Singles & Dating - 5 December 2006

I had a really good girlfriend but she had low self-esteem, she is involved with an available man and has unprotected sex with complete strangers. She is divorced with 3 kids, and said her husband used to mentally abuse her.

The thing is throughout our 1 year relationship I was really nice to her, used to go out for lunch, drinks, met her kids, went to the cinema but we did have sex (one thing I regret now as she probably thought I was using her). I used to tell her throughout our relationship that she shouldn't give it away so easily and that she should think more of herself and meet someone who puts her first not second all the time. It's frustrating because she won't listen and she says she will never leave unavailable man.

We have lost contact now but I still worry for her and miss her. Do I have low self-esteem for wanting to settle for this type of relationship myself?

2006-12-05 20:20:53 · 15 answers · asked by dfds g 1

you dont have money, you dont have anything

there are 60 minutes in an hour
and 4 quaters in a dollar
therefore time is money
and money equals power

they say money cant buy you love
it can only get you fame
but without money there is no love
and with love comes pain

sometimes i think there is no such thing as love
yah i know it sounds pretty funny
but people never love you for you
they only love you for your money

so in reality money can buy love
and happiness, everything you need
so thats why i say work now
while your life is still a seed

2006-12-05 20:20:23 · 10 answers · asked by guy 1

makin it on my own

over the past 19 years ive been babied, everything given to me
but now i have my own life and living so free
makin money and holding my own
its like im in heaven, a king on his thrown

making my own decisions, choosing my own routes
working two jobs and no time to go out
being responsible, yet not quite secure
still searching for love as the days become fewer

i know im bored, writing poems hour after hour
talking all that sweet stuff, like a girls love is that of a flower
so i'll get right to the point so i dont sound like a fag
someone give me a ****** beer, i need to get jag

2006-12-05 20:17:12 · 6 answers · asked by guy 1

2006-12-05 20:15:30 · 7 answers · asked by jughead 1

Im fed up of feeling like everything is grey without her.

2006-12-05 20:14:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi to everyone,need some piece of advice.so,here I am in a relationship for more than 4 years,so we have a lot of bad and good experiences together.lately however I am very passive,I like staying at home instead of seeing him,I don`t really bother we don`t know where to celebrate Christmas..what a hell is wrong with me? I don`t like this situation but I can`t ignore how I feel,I can`t pretend it`s nothing going on...Piece of advice,pliz? Thanks!

2006-12-05 20:13:21 · 8 answers · asked by NuclearKitty 1

There has been a lot of books written about this topic. But I wanna know your opinion.... Men, pls....

2006-12-05 20:12:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its the 3rd time you hurt me. its is the 3rd time you broke my heart. And i never seem to learn. Can u not see how much i love. Maybe i might just die loving you and never learn or wake up from the pain u caused me. You can see the tears in my eyes and u don't ask me whats wrong ... why do i feel so much pain. Everytime i lie to my poor soul .. thinking someday u would change and stop cauing me so much pain. I don't blame u neither do i blame myself. But when will i learn..!

2006-12-05 20:12:12 · 4 answers · asked by julia1975 4

Is it wrong to have more than one girlfriend? can't u love them all at the same time. like the guy in Big love

2006-12-05 20:09:10 · 10 answers · asked by Alkaz 2

they say

they say a picture is worth a thousand words, but she was worth more,
they say the grass is always greener on the other side, but nobody knew for sure,

they say you win some you lose some but i lost all,
they say kindness is the key to a womens heart, im still waiting for her call,

they say love is blind and that is so true,
they say people do crazy things when their in love, thats why i do the things i do,

they say beauty comes from within, we all know thats bullshit
they say you only want things you cant have.and its you i wanted but could never get,

they say dreams come true, but they never do
they say the best things in life can't be seen, maybe thats why i couldn't see you

they say ask and you shall recieve, now this i dont believe
they say friends stick by your side, so why did you leave

now i dont know what phrase or piece of advice to follow
so i guess nothing will ever change and my heart will always be hollow

2006-12-05 20:06:30 · 18 answers · asked by guy 1

2006-12-05 20:04:40 · 5 answers · asked by hiddenbeauty23 1

i met him on the net..talked togeher 1 week.every day he became even more fond of me..i could sense that very well..he knew that i ma finishing one relationship..but yesterday we started talking about my doubts how should i finish the relatinship-he was very nice!!!supportive!!!asked as usually when i will be on the net again..asked to sedn him message how i maaged to eak up..i send and his replay was i am proud-go sleep you need rest....i was a little bit confused cause i thought that know he want to tak to me..but i went sleep..today i come to net and he send me short message and is not there or pretends not to be there -i do not know-bue every day for this week he was there..we talked 10 hours per day...tell me is it normal?am i inventing things or mybe he is less interested i me now???and if es why???how can i win him back again???

2006-12-05 20:04:36 · 10 answers · asked by oliwia1000 2

Without everyone else thinking I am hitting on him?

2006-12-05 20:04:33 · 27 answers · asked by AussieRockchic 1

I am a virgin and sometimes I am proud and other times I just wish I wasn't. What should I do? Should I tell him and see how he reacts or lead him on and actually do it? HELP!

2006-12-05 20:03:00 · 13 answers · asked by Loves To Drink 1

2006-12-05 20:00:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'am so tired of my life do you think it is because of being alone all my friends have a boyfreind and happy to their relationship???????? everytime we went to malls i'am always alone unlike them but it doesnt mean theres no one loving.I have suitors but i dont want to chose among them...bcoz of some reasons

2006-12-05 19:59:52 · 15 answers · asked by aNnEkHaTe_23 1

I have this neighbor whom I become friend .And then everytime we've been together he always makes me smile and at the same time he always teased me.Right now as time goes on I feelt something different in my heart,I think I started loving him because of his good attitude.One night he told me that he has something to say and as a girl of course I'm not stupid not to notice what he is trying to say.I think he is going to court me based from his attitude that he showed.As girls of course we can easily notice that one but the main problem is I have a boyfriend.But my bf and I doesn't saw each other anymore,we doesn't have communication.One problem also is that I like him but I don't want him to be my boyfriend.What should I do?Please help me....please.

2006-12-05 19:59:32 · 5 answers · asked by cro 2

if boy like to get b*l*o*w*j*o*b from his girl partner, is their any problems for girl means any physical irritation?this act helps to ignite pleasurable fire in women too?

2006-12-05 19:57:05 · 7 answers · asked by sexmaledude 1

with these idiot questions being asked?

2006-12-05 19:55:23 · 4 answers · asked by MRS.HOTWHEELS 2

I have been dating this girl for four months seriously. She said she had feelings for me when we were just friends but now she says she lost them once she became my grilfriend. She went from kisses and hugs to a cold shoulder that would flash freeze a bull. This started about the same time I lost my job had my car break down and ran into hard times. Since I returned to work, and am fixing the car. She wont talk about the problems or otherwise I ask the right questions and I get the answer of I dont know. to everything right now or no answer at all. I have been great to this girl and have just about put myself in a financal hole trying to make her happy but it seams that didn't work either. I am not tring to buy her love. I just like taking care of her. Now her last words were " She does not feel the same way about me that I feel about her. She did but not now. She liked it better before the bf/gf time."
I am the type of guy that opens doors and takes care of my GF.

2006-12-05 19:52:55 · 22 answers · asked by readyglow 1

2006-12-05 19:51:37 · 15 answers · asked by rohit kumar 1

This girl and I have been really close friends. I like her and Im pretty sure she likes me shes always smiling at me and we're always flirting. Well I asked her out one time and she told me she cant cuz she has a boyfriend Ok so I guess i waited too long to ask her out.But anyway, We have remained really close friends she never talks about her boyfriend and I've never seen him before. So whenever I talk about hanging out with other girls she always gets really upset and she won't talk to me for a while. And whenever we hang out anymore it always seems like she wants me to make a move. we've slept in the same bed and stuff but I dont want to make a move because I don't want to do that to her boyfriend. But then she gets pissed now cuz I didn't make a move i guess? She hasnt talked to me in a while. What does this girl want from me?

2006-12-05 19:51:02 · 9 answers · asked by takeiteasybrah 2

i knew him last year and in this summer he moved to another city because of his company.and i am so sad for it and did bad when the last goodbye time, the worse thing is,in that day it is the first time that he let me to meet his brother.what can i do now?should i email him again? or just let it alone....

2006-12-05 19:49:47 · 5 answers · asked by smile.again89 1

2006-12-05 19:49:39 · 14 answers · asked by dandan 1

2006-12-05 19:45:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-05 19:44:46 · 10 answers · asked by Sy_LvEsTeR 1

he's my long time friend, sure i've'd confessed to him that i had a crush on him before.. but now... i think i treat him as normal.

my phone ran out of credit for text messages.. and now i have to call his landline and talk to him. but i'm feeling my heart rate skipping and stuff like that. i'm sure i don't like him that way any more. but why am i feeling like that and how do i over come it?

2006-12-05 19:42:32 · 8 answers · asked by Spidergurl 4

2006-12-05 19:40:49 · 16 answers · asked by cher_dc_xu 2

I've been dating a guy since May of this yr. we fell in love, but tonight
we had a disagreement and he said somethings that raised a red flag. In part of our chat, he said he wouldn't get married or live together. He's the type to hold things in and like tonight I found out things that bothered him about me. So now I'm not sure what's going to happen, he said he would let me know if he wants to continue the relationship or end it. He's an Aries and I'm a Virgo could this be the problem?

2006-12-05 19:38:51 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1

. . . Other than sex related things.

2006-12-05 19:38:13 · 13 answers · asked by teetalla 1