Singles & Dating - 18 January 2007

I'm not trying to brag or anything but I'm a well endowed male. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a couple of months. Since I can remember, whenever we have sex her facial expressions makes it look like I'm hurting her. I asked her if I hurt her and she says no, but her facial expressions clearly tell a different story. She loves having sex with me, but I'm starting to get a little worried because she'll wince every once in a while...but in the same breath she'll tell me to pound her...then she'll keep telling me to do it harder. What should I do?

2007-01-18 06:57:51 · 15 answers · asked by h4121977 1

I met a woman a while back on a christian dating site, and it seemed like we were getting along great. We spoke on the net for about 3 days, about a couple hours at a time, and then I got her number. We have called each other off and on for the past two weeks, and so I tried to make the attempt to ask her out to meet, not to creepy or anything, but at a public place. She said that sounds good and previous to saying yes, I asked her if I made her uncomfortable in any way, she said no, and then I also added, if I do something you don't like, please be honest and tell me. She has a pretty busy schedule between work and school, with Wednesday's and Saturday's off. So last Saturday, I give her a call, leave a message, and haven't heard back from her since. I have been told to call, and have also been told not to call. So what do you think I should do? Should I call or not? If I give in and call, does it make me look sad or desparate? Please help me out.

2007-01-18 06:57:03 · 12 answers · asked by Light Bringer 3

So, this great guy asks me to a school dance. I already have a bf, so I say, "Sorry, but no." After that I'm thinking, "Dang it, I screwed that one up!" And then I break up with my bf right before I see this other guy again (coincidence? I think not!). Now, though, another girl is with him all the time, sitting on his lap, holding hands, acting like they're together. I ask around, apparently they're "not officially," (what the heck does that mean? but they just act like it, and he says, "Naw, I don't really like LIKE her, I just..." WHAT? You just what? Is he doing that to make me jealous? I flatter myself. I kinda think he doesn't really care anymore, but I like him, and I am SO not going up to him and telling him, I am WAY too shy! AND I have to see him, like, all the time because we're in a school play together...what do I do/think?

2007-01-18 06:56:04 · 18 answers · asked by Ask Shirley 2

WHAT DO U FEEL WHEN PEOPLE MAKE COMMENTS TOWARD YOUR OTHER RACIAL PARTNER?

WHAT DO YOU DO TO NOT LET THEM GET TO YOU?

HOW DO YOU HANDEL BEING STARED AT CONSTANTLY BECAUSE OF YOUR INTERRACIAL RELATIONSHIP?

I AM A BLACK WOMAN WITH A "WHITE BOYFRIEND" I CONSTANTLY ASK MYSELF QUESTIONS THAT ARE ABOVE!!
SOMETIMES I JUST WANNA LEAVE HIM TO AVIOD ALL THE DRAMA WHAT SHOULD I DO? I LOVE HIM THATS THE ONLY THING KEEPING ME WITH HIM!! HE THE GREATEST MAN I EVER BEEN WITH!!

2007-01-18 06:55:30 · 12 answers · asked by BEAUTYFULL 1

and where are you from and what's the weather like?
Have a great day Y'll!

2007-01-18 06:55:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was recently talking to a girl via phone and email while I was in Iraq for the past year, but I didn't talk to her for sometime after I returned home a month or so ago because I went to visit another girl that lives in a different state. I emailed her once a few weeks after I got back home, saying hey what's up...and she responded by saying this:

Why'd you have to go all the way to DC just to get laid, hon?

Don't they still have horses in Arizona?
________________________________
What the hell is this supposed to mean?


Is she insulting ME or the girl I flew to see?

2007-01-18 06:55:23 · 13 answers · asked by julia k 1

We've only been going out for 2 weeks, and her birthday is February 4th. What should I get her?

2007-01-18 06:54:07 · 15 answers · asked by notsohot.2000 1

My man says he is considering getting circumcised and that an ex of his told him there is a definate difference in feeling for a woman between having sex with a man who is circumcised and one who is not. Is that true? how does it feel different?

2007-01-18 06:54:01 · 9 answers · asked by elle k 1

i recently told my boyfriend it's OVER...he has a baby and his baby mama and him are supposedly together so i broke it off because, i felt like i was the "girl on the side"..i miss him tho..he called three days n i didn't return his call i want him back how do i get him back without seeming desperate?

2007-01-18 06:53:28 · 10 answers · asked by missc230 1

and I am not talking about reading...

2007-01-18 06:53:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-18 06:51:17 · 41 answers · asked by poopsie 1

my boyfriend and I can't come to terms about having sex. When we met we knew we were very different, and almost broke up over it, b/c I'm 23 and a vigin and he's 25 and was very active before me. Now we're both making an effort b/c he's being faithful and I'm trying to please him without penatration, but still fooling around.
yet I know he's a man and he has urges and he brings it up from time to time and i don't know how long he can go without having six it's already been 5months. How can we find a common ground? What can I do, I don't want to lose him...or compromise myself for him either!

2007-01-18 06:51:04 · 18 answers · asked by jasimine m 2

I have devoted myself to God for the past 15years and to be fair i`ve had sod all back off him.Every night i pray for world peace and a win on the lotto and not a thing,not even a miserly tenner.So i ask myself is it really worth a life of chastity?I think not.And at 31 i am in some serious need of bedroom action.So any ideas for a good meeting place for like minded virgins?I have alot of lost time to catch up on and i was thinking maybe some kind of group.Maybe a swingers party....i heard they could be fun.But do i just go along or do i need a partner?

2007-01-18 06:50:40 · 25 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4

2007-01-18 06:50:15 · 1 answers · asked by miguk 3

And we have sex all the time & it is great! But i am having trouble having an orgasim. We have tried every position that there is possible & it feels great but not good enough for an orgasim. When he goes down on me I have one but i want to be able to have one when we are having sex. Please help me!

2007-01-18 06:49:11 · 13 answers · asked by She is Beautiful! 6

i am quite intelligent and reasonably pretty (well not ugly) but there just doesn't seem no guys around that want 2 flirt with me. has anyone got any pointers?

2007-01-18 06:49:11 · 23 answers · asked by onyuk 1

I mean the kind of liar that lies purely for his own selfish reasons.

2007-01-18 06:47:20 · 3 answers · asked by lucielu 2

2007-01-18 06:47:04 · 4 answers · asked by curiousgeorge 1

Ladies do most of you look beyond the smoking at the guys personality or do you immediately write him off and want nothing to do with him

2007-01-18 06:45:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i feel very uncomfortable knowing a naked chic is dancing on my man. however i know i am the sh*t and if we break up it is his loss.
so i would like to know how u feel about it!!

2007-01-18 06:44:11 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

this guy in my class always scratches his b***s around me and it digust me i think im the only one who notices it

2007-01-18 06:42:22 · 25 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1

You know how some girls like a guy but they never talk to them or just get really shy and never actually go through with meeting their crush? I dont mean like celebrity crushes, but actually people that they just "observe from afar".

2007-01-18 06:41:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anna 2

Come on girls how come when you have a bad experance with a guy you think right away that we are all the same ??

there are some of us left out here that are the good guys, but all we hear from girls is there are none left !!

WAKE up and smell the coffee and give a guy a chance !! you never know !!

Have fun Jay

2007-01-18 06:40:27 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

The one that made your heart skip a beat ??? Then run into him/her one day after 5 years and say to yourself 'what was I thinking'? LOL !!!

2007-01-18 06:40:17 · 23 answers · asked by Bobbi 5

Explain why or why not.

2007-01-18 06:40:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-18 06:39:12 · 7 answers · asked by spin spin sunshine 4

Hey, this seems to happen to me alot, im in college and when i walk to class and i see a good looking girl i glance at her when i walk by, most of the time about the same time i glance shell glance at me and when she sees me looking at her she quickly looks away and starts looking the complete other way, anyone have any info on this

2007-01-18 06:38:27 · 13 answers · asked by SR 1

Yesterday I caught my boyfriend sleeping in his bed with another girl. He was behind her holding her (under the covers) & they were both facing the door. When I pushed his bedroom door open, they both opened their eyes and saw me, and I said, "Real sweet" and slammed the door shut and got the hell out of there. He called me ALL day yesterday and texted me too, telling me that he knows I should be upset but "It's not what what it looks like" (I know, right?) and to call him so that he can explain everything. Well, I believe there's nothing to explain. He shouldn't have had someone else in his bed--period. Since I believe there's nothing for him to possibly explain (whatever it is, it's a lie), I have not replied to any of his calls or texts, or even email. The silent treatment is the worst, & I think he should wade in his own crap forever for what he did. I'm not going to give him the satisfaction of telling me his "story" because he doesn't deserve it! What do you guys think?

2007-01-18 06:38:04 · 19 answers · asked by wasabiwithyoursushi 2

college just started tuesday so i'm sure she's tryin to get adjusted to it and all, but what can i do to throw some spark in? it's only been a week so i don't wanna do anything that would freak her out, i just need an idea to help get us through the beginning stage

2007-01-18 06:37:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Where should i go on a first date without spending any money and please enter any suggestions on how to ask them out in the first place.

2007-01-18 06:36:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous