Singles & Dating - 3 January 2007

I have been dating my girlfriend for nearly 6 1/2 years now. We have had our ups and downs in our years of courtship. We even promised ourselves that we would marry each other when we were settled. However, the point of worry is that we hardly spent quality time with each other although you would expect us to do that. Most of the time we would be surrounded with friends and family. The outcome is that we realise now that we hardly know each other. I find my girlfriend in tears very often when we meet. At the same time she swears that she is so attached to me that she cannot imagine marrying anyone else. I do not know whether we have grown so attached to each other that we are unable to open our eyes to the realities of the world. I have been faithful to my girl all these years; our problem is that if we do decide to break up; we would lose the comfort of each others shoulders in our pain. Whether we would meet people we would be able to strike a cord with in the future is anotherquesti

2007-01-03 01:54:25 · 8 answers · asked by Blue Boy 1

I am dating a freind for the past 4 months, she broke wit her ex 7 months ago and i knew when i dated her she told me she was stil attached but did not want to be with him . For the 1st two months she totally forgot about him and we had a great time, but we got in a big fight and i told her we needed just be freinds. Suprisingly her ex boyfreind came back in the picture. She has moved on and only wants to be freinds but he only believed both of us were flings and tried to come back even though he has a girlfriend. I held my tongue and acted cool and she always asked my opinion when she hung out with him. Reently he blew up and wanted to end their friendship because me and her where close to being together and my opinion counted more than hi. She asked for my advice and i told her she needs to give him space to let him move on. She also asked me am i going to break her heart because i broke up with all the girls i have been with. How can i handle this.

2007-01-03 01:54:03 · 4 answers · asked by velvetsmartguy 3

2007-01-03 01:53:37 · 12 answers · asked by Angelina M 1

I have been dating my girlfriend for nearly 6 1/2 years now. We have had our ups and downs in our years of courtship. We even promised ourselves that we would marry each other when we were settled. However, the point of worry is that we hardly spent quality time with each other although you would expect us to do that. Most of the time we would be surrounded with friends and family. The outcome is that we realise now that we hardly know each other. I find my girlfriend in tears very often when we meet. At the same time she swears that she is so attached to me that she cannot imagine marrying anyone else. I do not know whether we have grown so attached to each other that we are unable to open our eyes to the realities of the world. I have been faithful to my girl all these years; our problem is that if we do decide to break up; we would lose the comfort of each others shoulders in our pain. Whether we would meet people we would be able to strike a cord with in the future is anotherquesti

2007-01-03 01:53:35 · 3 answers · asked by Blue Boy 1

I have been friends with this really "ghetto" black guy for over three years, more than twice as long as I've been with my boyfriend. He is a good friend and has always playfully joked about "riding them hips" and showing me "thug passion", He used to just call once in a while and I would hang out with him with other mutual friends, but now he calls every day, and all he talks about now is sex. My boyfriend wants to beat him up and I feel conflicted because he is an old friend but he won't listen when I tell him to stop. What should I do? he says stuff like, "girl, your man just ain't cutting it. what you need is a thug. you don't know it yet cause you've never had a thug go up inside you. i can sense how you're hurting and it hurts me, and i just want to help, etc." When my boyfriend confronts him about it he just calls him a racist and threatens him. The other day he came into the house without knocking and had a visible erection. It's getting really serious. What can I do?

2007-01-03 01:53:04 · 36 answers · asked by xNancyxSpungenxJr 1

I have been dating my girlfriend for nearly 6 1/2 years now. We have had our ups and downs in our years of courtship. We even promised ourselves that we would marry each other when we were settled. However, the point of worry is that we hardly spent quality time with each other although you would expect us to do that. Most of the time we would be surrounded with friends and family. The outcome is that we realise now that we hardly know each other. I find my girlfriend in tears very often when we meet. At the same time she swears that she is so attached to me that she cannot imagine marrying anyone else. I do not know whether we have grown so attached to each other that we are unable to open our eyes to the realities of the world. I have been faithful to my girl all these years; our problem is that if we do decide to break up; we would lose the comfort of each others shoulders in our pain. Whether we would meet people we would be able to strike a cord with in the future is anotherquesti

2007-01-03 01:52:15 · 2 answers · asked by Blue Boy 1

2007-01-03 01:51:54 · 19 answers · asked by Tazz 1

I have been dating my girlfriend for nearly 6 1/2 years now. We have had our ups and downs in our years of courtship. We even promised ourselves that we would marry each other when we were settled. However, the point of worry is that we hardly spent quality time with each other although you would expect us to do that. Most of the time we would be surrounded with friends and family. The outcome is that we realise now that we hardly know each other. I find my girlfriend in tears very often when we meet. At the same time she swears that she is so attached to me that she cannot imagine marrying anyone else. I do not know whether we have grown so attached to each other that we are unable to open our eyes to the realities of the world. I have been faithful to my girl all these years; our problem is that if we do decide to break up; we would lose the comfort of each others shoulders in our pain. Whether we would meet people we would be able to strike a cord with in the future is anotherquesti

2007-01-03 01:51:48 · 6 answers · asked by Blue Boy 1

2007-01-03 01:50:52 · 18 answers · asked by me 3

on the 30th me n my boyfriend split up n on dat sme day my Best friend supposed 2 b tld me dat she lyked im (i wasn't really bovered at the time)n i was reali shocked i was on webcam to my boyfriend at the tym n he was lyk wots wrong u look reali shocked n e kept tellin me 2 tell im wots wrong but i cudn't tell im anyways we started aveing a argument over sumfink i went offline his best friend hu was supposed to be my other best friend called me and tld me dat my boyfriend myt dump me (he was on the phone to my boyfriend at da sme tym) he txt me n sed dat its over and i was reali upset. i haden't spoken to im in 2days den i went on msn and he was on we tlked for a bit as frends then that nyt my 'best friend' cam on msn and we were tlkin and in her name it sed I (L) luv ??? and i was like so hu do u luv n she sed wel im nt sre atm but ur ex i didn't talk to her for a while den she sed 2 me i jst tld im dat i lyk him r u ok wiv dat? i was soo pissed off n put in mi nme cnt trust any1

2007-01-03 01:49:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-03 01:48:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this guy, and i've went out with him before, but he dumped me. this was a while back, but hes really on my mind again. should i tell him that i still like him? or what? im afraid what he might say, and stuff. please help!!!!!!

2007-01-03 01:45:05 · 14 answers · asked by Cephalopod Chicka 2

I moved out. We have not been speaking as she told me she would call me when she is ready. This morning I stopped by the house before she went to work (to pick up stuff), and i noticed that she must be wearing the ring again because it was no longer in the box. The house was messy (its normally not) and a note I had written her was laying in bed. What do you make of this, do you think she still wants to be together and is there anything I can do on my end while still giving her her space?

2007-01-03 01:44:14 · 25 answers · asked by Tunasandwich 4

2007-01-03 01:42:39 · 13 answers · asked by Cinnamon 6

Lately my boyfriend has been annoying me to no end. He is super nice to me almost too nice where he is acting really sensitive and whines to me that I’m being mean. I know I’m being mean and I want to stop but I can’t. Things he does and says have really been plucking my last nerve and I don’t know what to do, some days I just want to tell him, this is not going to work and then some days (very rare) I am happy he is around. I am to the point where I actually started writing a list of all the things that he does that pisses me off. My list is things from how messy he is to how I feel he doesn’t stimulate me mentally. When we talk it seems as if he doesn’t really listen he just repeats everything I just said back to me like he is slow or something. I really do care about him though it doesn’t seem like I do, but I just don’t know how to over look some of his immature ways. Another thing I’m pregnant, with his baby and he knows, but I ask myself can I really be with him forever?

2007-01-03 01:41:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was only 10 when I fell for these lyrics..
especially the part(I almost cried coze it ws so beautiful)
NOW DAFNEN F..what do u think?lol


Last night, you were so into it
You told me secrets that
You never told a soul
You were so nervous and
Yet oh so comfortable
As we explored your image of love

I drank your wine as you taste mine
I kissed your lips you felt my body slip
Into your soul
I almost cried cuz it was so beautiful

Last Night I was inside of you
Last Night while making love to you
I saw the sun, the moon, the mountains and the rivers
I saw heaven when I made sweet love to you

Last night there was no planning it
It was so special
And so very innocent
We talked of memories
Our favorite fantasies
As we explored our visions of love

Deep in the night
Right by the fireside
You felt my candlelight in your soul
You felt incredible
I started to explode
I almost cried cuz it was so beautiful



Sunlight, red roses
The scent of you it calms the heart
The sight of you I fall apart
Moonlight, the things we noticed
Oh we're in love
That's when it comes
and I'm so, I'm so in love

by:Az yet.......I love the lyics..and OMG what till u hear the song

2007-01-03 01:40:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-03 01:38:34 · 29 answers · asked by Say It Like You Mean It 4

2007-01-03 01:38:18 · 4 answers · asked by thegodfather7375 2

And don't say "Don't play games" cuz I'm going to regardless, a woman's gotta do what a woman's gotta do to maintain a man's interest.

2007-01-03 01:36:32 · 13 answers · asked by Talitha 1

2007-01-03 01:35:27 · 16 answers · asked by Saffa_Boy_83 2

2007-01-03 01:35:14 · 12 answers · asked by ToxoTes 2

I see a lot of younger women with older guys and I always wonder what they see in them. I am curious about the motivation. Is it looking for stability, a father figure or just burned by younger wild guys?

2007-01-03 01:31:17 · 17 answers · asked by suzzieQ 2

2007-01-03 01:30:22 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Some relationships start really sparky don't they? Wheras some is more 'matey' first and then develops... Which do you think works best?

2007-01-03 01:30:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

lets be honest, how many married for love and how many married for money?

2007-01-03 01:29:04 · 16 answers · asked by Tiny little hot one 2

2007-01-03 01:27:27 · 13 answers · asked by phishsports 3

2007-01-03 01:23:37 · 16 answers · asked by king of spain 3

She broke up with me early last year as things weren't working out in her mind, despite us really liking each other & getting v close fast, as she'd just come out of a relationship & wasn't ready to move on (her Ex later proposed to her after we broke up). I was ready for something serious & told her I loved her - looking back, maybe I put too much pressure on her.

Months later we met again in summer and it seemed she still really liked me & perhaps regretted splitting although she didn't say - we ended up kissing briefly & hugging for a bit, and met again a few days later, but never talked about how things were going. I was afraid of getting hurt again, so never followed up with her & ignored some of her calls.

So... half a year on I sent her a Merry Xmas SMS and told her I still think of her & like her a lot. She replied "well, we've not seen each other much lately... :o)" then later "still like you, perhaps we could meet up".

Anyone any advice/ similar experience to help?

2007-01-03 01:21:36 · 3 answers · asked by James 1

10th date to be precise?

2007-01-03 01:18:44 · 10 answers · asked by king of spain 3

give your feedback please

2007-01-03 01:17:41 · 32 answers · asked by shortysherry46 3