i want to have sex but I'm only 12 what should i do?

Answer 1

I am 30 years old. I just want to let you know right now, that sex is overrated. A lot of people your age are saying that they are doing things that they are not. A lot of people say they are having sex to fit in. I remember my first time. I was 14. It lasted for about 10 whole minutes. It hurt and I bled a little. Virginity is special. You shouldn't give it away to the first prick that comes after it. If I had it to do all over, I would have waited much longer, maybe even till I was married. Boys will say whatever it takes to get down your panties. And then when the get what they want, most of them dump you and move on to someone else. You really don't want a reputation at your age either. You are the one who will decide what you really want to do. If you do decide to have sex, use a condom. Remember though, condoms do break. What would you do if you got pregnant? Or ended up with AIDS or some other sexually transmitted disease? Also, you could get some sexually transmitted diseases that could make you unable to ever get preganant. ( this happened to one of my sisters friends when she was 14). Think about your future instead. Start thinking about college and a career. Most importantly, talk to your mom or dad about this. If you can't talk to them about how you are feeling , go to one of your school counselors. You really do need to talk to someone about how you are feeling right now.

Answer 2

Not have sex.

By almost anyone's standards, 12 is far too young to be making decisions like that, and it's also quite risky.

I'm no prude, I had sex at 16. Twelve is way too young.

On the other hand, my opinion might not persuade you too much, so if you decide to have sex, make sure it's with the right person... someone who cares about you. You also MUST learn about how to protect yourself from sexually transmitted infections and pregnancy. Having a child at this age would really screw up what plans you may want for your future.

Once you are protected and have found the right person... then I suppose it's gonna be up to you when and if it happens. I think you're too young right now, but I would rather you have sex in a safe way than get pissed about everyone's insistence on not having sex and end up pregnant or something.

Answer 3

Well, 4 one thing don't go calling yourself "sexymama" that is really not something you should want to be known as for 4 at very least 6 yrs!preferably @ least 10yrs!
Any decent person u ask this one 2 will tell u 2 wait because there can b alot of physical / emotional & feeling consequences from having sex which frankly a twelve year old should never have to deal with.
However, if you decide to go ahead with this - make sure a condom is used - protect yourself. Please b aware that your boyfriend( if you have one) is almost certainly going 2 be less attracted/committed 2 you if you make love with him so soon than if you just stay kissing (no matter what he says) . . . and a pregnancy at this age would reallly mess you and your future up bigtime!
I don't mean 2 sound so judgemental but you really need 2 think this one through sweetie.
XxCalypso

Answer 4

till you desire to be considered a whore, yeah that's. no longer calling everyone a whore. that is in simple terms, i recognize from having a chum who lost her virginity at 12, anybody concept she became the biggest **** by way of fact of that. And plus, the likelihood is very low which you are going to land up with the guy contained in the top. no longer impossible, yet low. Your physique isn't thoroughly shaped at 12. that is why you're actually not a 'woman' 12 is plenty too youthful. As, 13, 14, 15, and that i won't have the capacity to assert it approximately me, yet sixteen. i'm pregnant now (18) yet i've got been with the comparable guy for properly over 2 years.

Answer 5

Why do you want to have sex so badly? I think you have unrealistic expectations. Personally, I think you should wait. This is a very grown up decision and I'm not so sure you are ready to handle it and no matter what the other guy says, there are often consequences one must pay as in an STD or pregnancy.

Your life right now should be about you and having a good time, not having any add'l responsibilities

Answer 6

im only 13, but i can say most certainly - 12 IS WAY TO YOUNG TO HAVE SEX! WAIT UNTIL YOU ARE OLDER! i know you are probably hating to hear that, because that is not the answer you wanted to get, but you are going to get it anyway. almost everyone you ask that is going to tell you that you are too young, and you really are. dont do anything you will regret later, like having sex when you are 12. bad plan.

Answer 7

why? It is a thing that is once started you will be sorry. It will only make you jaded and hate sex at an even earlier age. Why don't you wait until you are a bit older so you can understand the emotional level sex brings with it? can you understand that? If you have sex now you are just a whore in my book.And it is not legal

Answer 8

I think the best thing to do is wait until your absolutly sure and be protected. I lost my virginity when I was 11. I'm not proud of it now when thinking about it because I gave it to someone I hope would love me and cherish me forever. And at somepoint, it was so hard for me to let go. Then when I didn't see him, I cried for him making my own self miserable. I regret not waiting because it hurts when things change and take a turn when your not ready. The worst news was when I found out he was married and expecting a child. That crush me. Wait until you are seriously ready and knowledgeable.

Answer 9

wow where do i start...
i know that you want to have sex, and i know you have probably heard of condoms and that type of thing, so you think you can be safe...but at your age, your body is NOT physically ready to do this... you should not feel awkward for having these feelings, it is perfectly normal... but your body is just trying to get you ready for sex, not have sex... wait a few years.
Not to mention that any guy that would be ready to have sex would be older then you, because men mature later in life then woman... so do you want to have sex with a 16 year old. anyone who is around that age who is willing to have sex with a 12 year old is a pervert. they are NOT the type of guy you want to be involved with

Answer 10

get a pen and paper...write " I won't have sex yet, until I'm good and ready".....repeat writing this phrase for about 10 trillion times....(warning: no shortcuts: all handwriting must be legible). when you're done writing, email me immediately! Of course I have to check what you had accomplished (give me a couple of years or so). If everything checks out, I'll set you up with a priest who would give you the proper blessing....100% guaranteed! P.S. the blessing comes with a groom...absolutely FREE!!! .......hurry limited offer only.