i like this guy, and i've went out with him before, but he dumped me. this was a while back, but hes really on my mind again. should i tell him that i still like him? or what? im afraid what he might say, and stuff. please help!!!!!!
2007-01-03 01:45:05 · 14 answers · asked by Cephalopod Chicka 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The thing you can do is to try and figure out why he dumped you as it could be some thing you are doing in a subtle way. If you have friends that will give you an honest opinion about your self, seek their advice, and don't be offended by their constructive criticism of you as a person.
None of us are perfect and at times we have flaws that we are often not aware of, if some one genuine don't point them out to us. Having done this let him know how you feel about him and if things don't go the way you want move on from there.
which ever way you will turn out richer for making your self more appealing to some one else in the future.
2007-01-03 02:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him I guess but he dumped you and if he's not coming back after you to be with you then it's not meant to be and just leave him alone. It's hard I know. I had a guy I really liked but he had a girlfriend we dated before but broke up because of distance. He's my best friend and our dad's are best friends so i see him a lot. Soon I learned more about him and realized we've become very different over the years and it could never work. Now I'm the happiest I've ever been with the man of my dreams.
2007-01-03 09:51:52 · answer #2 · answered by Future Mrs. Beuerlein 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if you can handle the rejection again. Does it seem like he likes you? Do you still talk as friends? I dumped my current boyfriend before because I was scarred of falling in love, 2 months later I called him & we started talking as friends now we are happy & in love. This wouldn't have happened if I wouldn't have said something. Maybe he got scared to. Good Luck, I hope it works out for you.
2007-01-03 09:54:44 · answer #3 · answered by Debi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow. You need to find out why he dumped you . Depending on the reason then you will know what to do.
2007-01-03 09:50:46 · answer #4 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should ask him how he feels about you? and if he still care about you then you can tell him your true feelings its all gonna depend on why he dumped you in the first place
2007-01-03 09:52:32 · answer #5 · answered by affh1st 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember "dumped me"? Move on with your life...forget him.
2007-01-03 09:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you run the risk of getting dumped again, leave him be.
2007-01-03 09:49:30 · answer #7 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let him know how you feel but make it clear to him that if his feelings are not mutual you are willing to give him space and just be friends.
2007-01-03 09:46:44 · answer #8 · answered by LaLa Grrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't biggest mistake u will make. I promise I did and now he is making my life a living hell!
2007-01-03 09:47:00 · answer #9 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What part of scram didn't you understand the first time?
2007-01-03 09:47:31 · answer #10 · answered by waxingtheturtle2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋