I love my boyfriend to death, but sometimes i need something different. Is that so wrong?
2006-12-09 07:35:18 · 20 answers · asked by Octupussy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on the relationship...I assume you are just asking a funny question...but if you were serious...get a vib rat or...that way no one gets hurt...or just make him a friend with benefits..
2006-12-10 08:21:21 · answer #1 · answered by I'm Loving Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is how much do you love him? Are you certain that you want to spend the rest of your life with him or is this just for the time being? If you are seeking out other men maybe you are not ready for that final committment yet. If you really love him then you would not be even considering it.
2006-12-09 15:39:12 · answer #2 · answered by seferena 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It kinda depends on what you define as different, is it just that you want to date other guys..."see what other fish are in the sea" then, talk to him, If it's that things are not happening in the bedroom then you again need to talk to him, be honest, it's not a good idea to look for something different while with him, you'd end up hurting him and yourself.
2006-12-09 15:38:40 · answer #3 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
not if you can live with it, just as long as he doesnt find out, i am in the same situation, the problem is that you will never get your fill no matter how many times or different partners you "play" with. You will always be wanting some "strange". You must have a very high sex drive like myself, if has to be fed.....
2006-12-09 15:46:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
its not wrong to think and want but it is wrong to cheat. Honestly if youre capable of thinking like that, you should no be in an exclusive relationship, try an open relationship just do not cheat. Also try molding, make him into what you want, it may just work.
2006-12-09 15:39:09 · answer #5 · answered by D J 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is not wrong AT ALL. If you love him to death, let him know and ask for some time apart so you can have some space and time on your own. If your love is real, your time apart should be short. It's not wrong of you at all, don't worry.
2006-12-09 15:37:05 · answer #6 · answered by S. 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You can love someone but not be ready for commitment. You shouldn't be getting your cake and eating it to. Be friends with benefits instead of being in a relationship.
2006-12-09 15:39:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It depends on what you mean by something different? My bf and I have discussed that feeling with me but mine is I sometimes want a woman so we do it together!!
2006-12-09 15:38:57 · answer #8 · answered by dragonflyaway69 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your with the wrong guy then. Find one that fits ALL your needs. Good luck.
2006-12-09 15:37:15 · answer #9 · answered by luv2bake 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If he is OK with being in an open relationship, then it's fine.
If he isn't, you need to let him go before you hurt him.
2006-12-09 15:37:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋