Why is he acting like this?

Question

Last week i told a guy friend of mine at work that it would be better that we didn't talk so i can get over my crush on him since he's in a long distance relationship with another girl, as a matter of fact, she's in the Phillipines and he's here in the US. Before this happened, we joked around about hooking up, but then i felt bad and hurt about us joking about it. I told him that i really wanted to do it since i like him, but he has a gf and that it wouldn't be wise if we did it. Anyway, i got angry with him since he didn't respond back to me after I texted him Happy New Year's and I ended up sending him another text calling him a "dog" and that i didn't want to have anything to do with him, then later i apologized via text. Then the next day , I wrote him a letter telling him how i felt hurt about us joking around, and the fact we just treat each other as professionals. He's ignoring me, no hello, excuse me, thank you, nada.

Answer 1

if hes ignoring you get over him...that simple

Answer 2

If you're really friends and he cares about you he'll talk to you when he's ready. After a somewhat similar experience(arguing in an email with a guy friend) I realized that if he says/does something that bugs me I should just leave and not continue the conversation or retaliate. Because then you end up saying stuff you don't mean or stuff you'll regret. He may be upset about what you said or he may have mixed feelings after getting your letter. I'd try and wait it out a little while and then approach him in person if he doesn't contact you.good luck!

Answer 3

He is acting like that because you went crazy. He is a crush and you get over crushes you don't end friendships because you need to deal with it.

Answer 4

You went psycho, that's why he isn't responding. Guys don't want to be involved with girls that go psychotic like that.

Answer 5

In my very humble but sincere opinion...I think you scared him off