I'm starting to think I have serious trust issues. Because he has always been the perfect boyfriend, since day one. He's never given me a reason to not trust him and he is very faithful and loyal, but for some reason I still am always worrying that he is talking to girls and hiding it from me....even though there are absolutely no signs of it. And when he goes out to the mall or somewhere It bothers me because I dont want him to be hanging out with girls :/ I guess I'm just scared of losing him, because he's so amazing that every girl would want him. Even though he says he only wants me, and it shows, I want to be able to quit worrying all the time! Any advice?
2007-02-19 11:10:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let him be him. If he never wants you to go to the mall with him, that should raise some flags. You either trust him or you don't.
2007-02-19 11:14:50 · answer #1 · answered by B aka PE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem.. maybe not so extreme since I don't worry when he hangs out with friends, but I'm very paranoid too. I guess you just have to trust him, if he doesn't really give any signs that he's cheating.. That's what I do, anyways.
Sorry if that didn't help, I just figured I should say something since I'm in the same situation! I figure it's because I've been hurt in the past.. if it's the same for you, you have to remember that he's not like everyone else ^.^ .
2007-02-19 19:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by dragonfly_soup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im going through the same problem, only im the guy. my girlfriend is always worried when i hang out with someone else that has been a friend for my whole life who happens to be a girl. all i have to say is that i LOVE my girlfriend and i would have to say that you just have to trust him and if you two love eachother then you shouldnt worry, he will not do anything to hurt you.
2007-02-19 19:55:14 · answer #3 · answered by trueblue0770 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to have the same problem with my boyfriend. Hun if this is bothering you ask him. thats the best thing to do. Ive been with my bf for 7 months on and off because i had trust issues with him and he cheated on me 4 times.
2007-02-19 19:15:16 · answer #4 · answered by kellyozzball 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl dont worry every female gets those insecure thoughts just push them off to the side because he isnt hurting u in any way or mistreating you so i would assume you have a healthy relationship. now if u saw an extreme change in his ways thats when u start to worry for now just chill if not ur gonna stress urself for nothing.
2007-02-19 19:18:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paranoia will destroy ya. You cant live in constant fear. If he is going to cheat hes going to cheat. What will be will be and what is meant to be will be aswell. Try to settle down and go with the flow. Its not healthy to live in constant fear and worry. Enjoy life. Theirs a million things in this life to worry about. If you do that your not going to enjoy your life very much are you? Try to hope for the best and try your best. Afterall thats all any of us can do. Good Luck.
2007-02-19 19:27:55 · answer #6 · answered by Smarty Pants™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you get jealous sometimes,some guys like to know that there girlfriend really does care and cant stand a chance to lose them. after you tell him ask him if they were to break up how long would it take to get over you.. if he gives you a good answer then you can trust him. don't be to overprotective cus then you would just look like you don't trust him at all.
good luck :]
2007-02-19 19:16:49 · answer #7 · answered by x3_myz_k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be confident in yourself. If he is hanging out or talking with other girls to get you jealous or to boost his ego though, then, he is immature. And, if he flirts with others in front of you, then, that means he has no regard for your feelings. Like he would want you to do that to him, right?
2007-02-19 19:15:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm..
maybe its not him you dont trust its the girls.
If hes amazing try to not worry about it.
its just a faze everyone gets parinoid sometimes.
It will go away.
2007-02-19 19:15:15 · answer #9 · answered by Sadie R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was just like that. obviously u talked to him about it. but yea i think its normal. mayb he feels the same way about u. lol. but yea learn to trust him some more and discuss it more with him than askin us.
2007-02-19 19:18:13 · answer #10 · answered by dred_loxx_4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋