One Time I was talking to her and she said other people like me and a lot more than i think, and now whenever i ask her about it she completely ignore the question or changes the subject.Like she doesn't want me to know something. I'm confused can someone give me advice?
2007-03-24 13:47:44 · 12 answers · asked by DaRiste 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Does she have low self esteem or something?"
No, she stars in all the plays at our school and others things she is a very confident girl
2007-03-24 13:54:07 · update #1
Yeah it's just I'm sure if she teasing or for real and other times she says she has a secret she won't tell me.
2007-03-24 13:58:23 · update #2
we been "seeing" each other for 10 months with no problem and I only asked twice I think i made it seem like more than that anyway thanks for the advice
2007-03-24 14:03:19 · update #3
I had that problem once, but I was the girlfriend and my boyfriend was the one that had the swarm of girls that admired him.
I told him once about them, and he'd asked me about it later. It bothered me only because I knew he was thinking about it. And then it led me to think that he might want to break up with me so he can pursue one of these admires. It made me very uncomfortable even talking about it.
I didn't want to loose him and I thought he would suddenly become egotistical and we would split up and he'd leave with the notion that he could get any girl he wanted. I don't know, I liked him a lot and I just didn't want to break-up just yet.
Maybe she feels the same way. But I don't suggest you talk to her so much about it because then it was really make her paranoid. Which is what happened to me. And I ended up breaking it off, not him.
So, that's a heads up for you.
I hope that at least helped you a little. Sorry if it didn't.
2007-03-24 13:59:52 · answer #1 · answered by Elle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I guess what I want to know is, "Why is this such an issue for you?"
She said other people like you a lot more than you think. That's nice to hear, right? So why are you continuing to bring it up?
There are a lot of possibilities here:
> She means someone specific likes you more than you suspect.
> She was trying to make you feel more confident by assuring you that people do like you, although you seem to think they don't.
> She was just making an observation, and she's tired of talking about it.
> Other.
You're reading tea leaves and casting chicken bones trying to find the answers to a question when you don't know what the question is, really. Most people, being told they are liked more than they know, would accept this, smile, and move on.
So why can't you?
2007-03-24 20:53:57 · answer #2 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's ignoring and changing the subject is because, she's probably jealous.
You should do what she's doing. Ignore It. Because you have one girl in your life, and you need to focus on her than all the other girls that likes you, because she probably thinks that you spend too much time thinking about the other girls liking you than her. And if you keep bringing the subject on her again, she'll probably dump you. Just dump the subject, and talk about something else. Ask a friend why these girls like you. Than asking your girlfriend.
I hoped I helped
Good Luck!
2007-03-24 21:03:30 · answer #3 · answered by TempoBronze124 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People all have secrets they don't want to be told bu other people because they afraid that it might destroy a relationship, family, friendship ect..
In your case thou, it really depends of what " other people like me and a lot more than i think" right!""..
And by the way! If you and your girlfriend realy love each other then stop thinking about it!"
2007-03-24 20:56:36 · answer #4 · answered by ArrJay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she have low self esteem or something? If so, she would assume that more people would like you and they could catch you eye before she would. If not, I'm wondering what she's on about?! Maybe she doesn' t trust you?
2007-03-24 20:51:55 · answer #5 · answered by Mandy L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do know she means someone else has feelings for you too, good ones. She changes the subject because it is probably someone she's afraid you will like more than her, and she doesn't like talking about you and other girls.
2007-03-24 20:50:45 · answer #6 · answered by gymnast.girl520 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
other people like you as if im guessing that other girls have a crush on you and she may ignore the subject because she is the jealous type.
2007-03-24 20:50:38 · answer #7 · answered by mary m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She knows at least one girl who likes you and doesn't want to tell you who it is in case you will like her friend better. She doesn't want to get dumped. At least it means your girlfriend doesn't want to break up with you.
2007-03-24 20:51:33 · answer #8 · answered by auteur 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm i don tthink you should worry abou tit.. i think she like syou ALOT and doesnt wanna los eyou to someone else. shes worried. but try not to worry about eho likes you it could hurt her feelings..
2007-03-24 21:00:42 · answer #9 · answered by ♥-lovely 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just jealous! Since other people like you!
2007-03-24 21:15:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋