Ok, I started seeing a wonderful man about a month ago. We are both in our early 30's. Last week, knowing we were supposed to see each other the coming weekend (this weekend that just passed) I emailed him jokingly to "make sure he was alive" since he went to the mountains the weekend before.
Anyways, he replied by saying he had meetings every night (believable, for his line of work) and then when we hung out last weekend he said that he went to the movies one night and had friends over another night.
Now I am not sure if that was the week he said he had meetings, or the week before..although I cannot imagine him bringing up details from two weeks ago. Yes, I know I am being a lame immature girl by dissecting everything, but it kind of irritated me.
Especially because I purposely did not go out with him Saturday night (yeah, played the game, said I had plans and stayed home :p) because he did not ask me out until late Thursday night. I just do not want to be a doormat
2007-01-23 08:49:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, call him on it! If you don't you'll never trust him!
2007-01-23 08:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by just another dudette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do say something, but don't sound accusatory. Just say something like "You know what's kinda weird? I was just thinking about something. I thought I'd heard you say that this happened...then the other day you said that this happened...I must be going crazy. (laugh)." if he doesn't volunteer the info, then say in kind of a joking way, "well, so what happened?" make sure to smile and sound friendly the whole time or he'll get defensive and clam up. good luck!
2007-01-23 16:56:10 · answer #2 · answered by Eowyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it plausible that he could do a meeting/movie or meeting/friend in the same night?
You've only known him for a month; give it some space and save the tirade for a bigger deal.
2007-01-23 16:54:30 · answer #3 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him and find out what weekend he was referring to.
2007-01-23 16:54:27 · answer #4 · answered by babygirl31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it. if things don't add up then maybe it is time for you to move on.
2007-01-23 16:56:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is bothering you then it is a problem.
Ask him about it.
2007-01-23 16:53:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him
2007-01-23 16:53:04 · answer #7 · answered by i hate undies! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋