Singles & Dating - 19 February 2007

2007-02-19 11:28:04 · 8 answers · asked by US 2 1

Need some advice... me and my girl of 8 years have had a great relationship up until about 3 weeks ago when I was suspecting she was cheating on me, when she needed some help from a guy to get on the police department. She said all it was, was him helping her and nothing else. Yet, she was hiding text messages, calls, and emails.

Well everything went back to normal and I am fine. But I brought it up tonight, I told her just to tell me. I guess we took a "break" about 2 weeks ago and thats when I was suspecting maybe she messed around with him. She swore up and down she didn't.

Tonight, I said jokingly, "if we broke up, after 9 years, and the next day I had sex with another woman, would you be mad?" She said, "no, I would have no right to be, we weren't together." Keep in mind the few day break we took about 2 weeks ago.

Anyway, I know it comes down to trust, but she's done this before.

What do you all think??

2007-02-19 11:27:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've only known this girl for two weeks... we have only been on two dates and spent another day (whole day) together in NYC. We really connect well, and were crushing hard over one another.

Everything seems to be happening so fast... we feel so comfortable with one another and we are just so taken back at how we have only seen eachother three times and that usually it takes longer to like the person, rather than so rapidly. We made out for hours yesterday on the train ride home from NYC and we both kept aweing at how it felt like such a dream.

DO you think were moving to fast? Is there such thing as finding a true connection in two weeks? Do you believe in soul mates?lol...

2007-02-19 11:27:24 · 7 answers · asked by Kyle W 3

about how long it can stand,the problem that they will face,how to solve it,what they will do when they was far from theur love one

2007-02-19 11:27:08 · 5 answers · asked by hEaRt B 1

There is someone I work with that I am attracted to. Problem is he is in a position above me so we can't do anything about it right now. One day he'll be looking me up and down, all smiles, touches, questions about boyfriends, weekend plans and then the next he'll act like it never even happened and it's back to being all professional. I never am at ease with walking in his office for personal conversations or even business ones because he usually says he's busy and then walks out! So I tell myself I don't care, don't want him and go about my business. But then he'll come around and step it up a notch by asking for my email or initiating contact outside work. But then he NEVER contacts me! Why? We have had some very heavy conversations filled with sexual innuendo but the next day it's like they never happened. He is always the one to initiate everything. I am at the point where I am wanting him and can't take this push, pull anymore. Will he EVER ask me out?

2007-02-19 11:26:58 · 8 answers · asked by jewels 2

I like this boy and he knows that I like him. I talked to him a few times, but he never comes up to talk to me. I notice he stares at me (this is not because he sees me staring at him). The only thing that worries me is that he is a junior and I am not sure what is his age; either 16 or 17. Meaning if he is 16 he will turn 17 towards the beginning of July; if 17 he will turn 18. I don't want to think of him as some "creep". Does he like me or not? I know I sound like a gullable 14 year old freshman girl but I focus a lot on my grades. Plus all freshman girls have crushes.

2007-02-19 11:26:28 · 16 answers · asked by Victoria 2

My boyfriend and I had an argument and I went to my ex-boyfriends house so I could have someone to talk to! After awhile I went back to my boyfriends house and I stepped onto the porch and looked through the window I seen him kissing another girl!!! He say, it didn't mean anything but I consider it cheating! I don't know if I should break up with him or not! We have been together for 8 months and he has never did anything like this until now!!

2007-02-19 11:26:14 · 10 answers · asked by CONFuZED 1

we know you are thinking about something but what? what do youi think about through out your day??
just curious!!!

2007-02-19 11:25:52 · 4 answers · asked by misbehaveing 2

Guys only date you depending on what you wear and how you look? I need to know, are guys really that shallow??

2007-02-19 11:25:48 · 5 answers · asked by XlovehappensX 1

2007-02-19 11:25:43 · 7 answers · asked by butterfly 3

website be trusted. Has anyone out there ever (positive or negatively) experienced a date using Craigslist? Thanks.

2007-02-19 11:24:57 · 1 answers · asked by T 1

A few coworkers of mine went out to the bar one night and had a great time. We called a cab aroun 3 in the morning to pick us up and drop us off at my friends house. Well my female coworker and I ended up in the backseat cuddling when she turned her legs toward me and placed the two of them on my lap so her hamstring and butt were touching my left leg. She may have just been getting confortable, but i've never had a girl cuddle with me like that unless they had other intentions. I never made a move I was frankly too tired and drunk. What do ya'll think?

2007-02-19 11:24:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-19 11:24:33 · 8 answers · asked by boobear735 1

what do guys worry.as a woman i know what us girls worry about, but i have no clue about you guys!!!

2007-02-19 11:23:14 · 9 answers · asked by misbehaveing 2

What age were you when you lost your virginity? Where were you? Who was the guy/girl? I was 17 years old. I was in my boyfriend house on the sofa. My boyfriend.

2007-02-19 11:22:38 · 11 answers · asked by Proud Mommy 2

My boyfriend is a very kind and romantic person who knows how to treat you well as a woman, but he is a flirt. He likes to flirt with other woman by giving her compliments but when you confront him he says that you are he truly loves and he doesn't like those women at all, that to him all women are beautiful but he is the only person who he has feelings for, and then he tells me I am too jealous, but he likes me to be that way.

This is a new relationship so I don't want to seem to possessive, and the guy treats me like no other person would, but is it healthy for be to be spying on the messages he leaves to women online etc? We are just starting so maybe he is going to change?

2007-02-19 11:22:06 · 5 answers · asked by Kiss 1

have you ever suffered a psychological blocage while you were in a relationship ..a situation where you don't know where to go or what to do ....for example, leave or stay with your mate ? do something your mate ask to do , you would like to do it, but internally you're blocked and cannot decide ..leaving in a complete state of indecision ...Have you ever been there ?

2007-02-19 11:21:45 · 1 answers · asked by bobby s 1

i met some1 on the net and we became very close but he lives in Germany he is really nice and we both young he wants to come over here to me BUT....... what will happen if i don't like him in person or he don't like me when he gets here.... do u think its a bad idea to ever meet any1 on the net? we known each other for 1 and half years we web cam all the time ..... would u say it was right for me to let him come and stay with me? grrrrr i'm confused :( .....

2007-02-19 11:19:44 · 15 answers · asked by vicsta 2

My girlfriend and I have gotten along well but have never reached any kind of emotional chat. Since we started dating she has always been generally reserved. Sometimes she will say affectionate things, but only through texting. I am shy too, but i go more out of my way to talk with her. She is also very busy with a job on top of school. We are in High school, by the way. What should I do to get closer to her?

2007-02-19 11:17:45 · 7 answers · asked by taWd2260 1

i've been dating my girlfriend Alyssa for 8 1/2 months now, but now things are starting to break away. I LOVE THIS GIRL with all my heart. im afraid if she leaves me i might do something stupid. not to her but to myself. can someone please help me. my messenger sn is golonghorns2008. PLEASE. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO.

2007-02-19 11:17:38 · 5 answers · asked by golonghorns2008 1

Well when I first asked him out he said no, then yes, then no and well I wasn't sure what to believe.. Now we are going out but now I want to take our relationship to the next step and he had no idea of what I was talking about! When he finally thought about it he thought I wanted sleep with him but he was soooo wrong! All I wanted was my first kiss! And well he didn't seem to know that! And now I am wondering if he is really worth it! Please help me!!!

2007-02-19 11:17:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Once he touched me on my breast and then he touched my hand, and after that he said he had a crush on me and he always touches me and my friends butts in lunch line. I'm starting to feel very uncomfortable around him. Please help me!

2007-02-19 11:16:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have lots of friends, but lots of them don't have the internet and i love talking online, but i don't want to meet any wierd physcho child molesters!!!!!!!

2007-02-19 11:16:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been on about two official dates with this girl. Other times I've spent with her have been in mine and her apartment, just talking and finding out more about one another, etc. I've already got over the kissing stage, we make physical contact very often now and kiss all the time, but we've only known each other for about a week and a half.

Last night I asked her if she felt we were exclusive, and if we should be. She said yes, and I agreed. Was it too soon to be asking that kind of question?

2007-02-19 11:16:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-19 11:16:38 · 9 answers · asked by artie4848 2

I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 2+ years. Before we met, she had been engaged, but the guy dumped her. A year later, she and I began dating and then lived together for about a year. Things were wonderful and we were planning the future, etc. All of a sudden, she said that she wanted to stop living together. She said that she was afraid of commitment -- she feared things ending the way they did with her ex. She told me that she wanted to think things over but still see me. I wanted to show her that I was there for her, so we continued to see each other for almost a year. We remained close and exclusive, and I believe she still loved me. I recently moved away for job reasons. She made it clear that she wasn't ready to move with me, so I broke it off, saying that I didn't want to hear from her unless she was ready to discuss a commitment.

We haven't spoken in a month. I feel empty - like I've lost my best friend. I want to call her. Should I? How do I deal with this pain?

2007-02-19 11:15:51 · 12 answers · asked by Doc 1

I'm a 22 year old college guy at an Ivy League school. I have never dated (virgin, ect.). Tell me the bad news - its hopeless, right? Are there a lot of guys my age who have never dated?

If you had to estimate - what percentage of the American male populace has never dated over 20? 10%? 20%? I'm not religious or anything (I'm an agnostic). Is it possible to go through life unscathed without ever having dated or having been in love? I heard that males who are single cut off approximately 20 years from their lives. This is terrible news for me - I want to live at least until 80 - and now theres a possibility that my life will be cut short because I have never been in love? WTF.

I really hope I'm not missing out on anything. Some people tell me that I'm really not missing out on anything anyways. Is this true? Let me know your thoughts.

2007-02-19 11:12:26 · 2 answers · asked by Marc 1

I'm starting to think I have serious trust issues. Because he has always been the perfect boyfriend, since day one. He's never given me a reason to not trust him and he is very faithful and loyal, but for some reason I still am always worrying that he is talking to girls and hiding it from me....even though there are absolutely no signs of it. And when he goes out to the mall or somewhere It bothers me because I dont want him to be hanging out with girls :/ I guess I'm just scared of losing him, because he's so amazing that every girl would want him. Even though he says he only wants me, and it shows, I want to be able to quit worrying all the time! Any advice?

2007-02-19 11:10:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have this freind we were great friends since elementary, i never knew that i feal in love with him untill now, and he is not dating anyone what should i do, i love him soooooooooooooooooooooooo much.

2007-02-19 11:10:17 · 9 answers · asked by ocean 1

2007-02-19 11:10:13 · 7 answers · asked by babyash 2