated it more and actually got to enjoy my relationship emotionally rather than physically.
2007-03-24 21:36:28 · answer #7 · answered by Rockim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
virgin
I am 17
2007-03-24 21:35:16 · answer #8 · answered by tONY g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 16 but personally, I don't think you're weird. It's your choice and you should never have to worry what other people think about it. Oh and I totally respect that, btw = ).
2007-03-24 21:37:13 · answer #9 · answered by melody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haleluyah,there hope out there .somethings i think im the only one who beleives in waitin.i think you can have a boyfriend and all that but i beleive in waiting .you go girkl and i am with you.i am 18 and still going strong
2007-03-24 21:36:18 · answer #10 · answered by alwayswondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 24 and a virgin.. i believe sex is only meant for marriage
2007-03-24 21:36:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋