Lately my boyfriend has been annoying me to no end. He is super nice to me almost too nice where he is acting really sensitive and whines to me that I’m being mean. I know I’m being mean and I want to stop but I can’t. Things he does and says have really been plucking my last nerve and I don’t know what to do, some days I just want to tell him, this is not going to work and then some days (very rare) I am happy he is around. I am to the point where I actually started writing a list of all the things that he does that pisses me off. My list is things from how messy he is to how I feel he doesn’t stimulate me mentally. When we talk it seems as if he doesn’t really listen he just repeats everything I just said back to me like he is slow or something. I really do care about him though it doesn’t seem like I do, but I just don’t know how to over look some of his immature ways. Another thing I’m pregnant, with his baby and he knows, but I ask myself can I really be with him forever?
2007-01-03 01:41:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust me your pregnancy is what has you feeling and acting like this. I was the same way with my boyfriend. Everything he did or said bothered me. I really felt like I didn't like him at the time. It's just your hormones. Their out of control at this point. When I first started reading your question at the beginning I was thinking to myself she must be pregnant, and sure enough when I was reading the end of the question you said that you were. Just try and calm down the best way you can, and not be too hard on him. He's just trying to be there for you. I know it's hard to control those hormones, but you have to at least a little.
2007-01-03 02:05:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
From experience, I'd have to say that you haven't really made your mind up completely if he is the ONE for you. The days your feeling you do want him around and the days you honestly do want him there.
Until you have completly made up your mind on how you really feel about him, your list of PISSES you off will continue to grow, and you'll even be adding the small things that can easily be over looked.
Right now dear, your stuck between a rock and a hard spot. Nothing will become more clear until your own heart makes the final decission.
2007-01-03 01:48:38 · answer #2 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because you're pregnant, doesn't mean you have to stay with him. You have to learn to accept the fact that you're not going to be able to change him. Obviously he loves you, why else would he stick around. Do you even love him? Let him move on to someone better, he can still be apart of his baby's life even though he's not in yours. However, if you really do love him, though it doesn't seem like you do, then sit down with him and pour your heart out to him. Tell him that you're sick at yourself for the way you've been treating him, that you want to be better, but you don't know how. Ask him for his help. One of the things you might want to try, instead of writing a list of what pisses you off, try writing one of what you love about him.
2007-01-03 01:50:23 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously because of the baby this a really bad time to decide he might not be the right one for you. Perhaps the pregnancy is what has you on edge, hormones go haywire and that could be the cause of these feelings. My advice is to seek some counseling and for the sake of the baby try your best to work things out. Maybe once the baby comes and after your hormones settle down you'll feel differently towards him. Good luck.
2007-01-03 01:47:28 · answer #4 · answered by color me blue 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough situation. Stick together for the sake of the baby or at least after the birth. He might be helpful to you. You have another life involved now. It's not all about you anymore. Good luck. Hopefully things will work out for you. Don't make any rash decision you'll later regret. It's always easy to break things off than to work to put them together.
2007-01-03 06:38:46 · answer #5 · answered by kisses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he ask u what is good for u & do this he is correct u should listen to him. i can understand this is tough but if u don't do ur making ur relationship finish
if he say something u know he is wrong then tell him, understand him give specific reason about the problem
and did u anything think what u do know u r pregnent miss
do some thing about it
2007-01-03 01:53:56 · answer #6 · answered by simple girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get help............
2007-01-03 01:43:30 · answer #7 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋