This girl and I have been really close friends. I like her and Im pretty sure she likes me shes always smiling at me and we're always flirting. Well I asked her out one time and she told me she cant cuz she has a boyfriend Ok so I guess i waited too long to ask her out.But anyway, We have remained really close friends she never talks about her boyfriend and I've never seen him before. So whenever I talk about hanging out with other girls she always gets really upset and she won't talk to me for a while. And whenever we hang out anymore it always seems like she wants me to make a move. we've slept in the same bed and stuff but I dont want to make a move because I don't want to do that to her boyfriend. But then she gets pissed now cuz I didn't make a move i guess? She hasnt talked to me in a while. What does this girl want from me?
2006-12-05 19:51:02 · 9 answers · asked by takeiteasybrah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey dude, us ladies are rather complicated, but from what you saying she probly really likes you but she worried if you two had to get together that it would ruin the relationship (believe me it happens i know from experience)
i suggest you tell her flat out that you like her and that it seems like she does too, then maybe a convo will start up and you can ask her if she's affraid the friendship will be ruined if the relationship doesnt work out.
oh and by the sounds of things the boyfriend probly isnt real, if you so close to her you would have met him by now so strike that off your 'no go' list.
hope i helped
2006-12-05 19:57:29 · answer #1 · answered by momma-to-morgan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is playing games, I think. There may be some emotional reason as to why she can't commit to a normal boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with you and she uses the phantom b/f as a safety net, but you are getting into some awkward situations by sharing a bed with her. You have to decide whether or not you really want to take this any further and if you do, then try to get her to talk openly and freely about what she wants. if you are unsure of her (and I think I would be) then stop getting into bed with her!
2006-12-06 03:57:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't talk about her bf, so, you probably have no idea how well she's going on with him. Why is she latching on her relationship? Only she knows. I think she likes you. Maybe, she's uncertain about things. You need to be more persistent. She needs an excuse/a reason good enough for her to leave her present relationship and be with you. Have you given her such reason? Do you know what is it that she wants? Be frank with her. Otherwise, you will only chase yourself around in circle.
2006-12-06 04:03:40 · answer #3 · answered by counterculturalist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the $64,000 question. Tell her how you feel about her and then ask her what she wants. When you talk to her, hold her hands, and make good eye contact. Hopefully, she'll be honest.
2006-12-06 04:03:53 · answer #4 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look her in the eye and ASK. The worst thing you can get is a no.
2006-12-06 03:59:47 · answer #5 · answered by readyglow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants the love from u... or may be the nite from u...
but tis is the wrong thing if u do it....
it might is a trick... think bout it... she's got a b/f... but why she wanna be u again....
just calm down,take a shower & get into the dream...
2006-12-06 03:55:58 · answer #6 · answered by Rosia R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A puppy.
2006-12-06 04:13:50 · answer #7 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants you
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2006-12-06 03:52:52 · answer #8 · answered by dana brown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HER ASAP!!
2006-12-06 03:53:26 · answer #9 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋