My boyfriend and I had an argument and I went to my ex-boyfriends house so I could have someone to talk to! After awhile I went back to my boyfriends house and I stepped onto the porch and looked through the window I seen him kissing another girl!!! He say, it didn't mean anything but I consider it cheating! I don't know if I should break up with him or not! We have been together for 8 months and he has never did anything like this until now!!
2007-02-19 11:26:14 · 10 answers · asked by CONFuZED 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, you did go to your x bf's house, that's probably not good. But yes, he was cheating, that is definitely cheating. I would say he isn't a keeper unless you are the only girl he is interested in, I just think mabe it is time for you to find someone who is really into you... Do you really want to have that inbetween you two?! But I do know how hard it is to let go of someone you care about ... So if you do decide to say good bye, In order to keep it that way, make yourself busy, go out with other ppl, hang out with your x, work a lot, do whatever it takes otherwise you will find yourself missing him, especially at night
2007-02-19 11:33:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. Every time you have an argument is he going to go find someone else to be with? I don't think whether it meant anything is the point. It just seems like he's doing it to punish you. You deserve someone more mature and won't sneak behind your back the minute things aren't going his way. Good luck.
2007-02-19 11:31:59 · answer #2 · answered by mjm52 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know he never did anything like this until now? Maybe this is the first time you caught him... although I do wonder was it payback at you for going to your ex's? That's kind of a slap in his face- maybe he just wanted you to hurt the way he was hurting. Either way I'd say it obvious you two aren't right for each other.
2007-02-19 11:31:32 · answer #3 · answered by gagesmomm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve it..you cheated on him also by going to your ex'es house.
I would have done the same thing...good for you! and kudo's ! to your boyfriend soon to be ex..for using his brains and not getting involved with a cheater.
2007-02-19 11:30:31 · answer #4 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ah let him go he probably doesn't like you too much if he was all over this other girl. Move on, and don't be afraid to live alone forever and have love avoid you.
2007-02-19 11:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by trancemix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this YOUR decision? Sounds like he already made his...
2007-02-19 11:28:38 · answer #6 · answered by Keenu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump him hes obviously a creep ....dont mean to be mean....but its true...you make the choice {~â¥~}
2007-02-19 11:31:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him steppin'.
2007-02-19 11:29:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know he didn't do anything until now? Do you know that for an absolute fact? Be careful, you have ONLY one heart.
2007-02-19 11:33:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
drop the loser
2007-02-19 11:29:38 · answer #10 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋