the situation is, i have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, and we are stable, comfortable, affectionate.
I have met a man online, not even in a flirting situation to begin with ( he had a girlfriend, never intended to cheat or even flirt neither did I) we both said from the second we started talking we weren't single and had no intention of cheating or even 'chat cheating' but, ..from the very first day we spoke, we couldn't stop thinking about each other. I know how silly that sounds. We have been talking for hours and hours on the phone every day, and plan to meet (we can't not, we feel) the trouble is, I can't choose. Do I go with the man who has given me stability, albeit not very exciting, for the last 5 years, or give it all up (with all the mess and disruption that comes with that) for someone who i love and who understands me and vice versa, I mean on a level I've never had before..but with the risk that it might not work out? I've never been more confused! I love him!
2007-01-18
12:01:21
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