Singles & Dating - 20 January 2007

She sends me messages all the time. ignoring her doesnt work. and i dont really want anything to do with her. I once got really hammered and i ended up having intercourse with her. I immediately regret this decision. but now she will not leave me alone. And she kinda freaks me out. So I'm in a pickle. Help my dumbass self solve this issue. Thank you and god bless.

2007-01-20 18:54:07 · 13 answers · asked by Royce 3

There is this guy that i like alot.. have for a couple years. we talk and stuff but i want more. im not the most outgoing person but i want to know if he feels the same. but how?

2007-01-20 18:53:57 · 6 answers · asked by luvhim78 1

2007-01-20 18:52:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do u do it? without saying it of course

2007-01-20 18:51:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am curious because imma be doin this girl and it looks as if she mess around a lot so i wanted to ask her if she has any disease like HIV herpes etc etc. but i dont want her to get mad....cuz it sounds rude....u know what i mean??? so if ur a girl please be honest, do you get mad when he ask you if u got any diseases???

2007-01-20 18:50:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

a few things i have prblms w/ is that 6 or 7 of those were in a 2 yr period most of them she barely knew and didnt use a condom. She wasnt in a relationship with any of them (the 6 or 7). She is clean, however i thnk its pretty messed up (and kind of whoresh) to let just any guy come (not ***) inside of you with out a condom. "SHE" says it takes away the feeling. What is that, i have never in my life herd a female say that, maybe a ton of guys but never a female. Is this true? Something else to know, she initially told me 5, but later told me 8 possilbly 9 (because she wanted to do him, but he didn't want her) Now honestly i was about ready to break up with her for lying but wasn't sure what to do, my out look on her has changed dramatically she seems "unclean/like a whore" 8 guys is a lot,(or is it?) she does seem to be very sincere about her feelings for me. I ofcourse always wanted a virgin, but as i got older it seemed a bit unrealistic. how much should the past mater? Any advice?

2007-01-20 18:50:06 · 27 answers · asked by cory d 2

Hey I have thig problem. I work at a bookstore and there is this girl who I'm really into and she seems into me. I always catch her looking at me when she come into the store. I don't even know her name, everytime I try to talk to her she is with her parents or one of my other stupid co-workers ring her up or help her out. what should I do?

2007-01-20 18:50:00 · 8 answers · asked by kenneth h 1

i like this girl from school. we've never spoke. i want to get her email....but i want to be upfront about it so...
i was thinking about doing it this way.........
"hey....are u buzy this weekend?"
if she answers "i dont know" ill just say "oh ..why dont u give me ur email so i can contact u on msn"


any other options?

2007-01-20 18:48:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

is virginity an issue in a marriage??

2007-01-20 18:47:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was the other woman to John*-- he had a live in girlfriend and at the time I like had major trust issues. Not an excuse but it was my reason. After John* and I broke up I hooked up with David* who is a friend of John*'s. At no point did I or David* go behind anyone's back, and nothing was done out of spite. With that said, here are the two points of View.

DAVID*: feels that he's wrong because they were friends. He still wants to be in a relationship but can't see himself married to me because of my former "relationship" with John*. He is still planning to move into the house that we recently found.

ME: I don't feel bad because when David* and I started conversing over the phone, it was long after John* and I ended. I'm happier with David* than I've ever been with anyone. Problem: I want a marriage. I don't want to just live with someone for the rest of my life. I've had my friends hook up with exes of mine. As long as there's an actual breakup, even if I get mad I'll be fine.

2007-01-20 18:44:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

them look less foolish? I don't know why it is, but it seems like most of the women I get around have to talk...about gossip, stupid things in the media, the people they supposedly don't like or even nothing at all! Just downright noise pollution...what do you think? Why can't they just be cool!?

2007-01-20 18:42:29 · 6 answers · asked by wetdreamdiver 5

how did it feel when you fell into love for the first time, and how did it feel to lose it.
do you still love that person and miss them?

2007-01-20 18:39:08 · 13 answers · asked by honeycluster 1

would you think it was cheezey or thoughtful or stupid or romantic in only a way that would work at a bar??

2007-01-20 18:37:50 · 7 answers · asked by Eric O 2

what do you think about being friends with benefits with your ex.
does that scream 'slut'

2007-01-20 18:37:29 · 2 answers · asked by honeycluster 1

i'm a chinese and chinese people are very conservative insofar there's still a lot of them not preferring sex before marriage. seems to me that people from western countries are more open-minded. but do girls there also cares about vaginity very much? i mean is it just very usual in western countries that dating a guy nearly means you'll have sex with him even he's not the one you are going to marry?

i'm being chased by a foreign guy and i'm kind of hesitating. that's why i want to know.

2007-01-20 18:33:42 · 11 answers · asked by Lorraine YE 2

i need some advice ok so basically i have been messing around with one of my good friends he was had a girlfriend this whole time and they have been together for 3 years we've only been messing around for 5 months. i really like her shes nice and does not deserve to have this done to her. he talks bad about her to make me think he doesn't care for her though i know he does but why does he mess with me when he has her? i want to tell her but should i? if it was me i'd want to know. she had a child from another person and things are serious between them i dont want her to end up with him if hes gonna do this to her AND her son. she should build something as strong with someone that respects her a little. HE cheats on her all the time ALL THE TIME he thinks that she wont beleive me if i tell but should i tell her? is it any of my buisness? i really want t o tell her because she deserves better. what should i do?

2007-01-20 18:33:08 · 2 answers · asked by izzy 2

She told me she wasn't ready to date. If I catch her going out with a guy...

What should I do to her?

Nothing pyschotic, but just to let her know that I know that she is the biggest piece of s**t that in the world.

2007-01-20 18:30:56 · 6 answers · asked by Wuuut? 1

IF U THNK U HAVE A GOOD IDEA IM ME

2007-01-20 18:30:35 · 21 answers · asked by ? 2

i have feelings for this boy and i wish i was with him becuz he always made me happy. But the 2nd time he asked me out turned out kinda weird cuz it was only for one day.when we talked on the phone it was weird becuz it wasnt the same anymore.But I really love him. I dont know what to do. Please Help ME!!!

2007-01-20 18:26:28 · 9 answers · asked by tiffycrazy 2

would girls find tightie whities attractive on me? and should i keep on wearing them?

here is a pic of me;

http://360.yahoo.com/profile-6Ba05kY1dKKclqwK6EF47geHHg2eRgrc

2007-01-20 18:26:12 · 8 answers · asked by dodgecharger6901 1

My ex spent a while trying to get back with me. I eventually wanted to after stumbling upon some things that reminded me of just exactly what I had left. I started talking to her about and she became hesitant saying that she didn't trust me and was afraid of me breaking her heart. I never stopped loving her. I just felt that it would harder on both of us if we tried a long distance college-high school relationship. What should I do?

2007-01-20 18:25:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I did not think I was in love with him but now he is on a church mission. I am physically ill. my heart is aching and for the life of me I should be old enough to know but I don't. We email and snail mail he says he loves me but I don't know if it is love like love or love like friendly love. He says if I ever start dating younger men he better be the first.

2007-01-20 18:23:36 · 12 answers · asked by 33kasper 2

I'm only curious, because sometimes, even if you like a guy, you will play hard to get, and i have to chase you around, and it makes me sad. and i'm not a dog, by any means. anyhoo, how many of you like to play games?

2007-01-20 18:22:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

last year me and like 10 other girls whent in a limo for my freinds b-day we got plasterd drunk.
so me and my friend was just messing around we made out for like 10 seconds.
i never told no one last night i told my bf i have a big secret cause he askd me if i have any secrets that no one know.
i asked him if i could trut him he said ya.
then i told him.
so all night last night he kept mentioning every five mintues ok go kiss a girl.
or i like girls oh u do to.
then he strts carking up lafing
i know he loves me.
but does he really mean to hurt my fellings or just doing it out of fun? exsuse my spelling im in kind a hurry and nervos lol

2007-01-20 18:21:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont want someone else to tell her and for her to get the wrong details. Should I even say anything?

2007-01-20 18:20:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok heres the thing. i was going out with this girl a few months ago and one day she had feelings for me... the next they were gone. i tried everything i could to get her back but nothing worked and we eventually just stopped talking (mainly cos she stopped talking to me) and then a week or two after we broke up i found out she liked some guy but dosnt like him anymore. and well heres the thing last night we were both at my place with some friends (my little sister invited her) and we started talking and eventually apologised to each other then we started making out, then went for a swim in our pool (fully clothed) and then went upstairs and made out all night (like 5-6 hours) we didnt have sex or anything. im just confused now cos im not sure if im going to get hurt again.

2007-01-20 18:17:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do you know when a guy you have a crush on like you.

2007-01-20 18:17:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i started dateing a girl i have know for a while and we dated for a while things were going good for a while then she asked me if we could take some time a part she still likes me she said and i went to see her on the 16 should i ask her back out or should i give her a little more time

2007-01-20 18:15:40 · 4 answers · asked by rick b 1

I told a man I wasn't ready to date after ending a long relationship. I said I liked him and asked him to come visit me when he got to town.

When he came, after flirting he asked if I used a vibrator to release sexual tension. I said no, there are other ways. Then he asked if I slept with my ex. I said no.

We talked about fwb. I told him I really wanted to but was afraid because I hadn't been with anyone for a long time. I knew he was in town only one night and asked him if he could "be patient with me and take it slow". He said yes, then said I'll call you this weekend.

Suprised I said I meant tonight. He said "I don't think it's a good idea to see each other tonight". I asked what he thought I meant and he said "being friends first".

He did call. He talks about ways we could fly to see each other but I am confused by his rejection.

2007-01-20 18:13:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this guy for quite some time..we've been exchanging mails since last year..well, it was an on and off thing cause he was sooo busy in army and couldn't really reply to my mails..then i told him i went to london and so on..but he didn't reply..and i miss him..i wanna continue to chat with him and he gave me this impression that he's a guy who likes the thrill of the chase as in he likes those kinda girls who are out of reach and now that i know..i wanna be like that but first i gotta start a conversation with him again..how should i go about doing it? and will he think i'm irritating? and how do i get him interested and more curious to find out more about me?
you know, when you like someone,you tend to think of all those silly stuff,he really makes me laugh and cry at the same time.i laugh when i think about his attractive personality and how funny he was and i cry when i just can't get him and all the blunders i made in the past..

2007-01-20 18:11:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous