Singles & Dating - 11 January 2007

What if after i tell him that i have a huge crush on him and things starts to get akward, you have to remember that he plays an important role in my life and he hold some part of my future in his hands. I am just afraid of him saying something i wish he doesn't say if i do chose to tell him, my world will most definetly get turn upside down. Lately i've been joking with him and calling him old, just to tease him, that guy has horrible memories. Today he said he just wants to please everyone that he is working with, that's the jobs he's chosen and he has to be at full pace at all times. We've touched somewhat of the dating matter. He said that he's not looking for someone to carry the title of being call his girlfriend, but he won't mind having a buddy, someone he can kick it with. But that's not what i'm looking for, i am getting older not younger and i am not most certainly looking for a temporary relationship, i am looking for the one that's for me.Beside he' already being married.

2007-01-11 15:05:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay i have alot of fears what is a few good ways to conquer them? also i have trouble with getting embarassed what should i do to not get embarassed as much as i do ecspecially in front of a guy i like pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeee help!

2007-01-11 15:04:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need ideas quick...?

2007-01-11 15:03:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay so im well, not straight and i like my best friend....and i think he knows it because we have done some stuff well ive done them and hes let me......but he tells everyone he is straight... and well he really doesnt treat me rite and he uses me as a door mat around everyone....but wen we're alone he acts like the sweetest guy in the world...and now he has a GF and i mean i want to be happy and support him but i cant .... i get a lito jealous....wat do i do?

2007-01-11 15:03:44 · 8 answers · asked by Gamerz 2

Such a sad sad world we live in. Poor kids today have zero role models. 99% of Hollywood is trashed up druggies with 4 different men and 6 kids. Kids today have nothing but violent cartoons to watch, no one goes outside anymore it seems to throw a damn football, their all fat and lazy playing playstation on the couch which is why we have an obesity edpidemic in our youth.
Women on the other hand watch crappy shows like Desperate Housewives, and think "this is the way to be", NOT ALL WOMEN, But some for sure, don't deny this.
Kids are under so much peer pressure at school to compete for who has the better sneakers, hair, ipod, house, cars, clothes especially, shoes, etc. So sad.
How about all these crimes agains kids, these scumbags should be castrated and thrown to the sharks.
Gosh, when I look back at my younger years, I wouldn't trade it for the world. Would YOU?

2007-01-11 15:02:44 · 7 answers · asked by godzillasagoodman 2

I can't quit thinking about how I lost my virginity. I'll first say we're both 20. My supposed "boyfriend" I lost it to isn't really keeping in any damn touch with me. We've haven't known each other long at all. It seems every time I call with my cell we get disconnected. I call back using my home phone and he is somewhere else or now busy with some shi+. I barely knew him before I lost it to him. I feel like a slu+! I said for years I was waiting until my honeymoon. Today I spilled the beans to a close relative and I heard after we got off she was pissed that i called her.She said, " What the hell am I supposed to do" to a friend of mine she works with. I'll admit, she was at work. I can't get this off my mind! What the hell should I do?! Should I bring it up with another relative? None of my relatives know him accept my mom knowing I have a new bf. What the hell do I do!!!??? I need my therapist but I don't see her until next week. What do I do???!!!!!

2007-01-11 15:02:43 · 3 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3

I like this guy... Baz but he's all messed up with this girl Laura... Baz and i have a lot of good chats and stuff and he comes out to hang with me some time,s but i dont know what i should do, i dont know whether to keep being a friend or ... i think what he really needs i to get over this girl because from what he's told me she doesnt seam too interested. he and i ahd soem thing on NYE but we didnt do any thing about and i know he felt it to... im just wondering now, if i should kiss hima dn see what happens from there or just keep being a good mate... thanks

2007-01-11 15:02:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-11 15:00:50 · 2 answers · asked by motown 1

2007-01-11 15:00:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

we went to high school together and knew each other, went to some of the same classes, and spoke online now and then....
she met a guy at our university a couple of years ago.
now she lives with him 3000 km away, and they both work there too.

i think about her every day and wish i could be with her instead. she is really nice, usually smiling.
passionate about many things and lets people know if she thinks they're doing something wrong, but in a nice way that gets through to them. and she's usually right, i think.
she doesn't butt in and do it often or anything. this isn't the main reason i like her, but it's an example.
her entire view of things, her ideals and goals, are all so admirable and inspiring.

i would never tell her how i feel now though since she has a boyfriend, and it might be difficult even after that because i like how we chat online even though it's usually about nothing.
i think at some point i could tell her.

i don't think i want another girl.

2007-01-11 14:58:47 · 32 answers · asked by bad_ambassador 3

Ok so... I'm wondering... so there's this guy. I'm not sure if I like him as a boyfriend, or as just a friend. We're hanging out on Saturday, and I wanna know what's the best "date" idea for us? thanks

2007-01-11 14:58:21 · 5 answers · asked by kelly d 1

Im itialian and so are my parents, but my girlfriend of 8 months is hatian. My italian parents have no idea I am with her, i always lie about what i am doing when i am going to go see her. We care about each other very much, however my parents always have some sort of racial prejudice, and when i bring up the situation hypothetically with them, they always react very negatively. "I wouldnt hate you but i would wish you would pick someone in your own race. good thing this is just a hypothetical". I feel guilty for lying to them and i want them to accept this on some level. Any ideas?

2007-01-11 14:58:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I whated so long but I dk how much longer it will be! So yah I am open up to some opinions!

2007-01-11 14:57:28 · 14 answers · asked by ViVi 2

there’s this guy that I really liked at the beginning of the year, so I tried talking to him getting to know him better, but having a conversation with him was so difficult. I’ve seen him talk to other people (girls and guys) and he’s no shy person! But when he’s talking with me he barely says anything or talks about homework, and he can hardly look me in the eyes, making any conversation awkward. So I started to just forget about him, but people say I come off as if I’m ignoring him, and some think he likes me. Do you think he likes me, and how can I make him more comfortable and less awkward around me?

2007-01-11 14:57:15 · 6 answers · asked by f.lipped 2

The male co-worker is part of management, but he is not my manager directly. We have had a few conversations, but nothing too extensive. He is very nice and seems to like me as well. How do I get him to know I like him without looking like an idiot??

2007-01-11 14:57:05 · 2 answers · asked by fl_girl_2005 1

I don't think you should be friends with the people that you're working with. When things are "rosy", everything is ok. But when there's conflict, everybody knows about it and it will go down hill. My husband is a physician and a very kind person. I trust him completely, but I don't trust the females (ie: nurses, social workers, secretary,etc..) he works with. Most of them are below his level, thus, they are very sweet talkesr and compliment him a lot. Those compliments which most of the time are just "brown nosing" and I'm sure they don't meant it. but he sometimes get flattered by those "fake" compliments. He is a very nice person, and some women can be very manipulative, calculated, and cunning, that sometimes my husband may not see through them. I know my husband is very committed to our family. Those women that he works with go after him for money. So in order to keep things professional, I don't think it's appropriate to be friends with people you work with,esp the opposite sex

2007-01-11 14:55:55 · 6 answers · asked by cat 1

for example do you like going to the lake...

2007-01-11 14:52:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-11 14:50:35 · 7 answers · asked by dbmistry88 3

Thinks I'm a dork because I act wierd around girls I like...

What should I do to stop her thinking that?

2007-01-11 14:49:26 · 2 answers · asked by rusty s 2

i told him i like him and he said i was to tall
what should i do!

2007-01-11 14:49:07 · 20 answers · asked by â?¥Ms.ToP nOtCh ChIcKâ?¥ 2

Like do you prefer stick thin girls, cury girls, etc...

2007-01-11 14:49:00 · 10 answers · asked by f.lipped 2

2007-01-11 14:48:47 · 17 answers · asked by Brendan T 1

2007-01-11 14:48:27 · 9 answers · asked by Chris Hansen 2

She is being mean and thinks she is all that and know even has a boyfriend at the age of twelve!!! What should we do? Tell her how we feel or forget about it and not chase after her?

2007-01-11 14:48:00 · 2 answers · asked by Kelly B 2

2007-01-11 14:47:54 · 28 answers · asked by Derek 3

to call the Doctors at night and discuss a patients condition and talk about tests we have done on them. There is a Doctor that is very rude to her and refuses to talk to her about her patients even though she is the one that does all the test, He will ask to speak to me instead even though I have to ask her the questions he is asking me since I did not do the patient. She gets very upset and feels like he is descriminating against her because she has been doing her job for 23 yrs. and has never had a dr. treat her like this before. He said because of her speech not being clear (but nobody has ever had problems understanding her before ) that it could be a safety issue with the patients. She told our supervisor that she felt like he was descriminating against her and our Supervisor told her that "HE DID NOT HAVE TO TALK TO HER AND IT WASN"T HIS FAULT THAT HE COULDN"T UNDERSTAND HER!" well, that shocked even me. Does she have a right to feel the way she does?

2007-01-11 14:47:44 · 7 answers · asked by fighting 40s 1

If a guy you don't like talks to you he will have to do all the work.
But if it is a guy you like , you do a lot of taking as well and help him carry the conversation and extend it. Right?

2007-01-11 14:46:52 · 6 answers · asked by The Brown Bomber 2

Why must women always ask questions like: Where are all the good guys? Why do men cheat?

You women should realize that your race is just as bad. You hurt, lie, and cheat just like men do. Stop blaming us for stuff because I can ask the same question as well: Where are all the good girls at? Where could I find a good girl?

Grrr :)

2007-01-11 14:46:25 · 16 answers · asked by Nicky_Nolstorm 1

I am a 37 yr old woman & have found online that guys 22-29 are the most interested in me. Now, I have to say it isn't cuz Im very beautiful cuz Im not. When I get dress up then I can be, but that isn't always.

2007-01-11 14:44:48 · 14 answers · asked by Ghost 3

2007-01-11 14:44:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous