Singles & Dating - 6 December 2006

i have bf. we already know each other for 3 months. i think hes quite serious to make relationship with me. in second month after become my BF he visit my family and try to make some good relationship with my family. but now i feel hes cheated on me. last time he call me, i was hear a baby crying near him. when i ask whos that baby, he said he is alone in room and theres no baby. after that when i sms him, he didnt reply quickly and just send sms back after 2 hour. he said her nephew comes to his house and wanna buy some candy for her, so he left the cell phone at home. but after 10 minutes sms with him, he said that now his nephew already going home and just come for 5 minutes. and after that he often tell about love words that most playboy say to their girl. thats make me confused. im suspicious he have another girl behind me. what should i do? please give me real answer and no kidding. thx

2006-12-06 19:39:46 · 10 answers · asked by dena 2

Been seeing a girl for over a year, I love her, but she has cheated on me many times, the last time being only 3 months ago. I.m finding it difficult to cope with and have told her we should have a break for a while to see what we really want. I miss her, she's trying to change, she has problems. My minds all over....any advice anyone?

2006-12-06 19:37:23 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-06 19:34:08 · 20 answers · asked by Beth 2

My boyfriend is great in foreplay, but cannot get into me. When he tries to come into me he loses his manliness. We have tried it at least five or six tmes, and it is the same always. Then he makes me come with the finger. Please help how to get him to sex inside me.

2006-12-06 19:29:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you've gotten pretty serious with this guy and you knew he'd love you no matter what. You just find out he likes chubbier girls, would you gain 20 pounds for him?

2006-12-06 19:28:59 · 17 answers · asked by electrophoenix 1

i had a breakup few days back and i am really not able to come over it... i really don't feel like doing anything... i tried my best to get into hobbies or some new course etc.. but nothing looks intresting for me.. i really luved him and without him i'm feeling lost ... ( but i think he is busy with someone else ) what can i do?

2006-12-06 19:28:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guy A:
was a guy a met about 2 yrs ago
he happened to call me one night when i was suicidal and saying "god i will kill myself now if u dont give me a sign"
and he barely knew me and called me 5 minutes later at 2:30 cuz he wanted to talk and by the end of the night i was smiling my head off and i considered him my angel

later on he dated me and wounded up leaving me for her and kinda cheating and stuff too... but i kno he didnt use me cuz there are some things you cant pretend... and he came to my house apologizing and broke up with her to be with me and says im all he ever thinks about and hes all i ever think about

guy B;
would NEVER hurt me
never cheated
always there for me
buuut we dont have a whole lot in common like guy A and he doesnt make me as happy or give me butterflies but i kno hel stay faithful

i need to decide soon i cant do this anymore
its not fair to Guy B for me to stay with him when i have feeligns for A but i dont wanna get hurt again =/

2006-12-06 19:27:43 · 8 answers · asked by yourguardianangel88 2

Need a frank response from guys and gals...

2006-12-06 19:27:09 · 5 answers · asked by akumar122 1

2006-12-06 19:23:44 · 9 answers · asked by mam 2

I went calling the guy I like crying on the phone saying I'm in love with him. I've been told that I shouldn't have done that coz I looked pathetic and it's very unattractive and that based on the guy's response, he seems to be irritated at my approach. That I came on too strong that just because I'm in love with him doesn't mean he owes me a relationship. That I looked pathetic and I had no self-esteem.

I know I'm wrong. I shouldn't have done it. People said I should go see a therapist due to my behavior and what I did to him and that I had self-esteem issues.

I might have lost a friend in the guy I like. What should I do? He hates me now. I'm going to see him again tonight coz there's this party he and I are both invited to. How should I act around him tonight? Should i keep a distance and ignore him?

Sorry, I asked a lot of questions. It's just that my crying to this guy last week very much affected me.

I apologized to him.

2006-12-06 19:23:34 · 13 answers · asked by Mrs Brandon 3

so we have been together for almost a year and now hw wants to try taking a break for us to try being a part for a while and i still love him and dont want to lose him what do i do?

2006-12-06 19:23:18 · 10 answers · asked by Bethany In Houston 1

2006-12-06 19:21:07 · 12 answers · asked by smith 1

2006-12-06 19:19:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

this is my question... Why do men not want to date me?
I mean... I can't beleave I'm saying this online... but I did'nt get my first kiss yet! I'm cute and funny... SURE I play video games and I play with the oujia board but I stoped becouse my mother got a bad report on her cancer levels and SURE I can do things that knowone could but me like relax for thee hour no distractions and oh and I can't spell that fast or in big words...

2006-12-06 19:17:55 · 6 answers · asked by farmgoddess19 1

2006-12-06 19:15:57 · 8 answers · asked by rulik33 1

I was talking to my crush yesterday
We are both seniors at high school
I have been secretly crushing on this girl and hinting her

we were talking about movies (i just got back from it at that time) so she suggested some other ones that i should see

then she followed up with when am I going to go see it
cause she says "cuz i want to come too" (since she work there so I think she can go in for free)

I said sure

Does she want to give me a shot (How does she know i like her)?

What should i do now? in the movie?

I do NOT want to screw this up...
Should i bring her a gift? (I have already bought her a gift that she told that she wanted it but since dont got any money at the moment cant get it... should i give it to her on that day or as
orginiall planned - as her xmas present?)

Today she was waving at me in class but i thought she was waving to her friend so i didnt wave back... I found out when she was told me and was so embarrassed....

2006-12-06 19:14:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok guys, here's the deal. i've been with my this gf for over 2 years now. this july, she went over to aussy to further her studies. at 1st its fine, but when time goes by, she get to know a lot guy frenz and she would tell me she's going ktv with her frenz, you know stuffs like dat. i am actually quite a paranoid person. very insercure to be exact. i keep thinking negative things, like she's flirting with other guys. maybe she does, maybe she doesnt, but i juz couldnt trust her totally. she cheated on me once b4, but its juz those online bf that they used to call and chat and sms but has never met up.
anyway the point is that i cant seem to trust a gal completely, is there sth wrong with me? or it cuz i've been cheated b4, so tats y? (my ex gf sort of cheated on me as well)
is there anyway dat i could help myself?

2006-12-06 19:12:01 · 5 answers · asked by sulaji84 3

2006-12-06 19:11:28 · 6 answers · asked by dafiahmad 2

BBW is used by females only

2006-12-06 19:09:43 · 12 answers · asked by Alex R 1

there is this girl Lucy...shes in england and planning to get married soon.I'm in oz and I love her so much..we are good friend ...but I love her and i want to be with her...should I tell her how I feel?

2006-12-06 19:06:46 · 42 answers · asked by Peter L 1

it was a full moon one night and me and my boyfriend was out on a night ride when he started rubbing and kissing all on me finally i stopped the car and their we we're but naked on the hood of the car (freaky or what?)

2006-12-06 19:06:02 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2

I mean, most just use dating as bragging rights, and more often then not, are ignorant too! I bet 9 out of 10 teenagers don't know who Tony Blair is.

2006-12-06 18:59:01 · 20 answers · asked by Zach S 5

Here's what I mean. A guy whos relationship is definitely on the rocks, is a musician, starts talkin' to you and he has a gf who says that its ok for him to sleep with someone while on the road b/c he's lonely or horny, but that its to be a one time thing....then he hears my standpoint that I'd worry bout a guy being faithful, I'd like to be the only one doing that (if he was dating me), and for many health reasons (STD's, crazed fans popping holes into condoms & then gets pregnant), why does HE stick around? The guy is a distance away from me, is it because I'm a challenge?!? Supposively with that response, along with the fact that I don't sleep around unless I'm at that level with a bf, I'm supposively not "sexual." He knows my view doesn't click with him, he knows I'm a classy girl, yet he keeps talking to me. I want to think its because he's not getting the attention from his current gf & is going to break up w/her soon.

2006-12-06 18:58:55 · 6 answers · asked by fbiforensicsgirl 1

I used to be in "love" with my now current boyfriend. To make story short, he has said some things in the past that have really hurt my feelings. Now, although he hasn't been saying these things to me...I still feel like those words are still there and gnawing away at me. I want to get better. But, I can't. He has sincerely seemed to have wanted to change, but I hear those words over and over in my head when I look at him or when I kiss him.

I still love him though. I'm so confused. Is a relationship like this mendable, or does it only get worse? I know only my heart can tell the answer to this.

P.S. You can read my other ?'s if you really must know some of the things he has said.

2006-12-06 18:58:33 · 10 answers · asked by zombiefrog 2

If you met a man online, how long would you wait before going out with him?

2006-12-06 18:56:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Whether they are the girl's group of friends or the guy she is actually with.

2006-12-06 18:56:49 · 14 answers · asked by Airtight 2

How do i heal my heart after times me and him spent
all the songs he singed to me
all the peoms he would write
and the problems we bin thourgh

2006-12-06 18:55:44 · 9 answers · asked by ♥♥Kuluma♥♥ 1

I mean people in a serious relationship...no casual dating...like 2+ years...

2006-12-06 18:55:43 · 15 answers · asked by georgiabelle87 4

My boyfriend has been going through a difficult time as he is looking for a new job. He is not happy with his current one. He is looking for a job in my area. We are in a long-distance relationship. I am going to meet him this Friday as he invited me to go to to his country for a weekend. His friend has a farewell party and he wanted me to be there for it. The thing is since he has been focusing on his job search, I feel like he has been neglecting me. He asked me to be patient, strong and to let him concentrate and we can relax this weekend together. The thing is I became needy of him in the past two days and he got very very angry with me last night telling me that I have no respect for him and he said I don't support him at all and he told me if I don't stop annoying him, he will not talk to me anymore. I am so sad. I feel like he does not care about me anymore? What should I do please?

2006-12-06 18:54:59 · 11 answers · asked by violet b 1

2006-12-06 18:54:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous