Yesterday I caught my boyfriend sleeping in his bed with another girl. He was behind her holding her (under the covers) & they were both facing the door. When I pushed his bedroom door open, they both opened their eyes and saw me, and I said, "Real sweet" and slammed the door shut and got the hell out of there. He called me ALL day yesterday and texted me too, telling me that he knows I should be upset but "It's not what what it looks like" (I know, right?) and to call him so that he can explain everything. Well, I believe there's nothing to explain. He shouldn't have had someone else in his bed--period. Since I believe there's nothing for him to possibly explain (whatever it is, it's a lie), I have not replied to any of his calls or texts, or even email. The silent treatment is the worst, & I think he should wade in his own crap forever for what he did. I'm not going to give him the satisfaction of telling me his "story" because he doesn't deserve it! What do you guys think?
2007-01-18 06:38:04 · 19 answers · asked by wasabiwithyoursushi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off im sorry you had to experience that. secondly you did the right thing. DO NOT EVER give him the chance to spew bullsh*t out of his mouth... nothing he can say or do will make things right. He cheated, he was caught... walk away and never look back.
If you allow him a chance to infect your brain with his words.. your only risking more sufforing
2007-01-18 06:45:27 · answer #1 · answered by eViL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Your doing the right thing. He was in bed with someone else-you would be at risk for STD's and hepatitis. He didn't show any regard for your feelings or your relationship. You deserve 100 percent of your man not sloppy seconds.
2007-01-18 06:50:55 · answer #2 · answered by Robyn K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all you should never have walked away...you should have confronted him infront of the girl...now he can say anything and you will never know the truth...whatever he says right now is a lie anyway...he can say he didn't sleep with her but he was still in her arms and eventually it would have happened...its your call if you want to hear the lies..but i think you should kick him to the curb
2007-01-18 06:55:23 · answer #3 · answered by lala diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really respect your strength!....you are definitely definitely doing the right thing.....nothing he says gives him the right to cheat...NOTHING!!!! No one has the right to cheat on his/her lover no matter what the situation is....if he has a problem with your replationship he should come and talk to you...not cheat!!!
You are doing the right thing...and i respect you for that! Keep doing the right thing!
Remember, once a cheater always a cheater....
Good Luck!
2007-01-18 06:49:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are doing the right thing...he is a lying cheat and doesn't deserve to breathe your air....stick to your guns and don't look back...good luck
2007-01-18 06:43:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes, your doing the right thing. Kick that d**k to the curb.
2007-01-18 06:46:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anyone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r right!!!!! Silence treatment is the best plus its probably a lie he wants to tell you so dont!!!!
2007-01-18 06:43:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good for you baby girl. don't take him back for any reason. keep doing what you're doing. take great pride of who you are. don't give in. be strong; stand tall; things like this, i would never give anyone a second chance.
2007-01-18 06:47:42 · answer #8 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go girl! You deserve better. Stay strong
2007-01-18 06:45:11 · answer #9 · answered by DEENIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are doing the right thing,
2007-01-18 07:05:46 · answer #10 · answered by godsapostolic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋