hello! i have a question (duh). ok, first, intro- i sing, act, am the lead singer in an all-girl band (think the ramones, new-wave era u2, and riot grrrl stuff all in one), am really into the visual arts as well as opera and musical theatre, and i dress very differently. i go to a school where these things are not really the norm, and i've found in the past year and a half lots of guys will approach me and start up a conversation, but once i reply they pretty much expect me to do the rest. it's irritating because these guys are adorable, but they almost seem incapable of carrying on the conversation. i get looks in the hallway that pretty much guarantee intent interest, but some don't even approach me. what do you think- are they intimidated or do they just meet me and figure out i'm not as interesting as i come across to be? and if they're intimidated- what can i do to ease their nerves? good lord, it's painful, you'd laugh if you witnessed one of these conversations.
2007-01-11
14:25:53
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