I have devoted myself to God for the past 15years and to be fair i`ve had sod all back off him.Every night i pray for world peace and a win on the lotto and not a thing,not even a miserly tenner.So i ask myself is it really worth a life of chastity?I think not.And at 31 i am in some serious need of bedroom action.So any ideas for a good meeting place for like minded virgins?I have alot of lost time to catch up on and i was thinking maybe some kind of group.Maybe a swingers party....i heard they could be fun.But do i just go along or do i need a partner?
2007-01-18 06:50:40 · 25 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i say me and thee hit the town have few, pull a couple of blokes and give them a good seeing too and talk about religion tomorrow
2007-01-18 07:35:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
God answers questions for what is good for you. We don't always get what we want. We get what is good for us. What you think you need is more of what you Want, not need.
Put your mind into different thinking and maybe you will start heading in the right direction.
Don't advertise for sex on here with the pretense of turning your back on religion as a start to get people to come to your question. This is not at all related and if you do, you may get wayyyyyy more than you bargained for. ex..... STD's, std's, s t d' s...
Why do that when you could think about what you really want in life and settle down to do what is right and find a long lasting relationship that you really deserve. God doesn't want you to live a life of a swinger. Hang in there and do the right thing. Patience is a virtue.
2007-01-18 06:58:34 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
firstly dear friend do not give up on God. keep praying and do not lose hope. sometimes our requests are just delayed but not denied. each time you pray, you open the door for God to work in your life and when we lose our patience its because the devil has wormed his way into our minds. God will answer your prayers in HIS time and keep believing so you can see his glory. He might just be testing your endurance and perseverence. hang on in there you will come out of this wiser. As for wanting action in the bedroom so desperately, have you ever thought that maybe God is protecting you from the pain and drama associated with modern day relationships? what about all these diseases involved. you have to be happy with yourself before you find happiness from elsewhere. there is no time lost. even if you find Mr right at 45......dont do something you will regret. once you lose your virginity you cant get it back!
2007-01-18 07:04:56 · answer #3 · answered by poopsie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the devil has ahold of you. Don't turn your back on God. He has a plan for all of us and sometimes we do have unanswered prayers. Maybe he forsees that if you were to win the lottery that your life will become very troubling. And as far as world peace, the devil lives amongst us and has ahold of more people than you can imagine. Say a prayer and wait for marriage. Don't give your body away to anyone other than the wife you take before God.
2007-01-18 07:19:05 · answer #4 · answered by dawninky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are praying and trying to live a Godly life doesn't mean that you are going to win the lottery or anything else for that matter...it doesn't guarantee you a good life by any means. My advice would be to definitley not turn your back on your religion, but to try to pray a little less selffishly....pray for others not for you to win the lottery....I mean come on!.......About the other, why wait so long just to throw it away on nobody....Hang in there! Keep on going through this trial.
2007-01-18 07:07:04 · answer #5 · answered by CPA2B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep i know exactly wot u mean. i pray for a lottery win too every single week, i pray i`ll get a b.low job off a top model every week, i pray i`ll marry a rich old granny on her death bed so she`ll leave me all her dosh, i pray a ton of bricks will fall on each of my enemies and squash them like a little ant and just like u.....nothink! i personally sold my soul to the devil and now it`s party party all the time! i mean i aint rich or anything but can u just imagine how i feel not feeling guilty if i do a girly up the pooper or if i don`t give up my seat on a bus or train for some old wrinkly fecker or if i laugh me a.rse off at some **** that tripped over and fell flat on their face wen i could of easily caught them. ohhh i feel sooo liberated now. swinging is feckin excellent. actually if u went into a church the odds are ur probably sitting next to a hypocritical church going, "god" fearing, sin-a-minute bible bashing swinger! that`s how i met all the swingers i know. i really hope this helped and good luck finding some swingers. if u get no luck then message me and u can join our group :)
2007-01-18 07:32:58 · answer #6 · answered by groundhog 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't need to go to swingers or anything. Just find a girlfriend or boyfriend who's into sex. You can have so much fun that you never had before.
2007-01-18 06:57:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you seriously need to talk to a spiritual director. You have no idea of what being devoted to God is all about, or religion for that matter.
2007-01-18 06:54:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of it like swimming, before you jump in the pool, test the water with a toe first to see if you like the temperature...
while it sounds all exciting, if its a world you're not used to it could be a huge culture shock... get out there, find a guy you like and see what happens... its much better to have sex in a loving relationship than not.. good luck...
2007-01-18 11:11:41 · answer #9 · answered by muppet 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fed Up With Religion.
2007-01-18 06:56:24 · answer #10 · answered by godsapostolic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what feels right to you and make decisions that you can wake up the next morning and feel ok about yourself. Find your moral compass and let it guide you.
2007-01-18 06:54:21 · answer #11 · answered by Jo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋