Singles & Dating - 23 January 2007

At 13, 5'3, and 123 pounds, I'm a pretty typical teenager. I worry about my hair, clothing, and weight constantly. Here's where I'm different. Since this month, for breakfast and lunch I've been eating a think thin health bar and then I'll have regular dinner. At school, I'm afraid people will call me anorexic, because of what I eat, yet I'm also afraid they'll call me fat if I eat normal lunches. My friends tell me I'm fine, but I'm afraid to gain weight. I'm also afraid that boys won't like me because I worry so much about calories and weight. I'm afraid of myself and I just want to accept myself. Please help...

2007-01-23 08:54:46 · 2 answers · asked by Rain Nicole S 1

ok so i was at this guys house n we were gettin kinda close. we were on the couch watchin a movie n then he started to touch me all over n started kissing my neck. he then told me to put my hand on his u know what because he said it was really hard. n believe me it was hard as a rock. but then a few minutes later i told him i had to leave. did that mean that he wanted to have sex? i was really confused n freaked out

2007-01-23 08:53:32 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been seeing a girl on and off for the last year. The first time we were dating I was going to ask her to marry me but we broke up (do to an old relationship of hers). When we started going out the next time I told her that I made plans to ask her to be my wife and soon after did ask her infact I asked her about 40 times. We broke up in November and have not talked except on Christmas for 2 minutes on the phone when she called to say hello and to wish me a nice Christmas. She has had my heart since the day I first seen her and I think about her everyday even at times when we have not even talked for months. She called today and asked if I could pick her up tomaroe and with out a thought I told her yes. My question is does this just make me stupid as all hell or what ? Can you tell someone NO if you love them even though they have hurt you so much. I cant think of anyone that has made me so happy or hurt me so much. When I was married I dont think my ex-wife hurt me near this.

2007-01-23 08:53:14 · 14 answers · asked by darin s 4

2007-01-23 08:52:14 · 2 answers · asked by JoeV 3

What is this about. Getting up. Going to Work. Going home. Eating. Going to bed. and doing this same thing for ever until you basically die. How do you get out of the routine withour quitting your job and becoming a bum?!! I need some really good ideas here!!

2007-01-23 08:50:20 · 19 answers · asked by AnswerKing 1

For St. Valentine i plan to propose to my girlfriend of 6 years that i met in high school. I bought the ring it is a 3/4 ct. SI solitare.

My plan is to have her come over, take her jacket and clothes off and carry her to the bed before i even say hi. Then kiss her and say happy anniversery an Vday. Then ill give her a full body massage then sex to some frank sinatra. After i want to watch a movie anyone know a movie about high school sweethearts? Then i want to take her to the beach, i know it's Feburary and im in NY but is our absolute favorite place and i want it to remind us of the engagement everytime we go there. Anyway im having a friend set something small up because were not going to be there long and propose to her.

Please give me your ideas. Type of movie, different proposal, other things i can do for her. anything to help me please thanks.

2007-01-23 08:49:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Theres this girl i like, and another dude likes her, but he is much better looking than me. how do i get points to overcome that disadvantage?

2007-01-23 08:49:34 · 18 answers · asked by broseph 1

Ok, I started seeing a wonderful man about a month ago. We are both in our early 30's. Last week, knowing we were supposed to see each other the coming weekend (this weekend that just passed) I emailed him jokingly to "make sure he was alive" since he went to the mountains the weekend before.

Anyways, he replied by saying he had meetings every night (believable, for his line of work) and then when we hung out last weekend he said that he went to the movies one night and had friends over another night.

Now I am not sure if that was the week he said he had meetings, or the week before..although I cannot imagine him bringing up details from two weeks ago. Yes, I know I am being a lame immature girl by dissecting everything, but it kind of irritated me.

Especially because I purposely did not go out with him Saturday night (yeah, played the game, said I had plans and stayed home :p) because he did not ask me out until late Thursday night. I just do not want to be a doormat

2007-01-23 08:49:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yea you. I'm talking to you. So...what are you doing later?

2007-01-23 08:49:15 · 7 answers · asked by Mr. Knowitall 2

he smiles and stairs alot

2007-01-23 08:48:48 · 2 answers · asked by supergirl22 1

don't ppl believe in the simple life
wait till marriage for sex etc?

2007-01-23 08:48:47 · 9 answers · asked by canuckclint 3

ive have a friend over the intrent, we call, im, and flirt with each other..she sent me a pic yesterday, i was expecting to be just avrage looking but she so really pretty..now im kinda nervous to call her and everything..help please

2007-01-23 08:48:08 · 8 answers · asked by rocker4sure28 1

I have a crush on someone and i know nothing is going to come out of it plus its embarassing. HELP!!!

2007-01-23 08:47:59 · 5 answers · asked by Aaliya K 1

been dating this guy for over a month and i would say everything is going great.. we meet up at least four times a week and we usually go to the movies, dinner and talk about our dreams and hopes for the future! yesterday, he took me to a jamie foxx concert and we both had a great time.. so far, we've only kissed and we both agreed that sex isn't everything! i've always rushed into sex and bfound out later that i wasn't being taken out and the guys were emotionally lacking e.g not asking me how i fet or anything! now, i found this guy and he's encouraging in every sense... he doesn't think my dreams are too big, he's considerate e.g. he bought me a coat... he calls me to see how am doing! so ladies, what do u think of a guy that doesn't put emphasis on sex..??

2007-01-23 08:47:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend and i are bored with the same old dates. theyre getting boring. what are some fun date ideas?

2007-01-23 08:46:55 · 14 answers · asked by Becky 1

Could she really take him to court or sue him or any of that? I mean I love him. Really love him and i want to stay with him but I don't want him getting in trouble with the law because of it. My mom said that it isn't legal but I think it is as long as we don't have sexual interaction. Any advice would be really appreciated.

2007-01-23 08:46:23 · 7 answers · asked by Jess 2

If magic was real, no blood or pain and she'd be fine after, if your girlfriend asked, would you shag her while she was sawn in half?

2007-01-23 08:46:03 · 7 answers · asked by The Joker 1

We live in different state, I spend a while trying to avoid doing stupid mistake, but they seem to follow me every where I go. Well I known these boys for quite a while their mother is a very serious Christian women and one of my mother best friends. We went to visit them, the trip was ok, nothing happen but than the older brother whose 17 came back home wit us, somewhere down the line we were feeling each other. We did a couple of things but it never got to serious because he didn't have protection and I already have a kid. Well he left wit promises to return and show me a good time. I really like him so I waited even though my baby daddy was trying to get wit me. He ended up coming back wit his whole family (his mom and 2 younger brothers) then he left again the next day to visit his dad wit his mom and one of his younger brothers ended up staying. ok well I didn't think anything about it because his younger brother is 14 and in the seventh grade (he’s like my little homie even though he’s a lot taller them me) we talk a little, watch a couple movies it was all good then he started looking at me and I looking at him (I started thinking to myself he has the prettiest lip) we started making out in the back of my mind I’m thinking this isn't right then it keep happen over and over again we eventually had unprotected sex then I thought to myself now I’m really in trouble what am I going to do. We stop and eventually went to bed everything I did that night felt so wrong but so right. Two days later his brother came back, I told him what happen between his brother and I, he said he didn’t care he just wanted to be wit me so we hooked up I kidd u not it lasted 3 seconds he said he was sorry he was just too excited so I gave him another opportunity this lasted 5 second then third time it lasted 3 second again I couldn’t take it anymore so I left to the other room where his brother was and interestingly he satisfied me in every way. It been a while and it starting to sink what I did I just don’t feel the same toward them, it’s like were not friends, were not even pretend cousins, were just nothing can it ever be the same again?

2007-01-23 08:45:56 · 20 answers · asked by Beauty Queen 11220 1

im 30 years old and i have a thing about young girls 18 and over since its a legal age. thats how i like them any age over 18 but i preffer them in between 18 and 25? why

2007-01-23 08:45:10 · 3 answers · asked by hotrod 2

If magic was real, there was no blood or pain, and you could be fully resotred immediately afterwards, if your boyfriend wanted to shag you whilst you were sawn in half, would you do it?

2007-01-23 08:44:50 · 16 answers · asked by The Joker 1

I was with my ex for three years and I have a beautiful little girl now; however, I have a question regarding her dad. Right now we are on good terms socially but he has not been the best with financial support. He lives out of state and jumps job to job rairly paying childsupport. RIght now it is getting garnished; however, i never will know when he leaves a job.
I know the password to his email and only check it for employment purposes, to see where he is working or looking for new work so that I can maybe find out so that his wages can be garnished.
He has a new girlfriend and emailed her his resume to print for him for an interview. I looked at the resume and he was lying bad about his past. I know that he did this when I was with him and I never really new the truth about him. With me he ended up just living off of me and I supported us.
Should I tell her so that she doesn't get taken advantage of?

2007-01-23 08:44:33 · 20 answers · asked by enljb 1

2007-01-23 08:44:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive split up with my boyfriend/fiance after 2 years through him cheaten. Am currently pregnant with his child,but am gutted he dont wanna kno the child and he acts like he dont care no more and am really hurt i dont know what to do no more please help

2007-01-23 08:43:11 · 5 answers · asked by Lesa B 1

This is her first valentines day as a couple and I have never celebrated Valentines day because I was usually working or single. Neither of us dance..

2007-01-23 08:42:52 · 7 answers · asked by thevred 2

ok.. so yes I know this is a bit childish but just wanted to know.. yes I am in High School I am a junior and I like a Sophmore.. and some of my freinds say to ask him out and others say no he is ugly... and I think he is cute.. and I know for sure he likes me.... and I just do not know what to do... to go for it.. or just go along with what my freinds say.. and I have never had a B/f ever! So ya... just need a little help in this dept. Thanks!

2007-01-23 08:42:45 · 5 answers · asked by Gloria C 1

I got into a fight in school because someone said a negative remark to me... I took off my glasses and i wish i woulda worn contacts that day cuz i cant see sh*t without em. so i got hit the first + second punch and the rest was real gay. Not much happened. But i should have done real better.. Like really he doesnt seem a worthy oponent for me and he really cant beat me the thing is i jus f*cked up this time. so what i really hate is the fact that his friends are loud people so around school word is that i got whooped..
I need advice
-should i retaliate by encouraging to fight again if one of the guy's friends or he himself comes out of his way/face and says something to me?
-i need to take my mind off things and i have a great girlfriend of 2 yr.s. i dont want sex i just wanna get this thought out my mind of how im a joke to people i dont even know. I want to et my mind off this. what can i do to have fun and in a sense brighten my day?(10 day suspension, im a senior in highschool

2007-01-23 08:41:34 · 8 answers · asked by ProudSouthLatin 2

my ex sent me a message the other day asking me what i would do differently if we got back together. this comes all of a sudden when the whole time (3 years) i asked for her back and she never responded to me with any interest whatsoever up until now. i know she's still in a relationship at the moment which just confuses me all the more as to why she'd have a sudden change of heart. she's been asking me personal questions lately which to me seemed like she's interested to what i've been upto only to turn around and write a blog about how she wants to stay in her current relationship even at the hard times she's in. i don't know what to do.

2007-01-23 08:40:43 · 9 answers · asked by mr_brightside 2

she is born a "female" but lately she has been acting more man-lier than ever..and insists she might really be a man..trapped in a woman's body..and im unsure of how to deal with this..

2007-01-23 08:39:58 · 15 answers · asked by almost an avril 2

ok ive been with this guy for 2 months and 4 days, we fell in love deeply! but the problem is that my parents dont want me to b with him, he is albanian and im romanian, my parents want a romanian guy....so my parents want me to stop seeing him but i dont want that! wat should i do? last night i tried breaking up with him but i started to cry and couldnt do it! i dont wanna hurt him in any way bcuz im the only person that cares about him! plzz help me wat should i do

2007-01-23 08:38:48 · 3 answers · asked by Florentina 1

I do things that I would never even think of doing when I'm sober. I wake up the next day and people tell me things that I did and then I regret ever getting drunk. I like to be happy drunk but not to the point where I black out and don't know a single thing that I did. Whats my problem?

2007-01-23 08:36:49 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous