There has been a lot of books written about this topic. But I wanna know your opinion.... Men, pls....
2006-12-05 20:12:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start with yourself. You have to believe that you are worthy. Does your own self image stand up to believeing that you can attract and keep Mr Perfect forever? If so then the next step is to choose your man carefully. I'm a one-woman man. My lady and I have been together 15 years and will be till we die. I started out being that kind of guy though. Pick up one of those party boys and "change him" into a keeper? Don't fool yourself, you'll only break your heart.
Then when you've found the right guy: communicate, communicate, communicate! Talk about everything and make sure you always know where the other is at.
NEVER attack each other, always talk it out. Never break each other down.
Finally, if you want to stay together forever you have to stay interesting to each other forever. You do this by keeping on growing, learning and developing as a person. If either of you ever decide to just stagnate the other will go "oh, it just my boring old ball-and-chain". Retain your lust for life and you'll stay fascinating.
There is obviously much more to it than that but that's a handful of ideas from someone that is still totally in love with his woman after 15 years - I still believe I am the luckiest man alive to have found my perfect soul mate.
2006-12-05 20:31:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Follow these simple guidelines:
1. Don't Tease them, make your intentions VERY clear and don't send mixed signals.
2. Don't call us every second of the day asking where we are or what we are doing. We'll let you know, or not.
3. Be sexy, attractive and availible for sex at any given time.
4. Don't Cheat on us.
5. Don't ***** at us for small stuff, if you have time to bring it up, you have time to do it.
6. No Kids.
7. Leave us alone when we want to be left alone.
8. Swallowing and Anal helps alot.
9. Bring home some $
10. Don't even think about leaving us.
There, now I can make millions like Dr. Phil.
2006-12-05 20:21:35 · answer #2 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
True love is when someone else's needs, want and desires become as important to you as your own are. Any healthy man will respond to that and fall deeply in love with you. Unfortunately, some men are broken, and you always take a chance in a relationship. Best of luck.
2006-12-05 20:17:06 · answer #3 · answered by Dorothy and Toto 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2016-03-13 03:59:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Sex,Money,and Food
Hey You asked
2006-12-05 20:15:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if there were a surefire way then everyone would know it by now. there's no such thing short of some love potion or knocking them into a coma.
2006-12-05 20:17:10 · answer #6 · answered by FucAlloYu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry hun but you can't make a man do something that he doesn't feel.
2006-12-05 20:13:58 · answer #7 · answered by DLB 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust us>
Don't cheat on us>
Don't yell at us oftenly>
Forgive us>
And add some "together" nights AKA SEX
2006-12-05 20:16:11 · answer #8 · answered by Robert A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need some will binding practices, although I do not recommend such measures
2006-12-05 20:18:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... you must first be a good cook, perform certain deeds for him, and let him watch football with the guys
2006-12-05 20:19:44 · answer #10 · answered by james h 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋