i'am so tired of my life do you think it is because of being alone all my friends have a boyfreind and happy to their relationship???????? everytime we went to malls i'am always alone unlike them but it doesnt mean theres no one loving.I have suitors but i dont want to chose among them...bcoz of some reasons
2006-12-05 19:59:52 · 15 answers · asked by aNnEkHaTe_23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What are these "reasons"? And stop looking! Seriously, stop feeling lonely. Feel comfortable with yourself. Don't think that you need a man to complete you. You complete yourself, and once you begin telling yourself that the right man will come your way. AND what you must also realise is that how will you ever know he's the right man unless you go through a few wrongs first? Take a few chances because you only live once. And when the right man comes along (I assure you, it'll probably when you least expect it) you'll know!
2006-12-05 20:05:36 · answer #1 · answered by natofield 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then choose to be happy. Aloneness does not mean loneliness. Happiness is a choice , a state of the mind. Be 'happy' that you are confident and independent enough to be among your friends even if you don't have a bf. One should be happy being alone than choosing one from among those you don't love. Wait for Mr. Right. He will come at the right time. In the meantime, choose to be happy. Only you, can make yourself happy, Nobody else can. Keep that in mind.
2006-12-06 06:19:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to talk to someone about your 'reasons' for not having a suitor. And try and spend some time with your friends away from the boyfriends.
2006-12-05 20:03:25 · answer #3 · answered by michelle s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really think thast your friends are so happy with their bf.
On the other hand what to write seems like the ugly duck syndrome that occurs in every person.
Please change the neding of your explanations to the questions and explain why do you not want to choose from your suitors.
U seem to need to change all your friends and start meeting new people.
2006-12-05 20:05:13 · answer #4 · answered by freemind go 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, It's always funny to listen to women claim they have suitors and don't want them, yet complain about being alone. GIVE THEM A CHANCE! At least you have someone interested in you!!!!!! Don't be so picky!
2006-12-05 20:04:25 · answer #5 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if it's any comfort to you, I'll be 25 in 4 days, and I've never had a girlfriend, never been on a date, and never been kissed. If you think your life is bad, well, my life may be worse. I get depressed, too. I thought about doing something crazy on my 25th birthday coming up, but I'm too cowardly to do what is necessary.
2006-12-05 20:02:09 · answer #6 · answered by perfectlybaked 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK the choice is yours,,,, To be or not to be that is the question. If you want a more permanent relationship pick someone. If not stop complaining and date many.
2006-12-05 20:03:40 · answer #7 · answered by nasturtium41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is tiring, having a boyfriend can be more tiring.
2006-12-06 19:09:08 · answer #8 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for a boyfriend :)
not in here ofcoz
2006-12-05 20:02:15 · answer #9 · answered by Paula 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
true love are coming soon ,donnt give yourself presure.you important is work(save money with your future life)god bless you!
2006-12-05 20:05:04 · answer #10 · answered by gigi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋