i met some1 on the net what can i do ????

Question

i met some1 on the net and we became very close but he lives in Germany he is really nice and we both young he wants to come over here to me BUT....... what will happen if i don't like him in person or he don't like me when he gets here.... do u think its a bad idea to ever meet any1 on the net? we known each other for 1 and half years we web cam all the time ..... would u say it was right for me to let him come and stay with me? grrrrr i'm confused :( .....

Answer 1

I'd say don't let him or her stay in your house at first! I had talked to my boyfriend (that I met online) for a while before we even cammed or talked on the phone, and the first time we met it was very public and it was just a day trip.. but seeing as your friend lives in Germany, the best idea would be to have him or her stay in a hotel and for you guys to hang out in public, and definately tell people that he's coming down.. and keep a cell with you! .. and pepper spray, LOL.
And if he's in a hotel and you 2 don't get along, at least he can have a nice trip and get to sight-see and stuff ^.^

Answer 2

I don't think you should let him stay with you the first time he comes over. Invite him to come stay in your home town and meet him each day, that way you'll be somewhere public.
It's not a bad idea to meet someone over the net as long as you keep your safety as your top priority. But you have been talking a long time, if he were just after one thing he probably would have been long gone.
You won't know until you do it if you like each other in person, just have a chat with him before he comes and make it clear that you'll both be honest about how you feel about each other when he comes.
And no matter what happens, you'll have your friendship which seems to be quite strong already.
Best of luck to you both :-)

Answer 3

I am single and have been for a long time. I think meeting people on the Internet is a dangerous game to be playing and would never try it myself - you never know what the person is really like. Yes, there is a web cam involved here, but that doesn't mean he's telling the truth...

Answer 4

If you've been web cam-ing for over a year I'm not quite sure why you need to ask.

If you are underage I would suggest informing your parents if they do not yet know about this relationship.

If you are of age the best solution would be to meet on mutual ground, B and B in separate rooms and get to know each other in person that way (unless of course the attraction is so strong you just can't keep your hands off each other).

There really is only one to find out if you want to take the relationships further and that is to meet. If you are too scared it not working out if you meet in person, just carry on the way you are.

The choice is yours. Good Luck whatever you decide.

Answer 5

if u webcam a lot then he has probably seen u and u have seen him as well so this thing about him not liking u or u not liking him will not happen...........the main issue is u have only known him through the net...........he could always put on an act when he is online with u...........u will need to meet him in person and find out if he is really like the person u have known through the net.........having said that meeting people over the net is very dangerous and i don't approve of that

Answer 6

in case you're saying which you have a surprising marrige then my question to you is why are you searching for somebody new???? first of all you owe your existence on your husband and expecially in case you have young ones!! i understand that it relatively is tricky once you have young ones, a job, and all the stupid issues that are required to be a mom, yet suck it up. I even have 2 boys and that i grow to be with my young ones dad for ten years each thing grow to be undesirable. We hated eachother and fought continuously. So me being stupid I went out to the bar met somebody new and we began talking. Then approximately 2 years went on with this hollow having yet another boyfriend on the area and then my young ones dad found out. i presumed issues have been undesirable earlier nicely now he hates me and the little ones are mad at me too.i think of that while you're unhappy with the marrige which you have it relatively is okay for a devorce yet do no longer do it reason you got here across somebody else do it reason issues are not stable. PLus the different guy grow to be relatively stable to me yet noty my young ones dad and he ended up dishonest on me with somebody else too so I say end what you commence earlier leaping into some thing else

Answer 7

first of all and more importantly you meet in a public place and if you can with a friend. best that he stays in a hotel or rent a room for a week then he stays with you. you got to think of your safety. meet as friends for the first few times then go from there. don't take things too seriously because you may not get on with him or he with you. good luck with everything.

Answer 8

If you're really that unsure, I'd have nothing more to do with him. He may not even live in Germany, he may not be a nice man, he may be a paedophile who's grooming you for his own wicked ways. Don't part with any contact details & be very careful. If you HAVE to meet, choose a public place wth loads of people.

Answer 9

it's a bit dangerous lol you don't know if this person is who he is saying he is. because they are freaks out there. i think its a bad idea to have him come and stay with you. i personally don't think its a good idea to fall for someone on the net because you don't know who they are. you don't want to be disappointed i know they are genuine people but i wouldn't take the risk you maybe inviting a killer in your home lol.

Answer 10

dont let him stay in your house for goodness sake you may have seen him on the cam and spoke to him BUT you still dont truly know him by all means let him come over and start off with being friends then see how it goes, gd luck and look after yourself. x