Singles & Dating - 27 January 2007

im addicted to my relationship. im not happy and i keep going back. it wasnt my fault that it got messed up. he broke my trust and now im the bad guy for complaining, crying, and fussing. i break up with him and go back. this has been going on for 2 1/2 yrs. ive lost my sef esteem. i leave him and then he sweet talks me and i let him back. knowing deep down inside what he is capable of. i see what im doing and for some reason i keep doing. all i have to do is ask him to go and he'll go but i hate the fact that he is willing to leave me without a fight. it hurts and i dont know what to do. ive prayed and i cant afford counseling. is there anyone that can give me some encouraging words. i feel real bad and emty inside as a woman. im begining to wonder if all men are like this. he doesnt take anything that i say serious, i guess cuz i keep taking him back. plz anyone what can i do?

2007-01-27 14:24:39 · 34 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4

I've been chatting with this really nice guy online , he lives in my city but we are running out of subjects because we dont know each other personally so i dont know his friends or anything. Yes i know i can ask him questions about this and that BUT i dont want to feel o him to feel that i am interrogating him. I want it to be casual , i make him laugh thats good but as i said i dont want to ask question after question.

PS: He is really hot , older , decent , intelligent ,he is great ( and yes i've checked him)

2007-01-27 14:24:18 · 7 answers · asked by dancrow 2

I thought looking at others' dating problems would help me with mine.

2007-01-27 14:23:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a Chinese guy and I think this Chinese girl has fallen in love with me. I think so but I am not 100% sure. I try to google for answers but nothing much came out. What would a shy girl do from your experience and opinion?

2007-01-27 14:23:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-27 14:22:10 · 6 answers · asked by Clark Kent 1

whats are some great date ideas, for very little money, its winter weather, 17 degrees, and it must be a fun time for both the guy and the girl.

2007-01-27 14:21:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

ilike this girl, shes perfect, one day i told her that i liked her, she said eww, now shes sleepin over at my cousins house and shes taunting me, acting like she likes me, im so depressed, idk wat to do

2007-01-27 14:19:40 · 7 answers · asked by N0LaNbPiMpIn985 F.O.B. 3

Some of these avatars are sexy.

2007-01-27 14:18:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

What should my friend and i get our bf's for valentines day-besides boxers. we are only 13

2007-01-27 14:18:27 · 9 answers · asked by vittyvittyt 2

I was just wondering what other people think is more important in determining whether a relationship would work with someone you've been chatting with and getting to kinow for a little while.

2007-01-27 14:17:48 · 12 answers · asked by veiled_n_chantress 2

Im a sophmore in highschool. There is this really good looking guy, hes into freshmen girls for some reason. I know we have alot in common. If he noticed me i know hed like me but he hasnt. Im pretty, i guess. How can i get his attention?

2007-01-27 14:17:05 · 6 answers · asked by L M 1

i dont agree with paying for the date web sites, if you wish to chat or mail exchange,please leave an address to reach you at!! i`m an honest guy,fairly new to province so i have not met a bunch of people yet!! looking for long term!! thanks for looking!! i`m 51,and would like honesty over age,as age is just a # no head games ,been there done that,

2007-01-27 14:16:48 · 2 answers · asked by harold 2

there's this guy i like alot and i think he kinda likes me,BUT we're both shy. how can a start a good conversation with him.

keywords here: BOTH SHY (well not around friends)
what should i do?

2007-01-27 14:16:47 · 3 answers · asked by umm hey 1

2007-01-27 14:16:07 · 14 answers · asked by kei46animax 1

This guy, lets call him Jacob, and I have science and english together. At random times in class he'll just come up to me and start petting my hair. I'll ask him why he's petting me and he'll just say "I dont know" and keep on petting my hair. Jacob also rubs my face. He'll just come up behind me and start rubbing my face (usually its after he pets me). What does it mean and why is he doing it?

2007-01-27 14:16:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Alright. well i asked this kid that i really liked to semi and he said that he'd love to go. this is the first time im going with a date to a semi, yes i havnt had many boyfriends atleast not around the semi formal dances. and were expected to dance. now i no how to dance and grind and everything, its just the leading up to it. were just going as friends, and i dont want to seem to touchy, and hes not the dancing type. how to i get him to dance with me?

2007-01-27 14:15:28 · 2 answers · asked by MamaMiax3 1

There's a guy, he's attractive (7.5 out of 10), I've seen him at three places consistently.

Coffee shop/Lounge, there almost every day reading.

Library, always working at the same area in the morning

Games, I see him in the crowd at intramural games sometimes, sitting in the crowding, sometimes reading, sometimes watching

my friends and I are kind of stalking him, should I approach him?

2007-01-27 14:13:59 · 7 answers · asked by someone 1

Im in seventh grade and im in LOVE with a guy in eighth.He and his gorgeous gf abby dont even act like there going out..but when they do i get so jelous.The guy dosent know who i am..but my friends sometimes go up to him and say "a girl really likes you" but all he says is whatever.How can i get him to notice me?

2007-01-27 14:13:22 · 11 answers · asked by Taylor F 1

I showed interest in a guy, he said we should just be friends because he's not ready for a relationship - and then he started going out with someone new within a week (!)

I found someone new, and we were on the phone (like friends do!) talking about how I could see myself with this guy for the long haul if things work out. He said "So you think he is someone that you could be in for the long haul with?"

Then he was silent for a second and said very un-enthusiasticly "well....that's good, I guess."

Why would he be jealous when he has someone new, who moved in with him after a week? Is it because I took away his option of me? Or did he just not know what to say?

2007-01-27 14:13:10 · 9 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4

I'm gonna tell mary I think. She will put em in there place.

2007-01-27 14:12:47 · 6 answers · asked by kurticus1024 7

I know this question kind of insane, because everyone has diiffernt choice of color, but I really wanna know what color a girl like to see in boy's cloths? or Out fit?
Thank You

2007-01-27 14:12:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

AND, if so, how often and what happened in case it didn't work out? What did you do? Well, I have been going out in dates with my college classmates and it seems like it might create some problems since they are also my co-workers (closed-net school). There are some guys at my work/school I'm really interested in and they won't ask me out (even though I've given them the "signals"). You think it's because they are afraid of consequences in case it doesn't work out?

My dating pattern: I don't give kisses or have sex w guys that easily. Never sex; kiss, maybe after the 10th date. So, I'm safe there.
Signals: Smiling in class or at meetings. Offering to hang out with them during weekends...

2007-01-27 14:10:45 · 4 answers · asked by soosool 2

6th grader and 9th grader. idk wat to do! they have both asked me out like 10 times and i have said no all the times they have asked me they know i have a boyfriend. I have already tried being mean to them but that doesnt work. the 9th grader texts me all the time saying he wish i would break-up with my bf cause he loves me and that hes better! HELP!!!!

2007-01-27 14:09:44 · 20 answers · asked by Brooke 1

There are two boys at my school that I'm friends with, and i like both of them. They both like me as well, and I am completely at a loss at what I should do. One of them is fun and easy going, while the other is quiet and slightly introverted, but is interesting in that mysterious way. I don't know how to choose and I don't want to lead them on at all. How do I know which one I should pick?

2007-01-27 14:09:30 · 10 answers · asked by clairebear 1

We were coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said "that's so sweet." So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a cursh on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said "that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she walks behind me and pats me on the head and saids hey. I gave this girl this crush note, well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty hazel eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends.
I gave it to her 2 weeks ago and when I saw her the next day she didn't say anything about it. But she was receptive she gave me a big smile and I was too stupid to do nothing. I was kinda down that day and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said "You don't like me anymore" and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me.When she said that I knew she kinda like me or she was just playing games with me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the note and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. I also wrote a note to her this is what it said. "If I could talk to angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. She was about to cry after she read it. I told her not to and she gave me a hug and that was it. She talk to friend and he told me what she said. "Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it." She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees and she feels uncomfortable around me. And told the manager she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep it after she clock out of work. So this past wednesday I was walking near her and the manager and she thought I was walking towards her, but I wasn't she walk away pretty fast in a different direction. So we both ignore each other that night. And havn't seen each other since. Her coworker friend said she talks about me, but nothing negative. I think the manager question her about the angel when she brought it in the office and that's why she told him. Were both in our late teens. Some of the girls that work there are jealous of her. I guess it's because the manager saids to the other girls "If there were more girls like her are business would be alot better." He said that because she is really nice to the customers.
The female employers say she a flirter. I haven't seen her at work in a week. The managers tried calling her, but she hasn't answer the phone. There thinking she quit. She miss three days so far. I go to school with her, but I haven't gone in 3-4 days. but I went today.She seem real happy and when she saw me. She didn't talk to me though she use the teacher to get my attention they were right in front of me.Se said to the teacher that she quit her job and she got a new job. Like the teacher really cares right. So I didn't say anything to her I didn't know what to say I just pretended i didn't care either. When she said she quit her job just made me think she doesn't like me. Idk. She seem kinda moody that day I guess cause I didn't talk to her.
I was talking to this other girl who was a new student and she walk past us, but ignore us like we weren't there. So when I was about to leave she got out of class saw me and turn around and called her friend to come here then I left cause my ride was here. What do you think that meant? So we haven't seen each other in a week, but I will see her tomorrow at school in class. Should I try and talk to her or let her come to me? I'm thinking about talking to the new student who goes there now. Not to make the girl I like jealous, but get to know the new girl and see if I like her, but what if the girl I like starts to do something about it? I don't know what to do? I still kinda like this girl, but I just don't want her to get mad for talking to another girl to see if I like her or not. I went to school today and I think the new girl is takin. This guy sat by her and talk to her all through class. But the girl I like was trying to figure out why I been ignoring for the past 2 weeks? I heard her and her friend talking about me. All I heard was her saying is "why is he ignoring me for. I was nice to him" she said. So she kinda tried and get my attention I was walking behind her and she turn around and see if I was looking at her. I didn't look at her I look straight down the floor. So she turns her head around and saids I for got something and tries to bump into me. That was that. So i'm playing hard to get so how long do I do this? Will she try and talk to me or she expects me to make some eye contact with her or something? Well I said hey to her at school today and she said you still work at that job and I said "yes" and she said "bless you." And that was it. The reason she said bless me is because she was surprise that I still work there. She didn't like it there and that's why she quit and works with her boyfriend now. My friend told me last week that he saw her with her friends about 2 months ago and he said to her you know my friend likes you know and she saids "I hate him." I told one of her friends that she has a mouth on her and I guess she got mad at me for that. So now whenever she around me she doesn't use foul mouth language and if does she saids sorry. But that was a 2 months ago. It's really hard to talk to her when she's around her friends, cause she acts different around them. This past wednesday she was asking people for gum in class.Everyone said no. Then she ask me and I gave her a piece and she said thank you and I said your welcome. She did that at work too asking for gum when she knew no one else had gum to give her. Anyways in the end she still with the boyfriend. Right now i'm confuse on if she likes me or not?

2007-01-27 14:08:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf said that he would go to united states with me cuz im currently living in another country.. but now he says that he doesnt wanna go he wants to stay and i dunno what to do =S! im not staying cuz i know ill have a better academic future in USA but i dont wanna leave him either =( we have a reeeally good relationship right now ...what do i do o_O ?

2007-01-27 14:07:40 · 4 answers · asked by JeZieL 1

there's this one guy and we're really close friends. but before i met him, he was close friends with this other girl. now that girl and i are best friends and that guy is one of our buddies. he always teases me by saying stuff like ur mean, spoiled, etc. but i always yell stop and he just laughs. he like never teases my best friend and always teases me. and he always finds a way to make me mad and when i do get mad at him or say stop, he just smiles and says i'm just messing with u. does any of this mean he likes me? i'm really worried becuz he's a really good friend and i don't want him to like me more than a friend cuz everything would be awkward. sometimes i believe he doesn't but then he always teases me and never teases my best friend. my friends also think he does like me but i just ignore them cuz i want to believe that he doesn't.

2007-01-27 14:07:23 · 11 answers · asked by Summer l 2

I see him all the time and we hang out ALL THE TIME! He always puts his arm around me when we're walking together and he's very touchy with me. But he's always telling me how he likes one of my best friends. And when we talk on the phone, he tells me that he knows she doesn't like him but "there's nobody else to like." Why does he call me, and hug me, and tell me how he's never been kissed before and in the next breath, basically tells me he likes my best friend?

2007-01-27 14:04:46 · 12 answers · asked by DivaHawk 3

I'm with this guy and we're deeply in love but I dont know exactly what this means:

He and I usually sneak into the dark auditorium before school to be alone since we dont have time to outside of that. (I dont know if this makes a difference but he's 17 and I'm 15) He was leaning up against the wall and we were kissing and holding each other and doing other relatively dirty romantic things (But no clothes came off and it was pretty light, nothing orgasmic). I started kissing his neck and his ear and then just let him hold me.

After a few minutes of silence he told me that he had just "Let it go". I asked him what that meant and he said he had just cummed. I reminded him that we hadn't really done anything. He said that he knew. I asked him if it was because I was "really that hot" and he said yes.

What does this mean? Why did he "let it go"? Does he love me that much?

2007-01-27 14:03:47 · 28 answers · asked by Angie 2

This guy i have a crush on have heath together and we have to take care of this pack of flour!

2007-01-27 14:02:39 · 15 answers · asked by coolawesomebrainpower 2