Singles & Dating - 23 January 2007

I am friends with this guy and sort of have feelings for him. When we hang out, he often brings up his ex girlfriend (mostly negatively). Does this mean he still has feelings for her? They broke up over a year ago.

2007-01-23 08:16:59 · 26 answers · asked by Bo B 2

First, let's get what might be your assumptions out of the way before you read on. I'm 27, so I'm not speaking from a 15-year-old's perspective here. I don't hate women, if I did, I would most likely be gay.

Here's my gripe:

Finding a decent girl is basically like trying to find proof of Bigfoot's exsistence, damn near impossible. The ones that are out there always seem to be taken of course.

The rest all seem to be after one or more of the following:
1. Guys with lots of money
2. Guys that are exceptionally good looking
3. Guys with expensive cars
4. Guys that treat them like ****

Most girls won't even give your average guy a second look.

Why is this? And please, by all means, prove me wrong.

2007-01-23 08:15:21 · 34 answers · asked by onlyget1shot 3

im a seventeen year old grl. out of curosity if u wer my age, wat would be the maximum age of a guy u would date?

2007-01-23 08:15:01 · 46 answers · asked by pixiexxpixiexpixie 2

So, I hit this one boy in my class with my left hand (and I'm VERY weak with my left hand!) and noticed he was strong, that he really could beat me up ... but is it true that guys are stronger then girls?
Am I weak? ???!

2007-01-23 08:13:55 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

little while ago I told this girl that I like her and she told me that she likes me too, evrything was fine but few dates later she told me that she is not ready for relationship yet...just got divorced
I was cool about and understanding, i backed off a little but we talk all the time, catch a movie or a dinner on ocasions....she tells me everything about her divorce
just last night when we talked I told her that I'm waiting for a friend of mine to give me a ride, and she says "I wish you woul dhavecall me , any time you need a ride just give me a call''
is she trying to get closer to me after telling me about a month ago that she is notready and she is confused?
back then she was thorn and little hurt by the divorce but since than her husband turn the divorce into an ugly battle field and now she hates his guts
what is going on?

2007-01-23 08:13:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would prefer it if guys answered this. If u were a 17 yr old guy, and you liked this 15 yr old girl. U've liked each other for the longest time but u never said anything. Both of u had never had a relationship with anyone else, but then the girl gets tired of waiting, and starts going out someone else, but breaks up with them after a while. You know she still likes u and u like her, but you tell ur friend that u'll never go out with her because she already had a boyfriend. Y would u do this? or would u do this?

2007-01-23 08:12:56 · 3 answers · asked by Estrella 1

So i have been through a few realtionships and the guys when they would talk and no action etc.. well, they all said i deserve someone better than them.they did try to get serious with me,but they felt they were not good enough for me and to support wise. well i just got out a serious realtionship and we were engaged,i still love him with all my heart,he had problems with his mom she was over controling,she threathed him.. and he was trying to move out..etc... i know supporting wise he probably isnt good... yes i do miss him,i would love him and i to be together again..but.. why do guys get serious with me then ditch me because they say i deserve someone better?then they go with other girls who cant really be honest and they end up hurting them anyway..i mean whats wrong with me,im honest,loving and respectful and i love to give my heart to someone...also my ex does not make sence the recent guythat i was en,he still loves me but i dont know what we are.. please help and explain this.

2007-01-23 08:12:20 · 9 answers · asked by Andrea 3

ok this guy i like seems like he likes me too but tell me what you think............
~at the basketball game yesterday(hes on the team on im on the pom pon team)he would watch the game and then look directly at me for about a minute and then look away like i saw him(i think he knew that i did) and he kept doing that throughout the entire thing
~also in the hallways he would push his friends or be "tough" to show off in front of me
~ about 4 of my friends have already told him i like him
~i'm not allowed to have a boyfriend
~and i dont have very much courage

1. My friends say that i should go out with him (i cant)
2. my friends say i should just tell him ( i dont have the courage)
3. it seems as though he likes me but i cant tell tell me what u think!!
Thanks so much!

2007-01-23 08:10:19 · 12 answers · asked by Pom Pon Girl 161377 3

I get really jealous over my boyfriend when other girls talk to him. It's just that he’s sooo hot (and perfect!) in my eyes that I think any girl who is talking to him, or who is friends with him, must want to take him from me. Rationally, I realize this probably isn’t the case and that most girls aren’t plotting to steal him from me, but my feelings stay the same.
If I continue being so jealous, I know our relationship won’t last. What can I do to stop myself from being possessive and jealous?

2007-01-23 08:09:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my relationship? For the past two weeks my boyfriend of almost 2 months has been confused and having mixed emotions about our relationship. He has told me once that he is losing interest in the relationship, so he hasn't called me much or aimed. He goes from thinking the relationship wont work, to feeling really content and happy with it. I don't know what to do, i'm afraid I might lose him. I know if we end up breaking up, that we will stay friends, but I love him and would do anything to keep it alive. I know he likes me alot and cares for me more than anyone, but he can't seem to make up his mind on what he really wants. do you think maybe he is just scared of the outcome? he has fallen in love before and had his heart broken, so how do I keep him from believing I'll do the same? Thanks.

2007-01-23 08:07:30 · 10 answers · asked by Meika_Chan 2

how do u recognize if a guy likes u , u no, some kinda body language.
BE SURE 2 LEAVE U R AGE;)(teenagers have more chances of best answer!)

2007-01-23 08:06:50 · 7 answers · asked by XxDeepxX 2

I was hanging with my friends and then I saw this boy that I think is soooo cuteeee and everyone is in love with him. One of my friends already knew that I like...love him lol but then I guess she got tired of me saying that everyday so 2day she went up to him and I was said "my friend likes you. You should go hug her or talk to her"...and then the boy was like "I'm shyyy"

What does that mean?? Causeee that boy is not shy at all I see him at school and he's really popular

2007-01-23 08:06:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its not alot but like dots here and there... and this is the 2nd time its happened and its freaking me out!

2007-01-23 08:06:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

try it out see how it fits ? I think it sounds pretty sweet on ya!!!

2007-01-23 08:05:48 · 10 answers · asked by lowroad 1

2007-01-23 08:05:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a crush on a guy in school, should i tell him, i am very shy

2007-01-23 08:04:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this guy but i have noo idea how im spose to tell him. what do i do?

2007-01-23 08:04:46 · 2 answers · asked by kalee m 1

i dated a guy for 2 in a half months then he broke it off. what should i do to get over him. plz give me any adivce. Men r welcome to answer.

2007-01-23 08:04:28 · 11 answers · asked by Angel 4

I am in a relationship, happy, I'm 39, and very sexually active with him, I love being close to him, and no its not the only thing I love doing things with him, for him, cooking, hanging out, its a full relationship. However I found out on here that he only wants sex like 2x a week at most, and he never told me, he tells others. I feel stupid and not wanting to have sex anymore, how do I approach this with him?

2007-01-23 08:04:28 · 17 answers · asked by Cute Stuff 3

how do you tell a guy you like him

2007-01-23 08:03:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little bit over 2 years. We broke up once in November because he wasn't working and his drug problem. Well he is doing a lot better now. He has a job, doesn't do drugs, and he is going back to school. All of sudden this week, he has been ignoring me and he doesn't want to see me this weekend, and it is my birthday this weekend. We had plans to go to dinner and take me shopping. Now, he acts likes he doesn't know me. I call him and he doesn't answer. He never calls me. So I can't even ask him whats going on. What does everyone think I should do? P.S. We have been really close latley, he talks about how much he wants to get married and the future, so I really don't understand.

2007-01-23 08:03:34 · 1 answers · asked by KAB128 1

My long distant bf said he has slept with a woman twice. And I'm a little angry to say the least, although we're not officially in a relationship and we never mentioned monogamy. He said that he doesn't want to put all his eggs in one basket i.e. saying that cuz he thinks I'm sleeping around that he doesn't want to get hurt and he knows I have a high sex drive and thinks I'm unfaithful. I told him I had slept with a guy to see his reaction, and then later told him I was joking, but he thinks I was serious. But why do you think he is sleeping with this girl? and how should I address this to him without appearing emotional?

2007-01-23 08:02:59 · 6 answers · asked by Jenny 1

2007-01-23 08:02:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a 20 years aged boy.I am short but with attractive looks.I am studying in a college now.When I joined at the college that is at the early days of my college I met with a beautiful girl accidentally.She was in my class itself.I was so attracted that I sat and looked her.Unfortunately she saw it.After that I forgot this thing and walked ordinarly with my friends.After this from one day onwards she started looking me while entering the classroom.I smiled at her but she did not respond.
After several days of this looking I got angry and looked at her angrily.She didn't mind me that day onwards.Still she looks me un necassarily .From the next year onwards we were in seperate classes
But still she stares at me at a distance but does not look at me directly.She sometimes sat and looked
at me at class also. It has been around 4 years we are studying in same college she still continues this. She studies well also. Does she love me?If no how can I forget her?My mind is full of her .

2007-01-23 08:00:20 · 11 answers · asked by Jithosh JS 1

i've told this girl tat i like and guess wat was her respoonds?
she said wa?im not going to fall for this sort of april fool's trick...
i was like...omg wth
wat am i going do next? i don want to give up on her

2007-01-23 08:00:13 · 9 answers · asked by babyloveu 1

Why do the guys who are not attractive physically and come with a lot of baggage seem to be rude and inconsiderate to their mates who are attractive and wouldn't have a problem getting someone else, have good jobs, etc. Is it because actually their self-esteem is low and they don't know why you are with them in the first place?

2007-01-23 07:59:50 · 7 answers · asked by stella 2

in school and had to move back home.. I was seeing her at her apartment for the past year bc her parents are weird about her having company. I feel like we are falling apart and i only see her about 6 hours or less a week total. Thanks for any help.

2007-01-23 07:59:23 · 4 answers · asked by yeahuhword 1

i like him but i dont know if he likes me we just laugh n stuff n he always looks at me n smiles
what do i do

2007-01-23 07:58:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I've liked this guy for about 5 months about a month ago we started going out we only went out for about 2 1/2 weeks when his parents dicided we couldnt go out anymore. i was falling REALLY hard for him too so it was right before winter break and i didnt talk to him at all over break until the day before he imed me saying that we was excited to see me on monday and that he missed me well at first it was weird and now were friends but i still like him this past weekend me him and a couple other people went out together and me and him kissed a lot! but i know hes talking to like 2 other girls. and in the past couple days ive barely talked to him I still really like him alot and i really cant get him off my mind Does he still like me? im just so confused!!! can i get some advice?

2007-01-23 07:57:06 · 15 answers · asked by Help! 1

brain???

2007-01-23 07:56:38 · 27 answers · asked by Basket-santa 6