Okay, so there's this guy at a store that I think likes me. I've been going to the store just to see him, and he once said he was thinking of me, and dropping so many hints of flirting and such (for instance, leaning against me when he was tired at work, and giving me a HUGE hug when I had to leave). I like him too, and I asked him if he wanted to do something some night. He tells me he'll call, but he hasn't. He has my cell phone number (or he should), and he keeps saying "I'll call you later" but I never get a single call. I'm so confused. He wants to do something with me, he keeps saying he does, but yet I don't get his calls. I don't know if something's wrong with my phone, or what...but this is so frustrating. He says to me that he's off on Monday, so I know he would like to meet me somewhere, but, I'm just so put off by him not calling me...what's wrong? Can anybody shed some light on this? Thank you!
2006-12-09 07:25:00 · 6 answers · asked by Q&Avixen! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, and by the way, I have called him one other time. During that time, I said I'd meet him the day after at the store to talk, and he said "I'm in the car, I'll call you back later today."
He didn't. I'm so utterly confused. :/
2006-12-09 17:37:08 · update #1
I'm not too sure about whether he's nervous or not. But if I were you, I wouldn't even worry about it. The guy wants to date you (he said it himself). He could be busy, your phone might be out of service or broken a lot, or some other wacky reason.
One big thing to remember: Girls in general complain OFTEN when they are not called frequently (according to them). Don't fall into this stereotype. Guys can't call ALL THE TIME. They can be busy, or they might want the girl to call them (to make sure they still like them, or whatever).
If he doesn't call u, u can try calling him. His reaction can help you decide whether he likes u or not. If you don't like that idea, ask him about the date at the store (in person)? He's basically asked u out already, so there's nothing wrong with you coming back to suggest a place and specific time.
Anyway, learn from this advice, and Good Luck!
2006-12-09 07:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by c90 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't you think if he wanted to hang out he would call you? I mean Im going through the same situation kind of. Anyways if he really likes you like you say then he would call. But I mean if you really like him and want to see him maybe he wants you to call him because he shy, so why not call him you have nothing to loose, at least you'll find out right. But really it's up to you. Good luck.
2006-12-09 07:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by Cutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't monitor whe he'll be calling u becuase the best things happen when u least expect them...one day he'll call...don't wait this day; just beleive i yourself.i bet he's dying to c u but maybe he's afraid u said "let me see oneday" just as a compliment...maybe he's afraid of rejection.
2006-12-09 07:31:26 · answer #3 · answered by lost soul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be one of a milliion things. Get a nice boy who does call. Put on that charm.
2006-12-09 07:29:27 · answer #4 · answered by Put_ya_mitts_up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maaaaaaaan when us dudes say that sometimes we mite be shy but if we shy we wont say it constantly, that dude is just a playa he aint got time to be focused on 1 female
2006-12-09 07:28:18 · answer #5 · answered by Young boi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to hurt you if I do, but I think that he just said that so that he would not have to go out with you!
2006-12-09 07:31:14 · answer #6 · answered by brandibabe07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋