Singles & Dating - 9 December 2006

One of my best buddys mentioned to me to ask me how to deal with a situation with his girl friend.. I was unable to help him with this because i just never was in this sort of situation but anyone who may let me know because i want to help him out a bit, hes a bit of a wreck about what she has told him.. Well, he just started seeing her about a month ago, and yesterday night when he confronted her on a question, she hesitated and responded that it takes her more time to let her self connect with a person. She told him how a long time ago she was raped, now he called me all histerical because he doesnt want to let this ruien his relationship but doesnt see how it couldnt. I told him to ask her questions about it and try to make her feel comfortable but she didnt want to answer his questions.. was that bad advice for me to give him? i just figured that maybe he would want to know a little bit about what happened and not be in the dark about it.. so anyone who has dealt with any girls who

2006-12-09 07:37:40 · 5 answers · asked by re33b9 2

There is this girl we always talk and stuff and she laughs at my jokes. She doesnt really say hi to me because i thkn she is too shy and so am i. And I am always nice to her and like her a lt and I thikn she likes me also because one day she chuckled and said " aww I love you" out of nowwhere. ShouldI ask her out? I f I should where?

2006-12-09 07:35:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my boyfriend to death, but sometimes i need something different. Is that so wrong?

2006-12-09 07:35:18 · 20 answers · asked by Octupussy 1

ok. their is a guy and he dosent have a gf right now.. i would marry him if i could, and he seems to like me alot but its illegal to date him first of all cause of the 6 year age diffrence. but i want a guys opinion, if a guy picks you up to carry you as a joke and he picks you up by putting his hand around you and grabbing your butt does that mean they like you. or they spin you around in circles. or play fight with you and when he acts like hes going to hit you he acctually misses and puts that hand around you and gives a big hug by picking you up a little?? please i dont want to do anything to find out thats not what it means. by the way all this happened in one day above. and it happens everytime i see him.

2006-12-09 07:32:25 · 10 answers · asked by yoanna 2

i have what I want to get her on my mind ..but how do i know if she'll like it?

2006-12-09 07:32:13 · 6 answers · asked by jake 48 1

2006-12-09 07:32:03 · 13 answers · asked by MG 2

so i ask my gf that why she wouldn't stop calling her ex even after he cheated on her, is very fishy.... she tells me she is done with me and that i have fun with the fishy smell....
she told me i shouldn't doubt her but how i cannot!!.. should i just let her go?? she told me she really loved me.. she did care for me..she could have just told me fine i dont have to talk to him..any
suggesiotions?

2006-12-09 07:31:45 · 7 answers · asked by cool_4514 1

You know how girls are always like "Just do sweet things out of the blue for me" to their partner, well what "sweet things" do guys like??? My b/f asked me if I could just do things out of the blue, but I don't know what! Help!!!

2006-12-09 07:31:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-09 07:30:46 · 16 answers · asked by Harold T 1

well i have a myspace but im not allowed if i tell my parents i wont get in as much trouble but if they find out i will get in moor trouble

2006-12-09 07:29:44 · 32 answers · asked by austin a 1

the girl i like goes
"i dont really think im that good looking compared to ****"
i went..
"i think you are really good looking" (said it twice)

another time she goes "i like working at casheers, all the guys flirt with the girls, silly boys"
i go "they better not be flirting with you" ;)

another time she walks in room and says "my hair is a mess today" *she starts playing with it in mirror*.
i reply "no it doesnt, your hair looks really nice" (nothing was wrong with it tho)

another time i sat next to her (dnt usually) and we have a chat, she didnt back off. Makes me listen to her ipod and song on it. Since i am wearing the same headphones as her we are pulled abit closer together ;) she shows me a photo of herself and "i go i like your top in the pic". she say "thankyou" :)

she says "i think your brother n his gf will have nice kids" then i accidently went "i think we'll have nice kids too" xD

would a girl get impression the guy likes her from what i just said lol? we still speak

2006-12-09 07:28:45 · 11 answers · asked by CoolD 3

By the way Im 30, pregnant (shock horror!) and never really dated for longer than a few months. Im loaded so money is not an issue, men tend to want it of me! The dad will be around and stay down the road. Is that morally ok? I think it is, a least Im not putting this child through a nasty divorce and the child will have a private education and so on. So Im not on state benefits. I will not be taking up with another man Im just going to look lovely and enjoy my baby, my life and my future. I have no need for a man and never really did (except the getting the baby before my biological clock ended) Is that naughty?

2006-12-09 07:27:10 · 19 answers · asked by oceanwaves 2

Ok here is the story...... I like this one girl i meet on myspace but we go to the same school i like her a lot. but the only problem is that she is my cousins EX and they broke up about 2 weeks ago but i dont know if i should ask her out or not.
yesterday she invited me to her house to watch a movie with her friend so i went then we were watching the movie and i was touching her hand it was a great feeling and she was blushing. Im not sure if she likes me in that way but her firend told me that she looks like she does but im not sure,
What should i do? Should i ask her out or wait more time?

2006-12-09 07:26:04 · 15 answers · asked by chema-414 1

Okay, so there's this guy at a store that I think likes me. I've been going to the store just to see him, and he once said he was thinking of me, and dropping so many hints of flirting and such (for instance, leaning against me when he was tired at work, and giving me a HUGE hug when I had to leave). I like him too, and I asked him if he wanted to do something some night. He tells me he'll call, but he hasn't. He has my cell phone number (or he should), and he keeps saying "I'll call you later" but I never get a single call. I'm so confused. He wants to do something with me, he keeps saying he does, but yet I don't get his calls. I don't know if something's wrong with my phone, or what...but this is so frustrating. He says to me that he's off on Monday, so I know he would like to meet me somewhere, but, I'm just so put off by him not calling me...what's wrong? Can anybody shed some light on this? Thank you!

2006-12-09 07:25:00 · 6 answers · asked by Q&Avixen! 1

I'm a girl and I was just wondering, what are some signs that a 13/14 year old guy likes you or has a crush on you. I know this one guy, I'm very shy and we don't really talk much, but I've caught him looking at me and once when we were smiling, we made eye contact. Also, I've noticed that he stands next to me a lot and sort of seems to get maybe a little shy when I'm around, but I'm not really sure. What other things may mean he has a crush on me?

2006-12-09 07:24:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently I just moved to this new city by myself, to take this job. I feel so lost because I don't know anybody, and don't know where I'm going. I'm learning the bus, but still at times it's difficult. And the people I have met treat me like an alien or something, they just don't understand me or my situation. And on top of that, I did meet one guy, and he has gone through the same situation a few months before I moved here. We have spent time together, ALOT of time together, and I developed a crush n him, although he doesn't know. It's hard to explain our situation, he's just really smart, and nice, and even though he's of a different race, (I'm black and he's white), I don't care, I'm totally into him. But I don't know if he's into me. Sometimes he gives me a sign, the other times he pulls away. I don't know if I should tell him, but lately my feelings have been getting in the way, and they may soon destroy the only friendship I have right now in this new city. Please help!

2006-12-09 07:23:44 · 2 answers · asked by tmmygrl210 1

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2006-12-09 07:22:08 · 10 answers · asked by Poster22 2

Ok i dont know if anyone read my last question about the phone situation, but i have been with my boyfriend for sometime now, and im always picking at him for doing things, although the funny thing is i know its very silly, ie the few female numbers he had in his phone i went in a mood, and not to mention im always being nasty and saying its over, the reason im so nasty is sometimes i feel i dont gain anyhthing from my relationship and the problem is i keep bringing things up and his getting sick of me asking the same questions, i think half the time its all in my head, i can see this guy thinks alot of me as he is very kind!!! and he often gets very upset when i say i have had enuff, i feel like i cant trust because of past relationship and there is always doubt his up to something ie the silly numbers in his phone, i feel i have lost my cool/control and im constantly thinking negative thoughts,why cant i just forget + have a laugh with him,anyone been in this situation? any tips?

2006-12-09 07:20:35 · 10 answers · asked by ice_castles 2

I don't want a long term relationship, for 6 months if i date her will get into trouble in fututre

2006-12-09 07:20:06 · 10 answers · asked by smartcamal1 3

My boyfriend and I want to become more adventurous in bed, please help!

2006-12-09 07:19:53 · 18 answers · asked by Kayz 1

why do you become more ...shall we say more"sexually active "in the warmer wheather? its puzzled me a bit but i think i may know ,come on girls what do you think it is.

2006-12-09 07:19:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-09 07:19:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

the short version: My 16 year old b/f and I dated for 3 months and we were crazy about each other. We talked for hours every day. Then his Dad got cancer and he stopped calling. I tried different things from giving him lots of space, to asking about the relationship (I had to ask....I couldn't go on like we were forever). He decided he wanted a "break" in the relationship because of all the stress he was under. I gave him lots of space and didn't talk to him at all for two weeks. Then he broke up with me. I think we would have lasted a long time if it had not been for his Dad's cancer. I have heard now that he likes another girl (a week after he broke up with me) Do you think I am a reminder of his dad's cancer and that is why he broke up with me? Is there any hope that he will ever want to get back with me?

2006-12-09 07:18:53 · 10 answers · asked by Hope 3

My new boyfriend always says how he's going to mack out on me and it just seems diffrent.

2006-12-09 07:16:58 · 6 answers · asked by lil_poet_10 1

What I meant was: what am I? A prep? A Punker? A Preppy Punker?!?! I was unsure and most of friends are unsure.
I like partying and going to raves, I sometimes drink, but dont smoke. I like all kinds of music, but mostly Rock and Techno. I'm asian, but they say I look more filipino or Hawaiian. I love playing video games (a proud owner of both xboxs!!), I'm a computer Genius, I love anime (Naruto being my favorite), and I love to cook.
I have very strong beliefs in paranormal ideals, such as werewolves, and I plan to be either a webmaster or a Pharmasist one day. I always wear something that has black or gray in it, but I also wear bright happy colors. I'm the kind of person who jokes about everything, only to hide true feelings. I can be loud and unbearable at times, and others I am too shy to say a thing. What am I?
And the reason why I asked this question here is because if I was labeled, maybe it'll make it easier to find a new boyfreind. Someone I'll have a lot in common with.

2006-12-09 07:15:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-09 07:15:36 · 2 answers · asked by jare bare 6

2006-12-09 07:15:24 · 16 answers · asked by Andrew R 2

We've been friends for about 10 years, but I'm starting to like him as more than a friend. We're in different groups of friends, so I can't hang out with him as often as I'd like. How can I get him to realise that I like him?

2006-12-09 07:14:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is really into his Xbox 360 and love shooting games like Halo2 and Gears of War. He also is a Carpenter. But already has alot of tools so that leaves me all out. For his Birthday I got him a 37 in LCD Tv. I dug a whole with that one. I can't top that. Not now anyway....? Please help!!

2006-12-09 07:12:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really like this guy and I want to ask him out, any suggestions on how to ask him out?(13)

2006-12-09 07:12:31 · 3 answers · asked by N/A 3