been dating this guy for over a month and i would say everything is going great.. we meet up at least four times a week and we usually go to the movies, dinner and talk about our dreams and hopes for the future! yesterday, he took me to a jamie foxx concert and we both had a great time.. so far, we've only kissed and we both agreed that sex isn't everything! i've always rushed into sex and bfound out later that i wasn't being taken out and the guys were emotionally lacking e.g not asking me how i fet or anything! now, i found this guy and he's encouraging in every sense... he doesn't think my dreams are too big, he's considerate e.g. he bought me a coat... he calls me to see how am doing! so ladies, what do u think of a guy that doesn't put emphasis on sex..??
2007-01-23 08:47:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the longer you make him wait, the more he'll respect you. Besides, sex is nutural, you cant plan it, thats what immature kids do. 1 month is not a long time wait a few more months and see how his personality changes because it will.
2007-01-23 08:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find it refreshing actually. I think we take for granted those few moments during the courting part...we rush them because the feeling is so amazing.
It often clouds our judgment though. I say, enjoy the fun getting to know each other part. Those times should bring on the sex part naturally.
I applaud him and you. Good luck, sounds like a keeper!
2007-01-23 08:53:07 · answer #2 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all why did you direct this towards the ladies doesn't a mans opinion count? When i first started dating my fiance she wanted to have sex and i was the one that wanted to wait. I wanted to wait because all my past relationships we had sex the first night and after about a year or to it went down hill. This time i wanted to make sure she was the right one, and let me tell you it was the right thing to do because now that we waited we know that we was meant to be together and it made our relationship even stronger.
2007-01-23 09:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by apache672004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's exactly how my bf is now. i mean we do have sex but we didn't jump right in bed and we don't have to have sex everyday just when it feels right. both of us have previously revolved our relationships around sex. though, it is a part of it it's not the whole thing. sometimes instead of sex before bed he'll run me a hot bath and give me a massage then hold me til i'm asleep. i love it.
2007-01-23 08:53:10 · answer #4 · answered by Back*To*Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it's great that you found a man that isn't trying to take your pants off right away. That is usually what most men are after.
2007-01-23 08:51:51 · answer #5 · answered by redheadedmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a genuine good guy.... sounds like every girls' dream man... i would say hold off on sex for another two weeks, if he doesnt put any pressure for it, then hes a keeper! good luck!
2007-01-23 08:52:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally think that's pretty cool.
Most guys are perverts, and all they want to do is get in a girls pants.
They don't care about the girl, or anything.
So I think he's a keeper.
2007-01-23 08:51:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he just doesn't want to scare you off. If you told him you are ready, I bet he would go wild.
2007-01-23 08:51:06 · answer #8 · answered by waxingtheturtle2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋