I've been dating a guy since May of this yr. we fell in love, but tonight
we had a disagreement and he said somethings that raised a red flag. In part of our chat, he said he wouldn't get married or live together. He's the type to hold things in and like tonight I found out things that bothered him about me. So now I'm not sure what's going to happen, he said he would let me know if he wants to continue the relationship or end it. He's an Aries and I'm a Virgo could this be the problem?
2006-12-05 19:38:51 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your sign doesn't matter. The relationship will be whatever the two of you make of it.
2006-12-05 19:42:52 · answer #1 · answered by - 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I date a guy who told me on the first date that he would never get married again. He married around 21 and I met him when he was 31. We dated 1 and 1/2 years. We couldn't agree where to live so we never moved in together. Eventually our relationship ended. We were not alike and couldn't make it work. Now I am 41 and feel like I fell in love with the wrong guy and wasted a lot of time I could have been looking for a man who would want a nice home and a real long term relationship. I had to date a very good looking guy, but he was very immature. I heard immaturity from your guy. Put on your boots and walk out of that relationship. Remember, Nancy Sinatra sang THESE BOOTS WERE MADE FOR WALKING!!!!!
2006-12-05 20:22:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.....The reasons don't really matter...what matters is that he has told you that the relationship is never going to progress further than where it is now and that even that may end...So, what are you waiting for.....him to tell you it's over???? I would suggest you do whatever you have to do to get yourself together and call it a day with this guy....continuing the "relationship" will only be wasting your time....Maybe if you end it now, at some point he will decide that he wants you back but I doubt it....time to move on...good luck
2006-12-05 19:43:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
RED FLAG just for the way he acts!! I am an Aries and both of my exes were Virgos.
2006-12-05 19:42:17 · answer #4 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay attention, real attention to the Red Flags! If he has things that bother him about you, move on. Don't try to make something work that is not destined to benefit either of you!
2006-12-05 19:43:30 · answer #5 · answered by desertflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, opposites attract.
Now for the meat and potatoes..........
Ask yourself this question has he changed since your discussion or have there been signs before that you over looked? Why is this his decision, Why does he have the control over what this relationship leads too? Solve this question and that will give you your answer. Cut him loose.......
2006-12-05 19:46:54 · answer #6 · answered by nasturtium41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to end it. Perhaps he doesn't like your obsession with astrology. Take the ram by the horns (geddit? Aries? Oh never mind ...) and end it yourself before he does.
2006-12-05 19:43:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not in love,it sounds like.Tell him what you want,then leave him the hell alone.He probably won't come back to you,but then why do you want a guy who does'nt like you as much as you like him?Drop him quick.Cry and move on.
2006-12-05 19:46:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he is afraid of commitment. If you are wanting marriage maybe your better find some else.
2006-12-05 19:41:25 · answer #9 · answered by s_k_wilson1990 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's a jerk & you're a realist ?
2006-12-05 19:44:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋