How can u get over and ex boyfriend?

Question

i dated a guy for 2 in a half months then he broke it off. what should i do to get over him. plz give me any adivce. Men r welcome to answer.

Answer 1

"time will heal" There's nothing really you can do, but move on with your life...there are plenty of guys out there! By the way, his name wasn't Ben, was it?

Answer 2

Well, after 2.5 months, you probably have some nice mementos: photos, dried flowers, movie ticket stubs. The best way to move on is to put all of your memories into a nice box. Have a nice cry. Then put the box in the closet, and don't look at it for 6 months. You know it's there, but it's not staring you in the face.

Then go do something for yourself: manicure, buy yourself some flowers, new pair of shoes...whatever makes you the happiest.

And promise yourself tomorrow morning that you will spend the entire day not thinking about him. If you start thinking about him, stop, and think about something else. Do that all day. Then do it the next day, and the next. It will get easier as long as you promise yourself and then stick to your promise.

I'm sorry you broke up. It's OK to feel bad for a little while, but treat yourself well, and you'll feel better soon. Good luck--

Answer 3

It really depends on whether you're having trouble getting over "him", or getting over the crushing self-doubt that being dumped can induce.

If it's him you're having trouble getting over - you just miss him and want him back, etc. - simply accept that this will fade in time.

If your problem is self-doubt, understand that not all relationships work and there are plenty of other people out there.

Both scenarios can often be partially relieved by staying in the "dating game". Just make sure to be reserved with your emotions, if you can.

The person in a relationship that is less emotionally attached is always the person who is in control.

Answer 4

If you're of age, get ya girls together for a girls night out. Most clubs let chicks in for free anyway. Also, find a hobby. Something that you're very passionate about. Like dancing, acting, cooking, singing, and others. Hope this helps. Good luck!

Answer 5

2 1/2 months ? he aint in your blood yet that should be easy do something you like for a change .if it was 2 yrs then you would loose some pounds.pick up an go baby enjoy life

Answer 6

well 1st of all you are still young. (hopefully)
and that relationship was not long at all.
but for you it might be.
try going out with some friends and don't even think about him.
I dated my ex for almost 3 years and I went out all the time and I was literally a club rat...and I found someone else that treats me way better even though he was my first love..
never let someone break up with you..and when they do never show it...be the bigger person...don't even worry about him b/c you are strong and you are a girl and we run this planet..and also sex...:)

Answer 7

I been with some sense i was 18 years, not i 28 and he call it off, what i do is try to still busy and go hang with your girls....Because if you know in youh heart that you did nothing wrong ...he going to miss you more then , you him, and he will be back

Answer 8

well what I do is I get all my friends together and we go have a girls day out and have lots of fun. or sometimes I just call him and tell him how I feel and just try to get along and half of the time it works.

Answer 9

two and a half months is not real love. it is lust. Maybe he was telling you what you wanted to hear. or doing what you like to have done. yet not enough time to truely love any one but your self.

Answer 10

just move on.. it was only 2 months... find a hobby, date other people, spend more time w/ friends/family