i feel very uncomfortable knowing a naked chic is dancing on my man. however i know i am the sh*t and if we break up it is his loss.
so i would like to know how u feel about it!!
2007-01-18 06:44:11 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont know if its considered cheating .. only unless he is touching, kissing, sexing this girl.. but I would consider it disrespectful if you dont like it. If it doesnt bother you then its ok.. but if for any reason you tell him or show him that you dont like it.. he should respect that. Personally I dont want my man in a strip club... I told him that I didnt like it from jump. I asked him what he thought and he said he didnt think it was that big of a deal. I said well it is to me.. so let me know if its a problem. So far hes respected the fact that I dont want him there. Just talk to him about how it makes you feel. You'll see what is more important to him. The strip club or making the relationship work. Its all about compromising and communicating...Good luck girly!!!!
2007-01-18 06:50:04 · answer #1 · answered by Mily1 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If a married guy is going to a strip club to loaf round mutually with his friends and watch the females dances there and does not something else then that's not seen dishonest. If a married guy is going to a strip club with different intentions and acts on it then sure it will be dishonest. that's neither correct or incorrect for a married guy to bypass to a strip club. that's how comfortable his spouse is that he is going and how typically it takes position. I gave the okay to my Husband to bypass to a strip club, truly when you consider that he does have friends who're not married and on some events many have requested him to joined them yet he's continuously refused out of respect for me. I 've advised him that i don't have a difficulty with it and is interested in turning out to be a member of him as well if he would like me too bypass. so a procedures that hasn't occurred yet and if it does a minimum of both one each and every man or woman is on an same web page so there is basically not any arguments or conflicts between us.
2016-10-17 02:07:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the man and your relationship. I would be perfectly fine if my boyfriend went to a strip club with a group of guys on rare occasions. I wouldn't take it personally or get upset. After all... the girls and I might want to go see male strippers as a group. :) On the other hand if I were dating someone that wanted to frequent the strip clubs often or when there is not a group going out just for fun on occasion... then yes! I would be upset, consider it cheating and probably not want to have a relationship with a person that had that type of personality. Good luck!
2007-01-18 06:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not cheating. Let your man go and hang with the guys some, he needs that.
I'm not saying this pertaining to you. Alot of, mainly young girls, get very insecure about their man going to a strip club. I know that nothing goes on in there. Those girls are just trying to feed their kids, they couldn't care less about the men that come in there. Let you man have a break every once in a while.
2007-01-18 06:47:05 · answer #4 · answered by Lara Croft 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not cheating unless he does something physical... if my man was going to the strip club and he know I didnt really like it, I would start going to a male strip club to show him how it feels. And if he doesnt care, I would be amazed
2007-01-18 06:48:05 · answer #5 · answered by Tbone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your on the right track of what you are thinking. If your partner is having any sexual contact whether its just a naked dancing girl or to even worse, then he needs to get a grip and know that he has you. if he doesn't understand then he is not worth it. let him know that its bothering you and if he doesn't care then his loss.break up with him and get someone who will respect you and not take "strip club" as a just a hang out.
2007-01-18 06:47:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm actually a real stickler for what my husband can and can't do. He can have women as friends, but he cannot share secrets with that women. He can see women naked, but he cannot touch naked women. Chatting on-line would drive me into a jealous rage. Going to a strip joint would not.
2007-01-18 06:48:22 · answer #7 · answered by just browsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he go once for a bachelor party? Or does he go regularly. If its a regular thing for him, ditch him now. Something wrong with men paying for something their not going to get and then doing that over and over again. To me those men are slow-learners. Besides a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.
2007-01-18 06:48:55 · answer #8 · answered by LoneStarLou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont sweat it. He knows they are untouchable. Men dont want strippers. We are visually stimulated. You probably reap the rewards when he gets home anyway. Its nothing more than fantasizing during sex. If you make an issue about it, he will either think you are a ***** or he will still go and hide it from you.
Offer to go with him sometime.
2007-01-18 06:48:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm usually sitting next to him at the Strip Club so it really doesn't bother me ... I learn a few new things each time we go ... and when we leave we're both so hot for each other we usually can't wait to rip each others clothes off and go at it in the truck ... lol ... !
2007-01-18 06:54:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋