Singles & Dating - 9 January 2007

2007-01-09 03:54:13 · 8 answers · asked by Michael M 3

Put these in order..

1.Personality
2.looks/apperance
3.Intelligence
4.Income
5.Family backgorund
6.Of age whether or not they have children
7.MATURITY
8.Desire to marry

2007-01-09 03:53:20 · 6 answers · asked by FASHION*DIVA 3

What if he was a great guy, you could trust him, he made you feel great, but he was totally broke. I mean, he works and everything, but he doesnt make much, and he pays half of it to child support. He was in the military, and his child support is really high, and the court wont lower it for him. He seems unwilling to look for a better paying job, and i dont want to push the issue. I have money to support myself and my 2 children, but not enough to support him too. I find myself wanting to buy him stuff, like new clothes, cause he needs them, and I stop myself, because i know I should spend my money on my kids and not him. What do you think. Should I break up with this guy? I really like him, I could see us staying together for a long time, if money wasnt such an issue.

2007-01-09 03:51:23 · 30 answers · asked by Sarah 3

I mean what do you like about them or how much older then you do you prefer ? Just a reason.

2007-01-09 03:50:20 · 2 answers · asked by yoyo 2

my ex bf called me on new years eve drunk and yellin at me and stuff well this guy he just met and was hangin out with takes the phone from him and was like im sry hes bein so mean hes drunk...and he asked what was Justin ( my ex) was talkin about and i told him what was goin on...that Justin has cheated on me with my older sister and he stills wants to be with me and i wont take him back and its been over year...Joey...Justin's new found friend...was like im rly sry...is there ne thing i can do to help...after that night we talked on the phone everday for like ever...then we started goin out and he says he feels like hes known me forever and that he loves me very much...i love him too...and i feel like ive known him forever too ...we have so much in common we like to do the same things go to the same places hang out with the same kinds of ppl and i feel i can tell him ne thing...is it wierd to love him so soon?

2007-01-09 03:49:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

oaky me and my boy friend have been dating well we broke up and stuff! then we got back together i told my mom we broke up and she said good u dont need him any ways! so ya then she got all mad at me when i told her i really like him though and ya well um! i want to tell her we got back together but i really dont know how!! can u help!

2007-01-09 03:48:33 · 8 answers · asked by *SoMe*OnE*SeCeRt* 1

I have been hit with lots of messages from women suggesting I change my id name; I think it attracts positive attention but they suggest it is negative. What do the real women on answers think? If I should change it, what should I pick and how do I change?

2007-01-09 03:48:16 · 12 answers · asked by hottimesforallwomen 3

I've never loved like this b4. Neither has she. The past couple months have been rough at times. She has a terrible past and I'm willing to do what ever it takes to make her sure again. She is young but I know she will never find someone who cares more about her. All of her others just wanted sex, she's never had someone who cares. How do I explain to her that I will never hurt her, and will do anything I have to, to make her feel perfect again. I love her more than ever, and she is not sure anymore. I'm getting frusturated, I can't say anything else to her, to let her know she is making a mistake. She doesn't see that, and I can't let her go, cuz I know she'll regret it a little later. But I won't stick around to find out, by the time she figures out what she is doing, it will be too late? What do I do... What do I say. I love her way too much to let her go. Someone please help me. I've always been a hardass, but now all I want to do is cry, and I've never done that over someone.

2007-01-09 03:46:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

a) skinny
b) average
c) built/muscular
d) chubby (a little extra weight)
e) fat

2007-01-09 03:46:39 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok there is this guy and he tells me that he kinda thinks of me like a little sister but he is most of the time flirting with me especially when he is drinking but i dont know if he is just ashamed of me or wat i need opinions and also if another guy flirts with me he kinda looks like he gets mad but i donno i need help im so confused cause others around me say that he is flirting and i kinda see it but i thought i was just seeing wat i wanted to see so please give me some good advice i would most greatly appreciate it thank you

2007-01-09 03:46:04 · 7 answers · asked by tabitha j 1

Like punching somebody ?

2007-01-09 03:45:35 · 8 answers · asked by J . B 2

2007-01-09 03:44:02 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this great guy but he has been in jail for 6 years for drug charges. He has made a total change in his life and he is working now as a truck driver. Today I slipped up and allowed our fondling to go a little father than it should.He gave me oral sex and then he made an attemp to have sex with me but he didn't fully penetrate me. I've only known him 4 days and this is not something I normally do, It just happend. I'm also getting over the death of my boyfriend he was murdered about a year and a half ago. I'm not sexually 'loose' Im almost 20 and have only had 1 real sexual partner(this guy I'm talkin about along with another really didn't penetrate me).My Q:
1)I'm so scared of dating a man who has been in jail for 6 years, cuz of the aids epidemic.He gave me oral sex, and even if he didn't fully penetrate me, should I be worried about it?
2)I feel guilty cuz I still love my last boyfriend, is this wrong as well?

2007-01-09 03:43:54 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-09 03:43:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Was it gross?

2007-01-09 03:43:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend likes to put me down a lot and i can barely take it anymore. then he said he was single on myspace and looking for that special someone??? when i asked him about it he said he was kidding and myspace was a waste of his time anyway, and that he really wants to be with me. what do i do????

2007-01-09 03:42:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-09 03:42:57 · 6 answers · asked by dev d 1

2007-01-09 03:42:17 · 33 answers · asked by DAVE 6

or will they alwas think they are right and better

2007-01-09 03:41:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-09 03:41:22 · 24 answers · asked by dev d 1

Last week i told a guy friend of mine at work that it would be better that we didn't talk so i can get over my crush on him since he's in a long distance relationship with another girl, as a matter of fact, she's in the Phillipines and he's here in the US. Before this happened, we joked around about hooking up, but then i felt bad and hurt about us joking about it. I told him that i really wanted to do it since i like him, but he has a gf and that it wouldn't be wise if we did it. Anyway, i got angry with him since he didn't respond back to me after I texted him Happy New Year's and I ended up sending him another text calling him a "dog" and that i didn't want to have anything to do with him, then later i apologized via text. Then the next day , I wrote him a letter telling him how i felt hurt about us joking around, and the fact we just treat each other as professionals. He's ignoring me, no hello, excuse me, thank you, nada.

2007-01-09 03:41:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-09 03:40:16 · 21 answers · asked by BUM 2

That you are only as Old as the woman you are feeling......?

2007-01-09 03:40:05 · 14 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4

I used to be friends with this one guy who i also used to lie...then i think he found out i liked him and all of sudden we started less talking until he started totally ignoring me...and the turth is i was so hurt i decided to ignore him back..and at the beginning i enjoyed ignoring him...and im also being mean to him because the thing is now these days he is talking to me a lot and im freaked out because the turth is that if i talk to him ill mess things up more..and all i want is for him to understand how much he hurt me and i just want to be friends

2007-01-09 03:39:47 · 26 answers · asked by SOPHIE p 1

My boyfriend got kicked out of his house, and he has no where to go. I still live with my parents. What can I do to help him? He hardly has any money...he works but it's all been put into his car so that he can fix it to get to work in the first place. I want to talk to my parents about letting him stay here at least until he figures something out but we haven't been dating that long and I don't know how to bring it up. I really care about him, hes like my best friend and I don't want anything bad to happen to him. I just don't know what I can do to help. I offered to move in with him and split rent so that he could afford an apartment but he said he didn't want to make it hard on me either. Although watching him struggle is hard enough. What can I do? Any suggestions?

2007-01-09 03:39:17 · 9 answers · asked by imperfectsimplicity 1

So I was at the airpot on way home. I was chilling at the terminal and I saw this dude was trying to make an eye contact with this hot chick. Finally after 10 minutes of confusion, he had a nerve to go and talk to that chick. Deep down inside I was laughing but at the same time I was feeling sorry for dude. He carried on some decent converstaion but his game wasn't good enough to seal the deal with that chick.He wasted 45 minutes behind that chick and his converstaion ended up shaking hands with that chick. I got good laugh out of it, he should have went to airport bar and get some drinks. Why do guys approach chicks when he knows he won't be able to get a lay?

2007-01-09 03:38:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-09 03:38:14 · 15 answers · asked by dev d 1

do you initiate going down on him or wait for him to ask for it?

2007-01-09 03:38:02 · 27 answers · asked by sd_andrea86 2

I didn't want to fall in love with you
one too many reasons to
keep you in arms length distance
tried my hardest
to resist and assist the doubts I had about this
but when I felt the passion in your lips
press against my soul and kiss
the iceburg tips
bliss
bliss
bliss
I tried I tried
I lied to myself
and cried tears of happiness inside
knowing I love the fact that it was a lie
and inside I knew I couldn't hide
so I succumbed outside
and cried inside as you let those three magic words fly
from your lips
placing me in a state of shock oh my
he knows the secret I have inside
I could no longer hide
now it feels pointless
because you're leaving and taking my heart hostage
unrestrained, I'm comletely in love
I'm no longer going to feel whole
with this hole inside of me where my heart used to be
if you leave me
I'm trying to be supportive, I am
I want nothing but the best for you and that goes without saying
I will always love you
but without you, I don't know what I am to do
I forever gave my heart to you
do I follow my heart
because my heart is with you
not trying to overbear or suffocate you
I'm so confused about what to do
My heart is leaving
and it's leaving with you

2007-01-09 03:37:38 · 3 answers · asked by shay 1

We've been going out for only like a few days but i really want to do something cute for him!

2007-01-09 03:36:45 · 12 answers · asked by tiNkErBeLL 2