not meant for love?

Question

everytime i fall in love with someone is ALWAYS at first sight!!! i first feel a deep attraction and later it turns into a unhealthy infatuation!! this has been happening since i was 6 or 7 yrs old!!,
im 19 now , but have actually never started a relationship,nor even a fling...when i came to the US this immature fire i have always felt totally dissapeared , im a total asexual these days!! and im not liking it at all! i do wanna fall in love , but i cant , maybe its a hormonal problem or a physiological one , u guys tell me! it has been 2 years since i felt anything for anyone and everytime i wanted a boy to be my bf back then , it never happened for some odd reason , either he had a gf already , or he didnt like me , or he moved , i moved ...destiny is being hard on me and still dont get it ! btw im not ugly ,everybody tells me im an interesting person , and i have a life!!!!! but still something failing!!! so now the big question do you believe i may be not meant for love?

Answer 1

Never think that you aren't MEANT for something. I don't believe in destiny. We make our own destinies. You don't need to find love. Love will find you, usually when you least expect it. But when an opportunity comes around and you do find someone who is interested in you, don't give up on it. Give it a shot. Time will tell who you'll spend the rest of your life with. You're only 19. You have a long way to go yet, so don't get in a hurry. Hate to sound cliche, but there are plenty of fish in the sea. You'll make your catch someday. ;-)

Answer 2

of course ur meant for love! everyone is! and u know that being patient always ends with a big reward. so don't worry, god will bring someone to your life who is so amazing that you'll feel silly for asking this question. and besides, ur only 19, that still gives you like a zillion years to find someone lol. so honestly, dont even worry about it, just live your life the way you do and one day someone will come your way!! hey, that rhymed!!!! yes!!! i'm a genius!! lol just joking, but anyways, good luck!!

Answer 3

You can't force love it is something that comes over time and built on trust and communication among other things. Youcant fall in love it has to happen. Give yourself time stop obessing about falling in love and when you least expect it, it will happen

Answer 4

I will tell you what everyone always tells me. It will happen when it happens. Stop looking for it try to stop thinking about it, just try to put yourself in situations where it's possible to meet someone.

Answer 5

you worry too much
im like that too but i take it easier
take it easy talk to me!