I am a virgin and sometimes I am proud and other times I just wish I wasn't. What should I do? Should I tell him and see how he reacts or lead him on and actually do it? HELP!
2006-12-05 20:03:00 · 13 answers · asked by Loves To Drink 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Use your imagination: Sleep with him and retain your virginity in the same time, if you consider that you shouldn't loose it
2006-12-05 20:08:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look, sex before wedding is not only a sin but also a symbol of bad morale. God has given u a chance to live. So, lead a good life and try to be role models for others. You pass through this life only once. Don't spoil it dear.
Listen to me. Don't go for sex. Otherwise one day u will regret and it will be too late to do anything.
Dear, be strong at heart, pray to God. May God bless u.
2006-12-06 04:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by tummu 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should wait till you find a guy who will care about your virginity. The first time is the hardest usually, and being with someone who actually cares beyond getting off, will help you relax and enjoy it rather than regret it.
2006-12-06 04:06:35 · answer #3 · answered by me_laub 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
girl follow your heart when you do deside to have sex it will be for the righ treason. wether your waiting till you think that righ tguy comes along or you just want to. I say follow you heart and it will lead you in the right direction. just don;t listen to your mind. If your second guessing then it is not the right time
2006-12-06 04:06:00 · answer #4 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For starters, is that really the way you want to end your virginity.
And secondly, you might feel you only want sex with him now, but after the act I guarantee you will become vulnerable and it won't feel good to have created the situation that you are considering.
2006-12-06 04:07:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't want to surprise a guy about something like that. Plus if you tell him your know in his reaction if he really cares or just wants to be the first.
2006-12-06 04:06:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont lose it if u are NOT in a committed relationship preferably married. you cant take it back so make an intelligent and educated decision. dont waste something that special for a guy that ONLY want to get in ur panties!
2006-12-06 04:06:25 · answer #7 · answered by mich_teddybear 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do what u want to do,,bein a virgin is nuthin to be proud of
2006-12-06 04:08:52 · answer #8 · answered by sid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're proud to be a virgin, then be one.
2006-12-06 04:04:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want to do him then tell him your a virgin then do it.
2006-12-06 04:04:43 · answer #10 · answered by takeiteasybrah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋