So I've liked this guy for about 5 months about a month ago we started going out we only went out for about 2 1/2 weeks when his parents dicided we couldnt go out anymore. i was falling REALLY hard for him too so it was right before winter break and i didnt talk to him at all over break until the day before he imed me saying that we was excited to see me on monday and that he missed me well at first it was weird and now were friends but i still like him this past weekend me him and a couple other people went out together and me and him kissed a lot! but i know hes talking to like 2 other girls. and in the past couple days ive barely talked to him I still really like him alot and i really cant get him off my mind Does he still like me? im just so confused!!! can i get some advice?
2007-01-23 07:57:06 · 15 answers · asked by Help! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him how you feel. Ask him out right. No games, just honesty. And if possible do so in person, not in an im.
2007-01-23 08:01:33 · answer #1 · answered by bananajcd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you get curfluffled about this guy, you should find out why his parents decided you shouldn't see him (assuming, of course, that he is under 18; otherwise, he's an adult and can see whomever he pleases, unless he chooses to let his parents run his life). It sounds like he's interested, but if that's a deal breaker, you're going to have to swallow the lump in your throat and move on.
As a sidebar, if he is over 18 and willing to let his parents make his decisions for him, you probably wouldn't want to date him seriously anyway...
Good luck--
2007-01-23 08:06:30 · answer #2 · answered by KD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are proned to want what we cannot have. It sounds like this guy is playing the field. I am not saying don't ever talk to him, but keep it extremely casual and knock off the kissing. You don't know who else he is kissing and what they might have. He is playing hard to get and the field, you should do the same. When he calls or im's don't respond and see how it drives him crazy. Don't waste your time, you are setting your self up for heartbreak and heartache!!!
2007-01-23 08:02:19 · answer #3 · answered by Kia V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope hes not messing w/ your feelings cause guys who are talking to other girls oviously dont have just one girl on their mind. You should talk to him because if you dont he might go for one of the other girls and you will never kno what coulda been! If you havent talked to him in a while call him and if your shy to do that IM him or email him sometimes the girls gotta make the first move!
2007-01-23 08:03:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you seem to have it together just pause your feelings for him you already know where it is going, don't drive down denial road. It will take a while but you will be okay, and you always are going to like him mostly because you can't have him life is always like that. He may still like you but he isn't interested in that way anymore, plus you don't need the future drama anyway I can smell it. Good luck.
2007-01-23 08:05:05 · answer #5 · answered by nina_ross692000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of what his parents may or may not have said do you really wanna be girl #3? Sounds to me like he's just stringing you along. I can tell you from experience that if he did still like you, he would find a way to at least call or email you.
2007-01-23 08:04:48 · answer #6 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know guys can be tricky but it sounds like he might be moving on and just likes to kiss some females, and you just got in his way. I mean how old is he that his parents decided for him that you two couldn't go out?! He should of just grow a set and kept on with you if he really liked you, or if he's liying to you, its a horrible lie!
2007-01-23 08:03:45 · answer #7 · answered by jkate442 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch out! He's probably intending on making use of you at some point - but only temporarily. Shut the door and walk away. Otherwise, you're likely to become a booty call.
2007-01-23 08:03:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can think about him but don't be easy. Sometimes we do that when we like a guy. Be happy, go about your business, spend time with your friends or go out and have fun. If he wants to be with you he'll ask you out. Then you'll know. It doesn't matter what his parents or anyone else think. Let him try to lure you. You are a commodity babe. Value yourself.
2007-01-23 08:02:45 · answer #9 · answered by supergirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what about the 2 girls?maybe he want to get as much as he can before his parents stop him from seeing them too. kiss u alot where was his mouth all winter in one of the girls lap...check your self baby..
2007-01-23 08:05:55 · answer #10 · answered by atom ant 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋