Theres this girl i like, and another dude likes her, but he is much better looking than me. how do i get points to overcome that disadvantage?
2007-01-23 08:49:34 · 18 answers · asked by broseph 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-01-23 08:52:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friends at first, find out what she likes and what she is interested in. find common ground that you both like or interested in. Tell her what she likes to hear, dresses nice keeps herself,est. If she doesn't approve or doesn't like complements, don't go there. Joke around nicely, just make friends. If it seems she likes being around you and enjoys your company, ask her out for a coke, whatever. Just spend time to get her talk about friends school, if things went well and both are having fun, at when going home or before you leave her. Ask her out to movie, if she goes, ask her for her phone no# and go from there. Never talk or ask about other guy or talk about him.
then and only then, tell her you like her allot and you appreciate her and maybe by then you won't. And then your on your own.
Remember never crowd her, or pay too much attention to her. Let her make up her own mind how she feels about you! ok!
2007-01-23 09:14:31 · answer #2 · answered by MR-BILL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a girl. i know that answer. personaltiy beats looks. let him do something stupid. u should give her ALOT of respect and manners and listen. girls love to talk. dont talk about urself all the time. talk to her, make her happy, bring her some gifts or take her somwhere fun. tell her what u like about her other than her looks and her wisdom. dont ingore her in front of ur friends all the time. that would be suspected as player. say something funny. be yourself. the other guy may try to hide some facts about him he thinks the girl may not like. dont act like a pervent. that should drive the girl nut. be nice too. dress up a little to show her u have respect for yourself too (meaning cover ur butt and other things too.) and dont do anything stupid. dont hurt her either.
2007-01-23 09:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by nic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice I can give you is to be the best possible friend you can to her. Maybe she'll see that you're worth more than this other dude and maybe not, but at least you'll have done something really noble for the chick you like, right?
2007-01-23 08:55:12 · answer #4 · answered by Taliesin Pen Beirdd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. You can't make someone like you. Just be yourself, and if she goes for the other guy, soothe yourself with the knowledge that, if looks are what count for her, she's probably too shallow to provide a truly satisfying relationship anyway.
2007-01-23 08:53:37 · answer #5 · answered by tfmemnoch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out, you wont lose anything by doing that. You will be wondering what if i had asked her out? What could have happened? well you wouldn't know because you never try,Sometimes you behave to risk it but That´s how life is.Just be yourself and if she isn't shallow forget her, there is always another girl who will be interested in you.
2007-01-23 09:19:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any girl that chooses looks over personality has a long life of heartache ahead of her. Be clever...woman love smart men. Be witty...woman love a man that can make her laugh.
2007-01-23 08:53:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her.
Show her that you have a great personality.
Invite her on a date, somewhere, like the movies or dinner...maybe both.
Just show that girl that you have waaay more potential than the other guy.
Use your charm.
2007-01-23 08:53:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, what are you a young cave man. We don't do that. If you want the girl ask her out. If she wants the other dude, it's her choice, not your's
2007-01-23 08:57:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if the gurl only goes for looks then forget about it and if she cares about personality try to hang out with her and be really sweet and nice to her and show her your the best guy 4 her!
2007-01-23 08:52:35 · answer #10 · answered by Jesseluver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wutever u do don't fight for her attention! she should like u for who you are and if not u realy shouldn't be into her anyway. i'm not tryng to be rude or anything but nothing turns a girl off more than being fought over.
2007-01-23 10:20:49 · answer #11 · answered by myra b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋