I became best friends with a guy who moved to my school. He and I are always hanging out together in school, and many people have asked if we are a couple. We always poke each other during class, and hug every time we part ways. Two months ago, he told me he liked me as more than a friend, and I told him I liked him as more than a friend too. However, he has a girlfriend back where he used to live, and he loves her. Nothing has really happened between us; we're just close, poking/hugging friends. I have developed very strong feelings for him, even though I shouldn't. I really want to get over this infatuation or else I'm going to drive myself crazy thinking about him. Does anyone have any good ideas on how to get over this crush? Unfortunately, I can't just stop "seeing" him because I have class with him everyday and we're best friends, so I'd have to explain why I'm trying to avoid him since he'll notice.
2007-01-11 14:10:10 · 3 answers · asked by Momo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hun, it sounds like he is going to have to make a choice. if he told you that he has feelings for you then it is him who has to decise. you or this other girl. you cant make him decide and if you truly care about each other than it isnt an 'infatuation' it is a crush or u may even like/love him.
2007-01-11 14:15:19 · answer #1 · answered by sapphireblue327 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First stop hugging and poking. Treat him as a friend and not as someone you would like to date. You don't have to stop being friends, just redefine the friendship.
2007-01-11 22:14:06 · answer #2 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally, I don't think his long distance relationship with his other girlfriend's gonna work out. But you should probably talk to him about it, tell him that he has to choose between you or her. XD
2007-01-11 22:14:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anodyne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋