Singles & Dating - 9 January 2007

me and my bf are deciding wether or not we should do stuff! We both have been having oral sex ans such for a long time, but we both have the same religion and often feel a little guilty! We both want to keep doing it, but we both also want to stop! We both know that no matter what the decision, it will not efect our relationship, but it is confusing! I don;t think it is that bad that we do it b/c we've been together for 1 year and 2 months and we plan to get married next year, but i am still confused as what to do until then??

2007-01-09 02:01:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was separated from my boyfriend but now we're back together....and I want to make things better, I want to show him that I care a lot about him, that he means a lot to me...even though it's a long distance relationship..500 km...he's coming tomorrow to see me.I want to make him a present,something small that would remind him 4ever about me...i thought of sth with my name on, like a necklace with sth or anything but...I can't find a thing like that...I want it to be with my nickname on :)..please do you have any suggestions of something small but nice and pleasant for him?and not expensive?he's a nice guy, he listens to rock music, but he's a bit pessimistic and changes his mind very often...he hasn't got self confidence but he loves me a lot and he would do anything for our relationship...anything would impress him cause it's from his girlfriend.Thanks a lot!

2007-01-09 02:01:06 · 7 answers · asked by teen 3

when i met my g/f, now my ex, she only told me that her ex cheated on her..until one day i overheard her tell her friend that her ex was physically abusive towards her. could it be she was embarassed to tell me or what?

2007-01-09 01:59:39 · 4 answers · asked by bandi 2

... about the opposite sex, that you hesitate to ask a person out?

In my case, it has to do with my ex-spouse. Now, every guy that I see, I start wondering how long it would take them to turn into a monster.

But, then, that's me.

This one guy I know told me my intelligence intimidated him a bit, which I thought was funny. He said that I used too many big words. Needless to say, THAT was interesting.

Let me know.

And, thanks in advance for all the funny, serious, and offensive answers. :)

2007-01-09 01:59:05 · 2 answers · asked by raydeeo_face 2

2007-01-09 01:58:59 · 53 answers · asked by erreyes 1

A guy told me one time that guys are more likely to ask me out if i'm with a group of a few girls instead of by myself when i go places. Is that true?

2007-01-09 01:58:37 · 20 answers · asked by shine_on 3

IM 17 AND 6 FT TALL ALL the cute boys are shorter than me and i just want to shrink is there any way i can be shorter somway to stunt my growth im tired of being tall and bog i want to be 5'4 and little i hate myself so plez help me be shorter so i can have a cute boyfriend and they can not be imtimated by me any more thanx soory about this typed i know it needs corrections i just dont have time im in school and the bells about to ring ~sorry please hepl

2007-01-09 01:58:08 · 10 answers · asked by it's HG !! 2

This is not me.

A friends daughter has recently started 'seeing' this 30 year old.

Personally I think it is a bit wrong but I wanted to know what the general consensus is.

She has left school and works in a bank. He works in the same bank and that is how they met.

He looks alot younger - about 26 I would say and she looks about 18 but I still find it a little weird.

They go on dates and he takes her out for meals and stuff. She also goes round to his flat on a regular basis but my friend does not seem to mind to much which shocks me because if I had a 16 year old daughter I would not like it at all.

Am I being narrow minded or is this wrong?

2007-01-09 01:57:30 · 37 answers · asked by abluebobcat 4

My gf and I parted ways. I decided to change my appearance for a fresh start so I cut my mullet and went to the short hair look like my advatar has. I thought this would provide more options for me. Do you think this was a good idea to go with a new look as I look for a new partner?

2007-01-09 01:57:28 · 39 answers · asked by hottimesforallwomen 3

i found out she wrote him a note asking him out. he hasn't answered her yet. i decided that i couldn't love him anymore. it made me upset that she asked him out with out talking to me about it. she knew i had a relationship with one that meant so much to me and i really loved him. i do want him to be happy. but i don't think he should go out with her. my best friend is some one who cheats on guys and demands so much attention that not a whole lot of guys go out with her. she can also become obsessive about a guy.

2007-01-09 01:56:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-09 01:55:03 · 22 answers · asked by whtsgnon 2

well the guy that i have been wit fro 2 months now is haveing a lot of problems with his babys mom.she wont let him see his daughter and she is his pride and joy.he crys all the time b/c he wants to see her.but his b/m is being a ***** and wont let him.she says that hes not fit to see his lil girl but he is doing everything she says that he has to do to see her he has a job and he has an apartment but she still wont let him see his BABY GIRL(thats what he calls her)I have tried everyhting that i can think of to help him but its not working.PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-09 01:53:25 · 8 answers · asked by xxrlhoodratxx 2

that guys use "if she smokes, she pokes".... is the how guys look at a woman who smokes cigarettes?

2007-01-09 01:53:05 · 6 answers · asked by lindaminato 1

if u when't with someone but he doesn't call nor email u then u get a new guy and he get's mad then u get two more guy' s what would u call yourself

2007-01-09 01:52:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so me and my ex dated for 2 years and then broke up for about a year and just about 3 weeks ago we started dateing agian. thing where going great tell before my bday we had not seem one and other for about 2 weeks and i wanted her to come to my school to see me for my bday and she said no. i got upset b/c i really wanted to see her and it didnt evan seem like she cared that she was not coming. so then like 2day later she tells me one of her best guy friends from school is comeing to see her and chill later that night she calls me and tells me that he is sleeping over i get mad or whatever and then the nextday she calls me and tell me i have not changed and she does not want to be with me. well lastnight i found out that she like this other guy her other bff she told me and its just kills me i know i need to move on and for get about her but its like whatever i do i cant i need some help

2007-01-09 01:52:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's this boy in my class.We're both teens,of course.I started up quite bad,by teasing him.Now almost all we do is tease each other.I tell him he's stupid,he comes with a similar replica and so on.If he doesn't mess with me,it's just not him.Regardless if it's about my boots or my hat..Though,we look in each others eye very often.Often,when we fight,everyone watches us,and that is not good.He always helps me out if I need his help,even if I don't ask it.Once,when we were in a club,I had quite a lot of drinks.He was then in another girl's arms,yet he ran out after me when I was sick and ran out to throw up.He was the one who asked me if I was ok...He often touches me,just like that on the leg or something,but he never kisses orhugs me.I can speak to him for a whole day long.We argue and then it's back to normal again.My best friend and not only her says that he likes another girl.This lass said to my friend,that the lad declaired his love to her.She has another boyfriend.I love him...

2007-01-09 01:50:11 · 1 answers · asked by poppy seed 1

Im in class right now.. and this guy who sits right beside me always smells like smoke... its making me sick.. ugh.... what can i tell him?...

2007-01-09 01:49:33 · 17 answers · asked by Chris L 1

I'm a freshman in college and am having a very tough time. My girlfriend of 18 months who I spent every day with broke up with me and telling me that we both need to regain identity. She told me "for now" and "I still have hope".... but I know I could never go back out with her till I regain Identity and become fully happy here in college. The problem Is I'm increadibly shy... like even with my roommate. I feel like I dont know how to talk to anyone... It's kinda lonely..Not to be a whiner..but I don't have too many friends here and it's already the second quarter of college. I know I'm capable of being happy. The 18 months I had with my girlfriend were amazing...They were so carefree. We both agree. But since college started everything is so hard. I havn't talked to her much since the break. My parents are very supportive but I need to learn how to talk to ppl and I want this girl back...I need help and suggestions. Thanks

2007-01-09 01:48:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

when im h-orny i call my boyfriend i don't say anything i just say hi and he replay honey wait for me 5m and i'll be their and just didn't say a thing so how the he** did he know that i'm h-orney

2007-01-09 01:47:46 · 8 answers · asked by me 3

we always talk but alot of the time he talks to me first.i am shy so i can't really think of anything to say.i don't really ever look in his direction on purpose but i do look at him when we're talking.i give the wrong impression because of this.what do you think?

2007-01-09 01:45:00 · 4 answers · asked by debra 2

me (19) and AP (19) have had a brief but intense past.

even though me and him only lasted 3 weeks in late november/early december
i was so infatuated
i have known him since september

since he has been out with his high school crush, J for about a week (last week) but has spent much time with her on the phone (over a year but not during when i was with him) she's really special to him and i respect that. he is single now...

he has been in the state of confusion because he doesn't know whether he should carry on with J whom occasionally falls out with him or stop.. and find someone else.

and that someone else...would be me. because he knows how i feel

he comes to me for advice about J, i give him honest opinions, not trying to mislead him to leave her, because if that was me, i wouldn't.

but it hurts because I WANT HIM FOR MYSELF but now i am his friend/flirt buddy LOL i don't know.
only speaks to me when he pleases. how crap is that?!
i cherish each moment with him

2007-01-09 01:44:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

This girl is blowing hot and cold one min shes all over me the next she doesn't want to know.

2007-01-09 01:44:02 · 10 answers · asked by Mr E 1

Have you ever had the feeling when you first see someone that they are destined to be in your life for some reason? Just wondering if this is possible. My friend told me when she first saw her boyfriend thats how she felt.

2007-01-09 01:41:16 · 16 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3

i always get indian guys messaging me.....one of them even gave me his phone number! like im really gonna call him or something when he's in another country! u guys are crazy on here!

mindy xoxo

2007-01-09 01:40:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've found someone i love,i've been in love for four years... the thing is that i'm still young,i want to know my other options but i don't want to end up two timing. how do i meet other guys then?

2007-01-09 01:39:25 · 16 answers · asked by bittersweet 1

2007-01-09 01:38:50 · 41 answers · asked by claire 1

2007-01-09 01:37:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-09 01:35:36 · 10 answers · asked by OLGA 4

2007-01-09 01:32:35 · 6 answers · asked by marseilleandchulo 1

I've met this 41-year-old Italian guy online and he would like to meet me. He's coming to my country and he asked me if I wanted to spend some days with him in a hotel. He also asked me for my phone number. I've told him I don't know the code for my country, which is true, and I'm still thinking if I really should meet him.

2007-01-09 01:32:15 · 24 answers · asked by Analyst 7