What do you think about getting married???

Answer 1

id rather cut off a limb. or poke out a eye!

Answer 2

Wow, one of the most open ended questions on Yahoo! I mean this question could be taken a lot of ways. So let me discuss two. First what do I think about people getting married in general and secondly what do I think about myself getting married.

1. Well people don't understand love. And a huge amount of people, if not the majority, get married and dont' understand what being in love, or what true love really is.

True love is choosing to love somone through actions even if you don't feel like it. Love is more than a feeling it is a choice. Its more than a choice it is an action.

2. I am so happy I got married. Are things perfect? No! Are things easy? No! But I enjoy the many blessing that my marriage has brought to my life. I also believe my marriage has also benefited society as a whole.

Answer 3

I highly recommend marriage if both partners whole heartily believe that your relationship is great from every aspect ....and that two people are truly and deeply in love with each other as well ...............and it is a connection that neither one of u have felt for anyone else before ( regardless of no. of relationships in the past) ....And above all the person u what to marry should allow u and inspire u to grow as a person and have that self growth themselves at the same time along side with u ............Being married myself it was the right choice I made and definitely with the right person........Having said that marriage is a partnership of endless compromises, undemanding forgiveness..... and it requires constant attention and it has to be kept alive and exciting by unconditional effort and love from both partners!!!
Also keep in mind if a marriage is the next step in any relationship contemplation regarding pros and cons of marriage would be the last topic of importance if at all !!!!

Answer 4

well, I thought it was a good idea at the time, but now I don't know. Marriage is hard work, and sometimes, you just don't know if you can stand it anymore. Sometimes it is the best thing in the world. It is NOT all "happily ever after", their are a lot of bumps along the way. It is a huge commitment, so think long and hard about it. If I had to go back in time to make the decisions I did about marriage, knowing what I know now, I probably would still say yes. One thing I would change would be how much we spent on the wedding (we would have spent less). Remember marriage is about the rest of your life, not the wedding.

Answer 5

Marriage in its realest definition is a path, a journey that two people take. This path, this journey is different that courtship. This is a journey that selects the two. Marriage is about trust, faith and family. That is Marraige. Today's definition of marriage is not really marriage. People are getting married and not honoring vows or each other and its just a hook up before the divorce. You must come to your on definition about marriage. I beleive in marraige not the marriages in Hollywood or the two year roommate arrangements. I bleive in marriage the way God created it to be. So if you don't beleive that the journey of marriage has selected you and your love! If you are not able to see the most lowest parts of life or each other with one or another you probably or nowhere near ready for marriage.

Answer 6

I used to abhor the idea of marriage. Who could blame me when most of the world is divorced, remarried, seperated or intentionally widowed.

But then I met a wonderful man. And it kind of made me change my outlook.

Marriage is not for everyone. Sometimes it's not even for those couples who are together for decades.

In reality the term marriage is nothing more than a label and allowence to certian government benefits. Some people believe their love is so strong that they don't need to be married. I kind of believe this is a cop out.

I persoanlly am looking foward to marriage to this man. Even if it is just a label.

Answer 7

I think you should hold off on making that decision till you are about 27. If you live with someone from 22 to 27, that doesn't count. You should just casually date, travel, go to school, spend time with friends, parents and siblings, PARTY! Take up a hobby....there is sooo much to do before you make that decision. Most make the mistake of making it too early, or being with someone that it's almost like they have already been married for that long....So I think closer to 30 is a better time to start considering something like that.

Answer 8

Marriage is very serious thing that should not be gone into lightly! But as a married person I would not change a thing! He is everything I am not and he brings me such joy! When you are ready and you know that the person is right, you have to go into it with the mindset that divorce is not even an option!

Answer 9

I think it is hard to be married but it also gives you a team mate for life. If I could go back and choose again I would definitely still get married.

Answer 10

I think marriage is something that two people who really love on another and want to spend the rest of their lives together should do. However, it takes a lot to make it work out, so you have to be sure that you are willing to spend the rest of your lives together. Through thick and thin, the bad and the good. There is a lot of marriages that don't last because the two have too many problems. So in order to make it work, you have to both make an effort to make it work.

Answer 11

Its wonderful! As long as you are getting married because you love, respect, and want to spend the rest of your life with the person you marry.