Hi to everyone,need some piece of advice.so,here I am in a relationship for more than 4 years,so we have a lot of bad and good experiences together.lately however I am very passive,I like staying at home instead of seeing him,I don`t really bother we don`t know where to celebrate Christmas..what a hell is wrong with me? I don`t like this situation but I can`t ignore how I feel,I can`t pretend it`s nothing going on...Piece of advice,pliz? Thanks!
2006-12-05 20:13:21 · 8 answers · asked by NuclearKitty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like this is destroying you inside so there is only one thing you can do, leave the relationship now before you have a meltdown.
2006-12-06 05:53:28 · answer #1 · answered by anbk_19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should split... Sounds like you are less passive and more bored with the relationship...
Maybe you need to spend some time on your own, getting yourself together, finding direction and being happy with YOU... Then decide if a relationship is worth the time and trouble or whether you'd just prefer to hang out with people and occassionally bed one or two of them...
2006-12-06 04:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my friend either you need to go see a doc or the answer is easy you rather have alone time. **** we all go through it. The right man will be there at the end when you say ok done with that lets go party
2006-12-06 04:16:58 · answer #3 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are used to him.The sex is probably bad, too.Get couples therapy or leave him.Go serve food to people at a homeless shelter for x-mas.
2006-12-06 04:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you find out the answer to this one, let me know. I used to be a very up front outspoken person, i'm not so much anymore. I miss that old me.
2006-12-06 04:15:27 · answer #5 · answered by aprillindee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do some soul searching.
2006-12-06 04:15:27 · answer #6 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be time has come , you don't want to end it , but it would not worry you . so it may be time to think about what you want good luck
2006-12-06 04:18:52 · answer #7 · answered by beefcowsboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're bored. need a change.
2006-12-06 04:25:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋