Okay, I love this guy. I love him more and more every day. He likes me as a friend and everything and that makes me happy. So, this guy has a girlfriend. She's one of my best friends. The thing is, she's moving this summer. Would it be totally wrong to make a move on this guy after she left? We don't have that whole 'don't date a friend's ex' rule. It doesn't matter in our group. WHAT THE HECK SHOULD I DO?
2007-01-18 12:06:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can do either:
1. What your heart says or
2. What your brain says...
Or be selfish...
2007-01-18 12:09:45 · answer #1 · answered by dasdesperado 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even without a spoken or written rule, friends don't sit like vultures waiting for our friends to break up with their boyfriends. At the least, wait until his body has cooled off before touching it.
2007-01-18 12:09:36 · answer #2 · answered by sherockstn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The KrÌ£sÌ£nÌ£a consciousness movement is so beneficial that it can very easily counteract the contamination of material nature, which results from one's possessing a material body. Bhagavad-gÄ«tÄ therefore teaches, in the very beginning, that whether one is a man or a woman, one must know that he or she is not the body but a spiritual soul. Everyone should be interested in the activities of the spirit soul, not the body. As long as one is activated by the bodily conception of life, there is always the danger of being misled, whether one is a man or a woman. The soul is sometimes described as purusÌ£a because whether one is dressed as a man or a woman, one is inclined to enjoy this material world. One who has this spirit of enjoyment is described as purusÌ£a. Whether one is a man or a woman, he is not interested in serving others; everyone is interested in satisfying his or her own senses. KrÌ£sÌ£nÌ£a consciousness, however, provides first-class training for a man or a woman. A man should be trained to be a first-class devotee of Lord KrÌ£sÌ£nÌ£a, and a woman should be trained to be a very chaste follower of her husband. That will make the lives of both of them happy.
www.krishna.com
2007-01-18 12:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by Servant of the Servant 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Leave it at friends. Even if she moves away that wouldn't be a nice thing to do. Find a guy who hasn't dated a friend, its safer that way!
2007-01-18 12:10:11 · answer #4 · answered by chemky1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don`t get in their way untill she leaves. Perhaps its not by choice that she is leaving. If so she`s being punished enough already,. having a FRIEND move in on her man would be quite HARSH
2007-01-18 12:13:56 · answer #5 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your girlfriend about it. She can tell you all about the guy anyways, and what he likes, so you can make him love you too
2007-01-18 12:08:48 · answer #6 · answered by Dave ! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she leaving permantly are they breacking up i mean if tehya re breaking up go head make a move!!!! and well r u sure he likes you as a gf? remmeber its not best to lose a friendship over a guy!!! best of luck on your decision!!!
2007-01-18 12:13:56 · answer #7 · answered by Susette P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should wait until ur friend leaves, and slowly becoe closer to the guy, then ake ur move, but be careful, and dont come on too strong
2007-01-18 12:08:53 · answer #8 · answered by courtney 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time after she leaves, if he can put her down and take interest in you, you two can try being together =) Good luck
2007-01-18 12:09:09 · answer #9 · answered by Sarahie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How serious are they? Would you hurt her feelings? If she's really your friend,you should be able to talk to her about your interests. Best of Luck here! ;-)=
2007-01-18 12:11:44 · answer #10 · answered by Jcontrols 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. She doesn't own him. BEsides, I thought everyone said that "All is fair in love and war" What happened to that idea?
2007-01-18 12:09:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋