Singles & Dating - 15 November 2006

They were all willing to do it in a bed, not 20 feet away, I had no plans of "soiling" the one I had in mind. It was opulant and worthy of such a deed. I was being an opportunist, trying to bring the abstract to light. Love creates an energy, even tawdry sex, wht better place to let that flow than a container for the dead? Coffins are foreboding objects, why not transferr the power the have over us? I would be glad to know my own personal coffin had done more than roll off an asswmbly line into a showroom.

2006-11-15 03:42:03 · 1 answers · asked by NIGHTSHADE 4

I'm black (if you cant tell) and my boyfriends white and we have been getting along for the past 7 months. But recently we discovered how different our cultures are and how we were raised and morally stand is getting in the way of our relationship. He feels his rude to tell friends your going to be late because you had something planned for your girlfriend first, I feel friends should be understanding. He thinks its annoying and immature to "act crazy" in a resturant when your in a group, I find its just a time to have fun. Those are one of the few things we argue about, is there any hope for us? Can we meet somewhere in the middle?

2006-11-15 03:40:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

The situation is I was laid off back in June and haven't been able to find employment since. I am drawing unemployment but it's not a lot. I try to help and pay what I can. He's mad because he always feels that he has to come to me for money and that I don't offer it and see if he needs help towards something. I love him so much and don't want him mad anymore. We haven't talked for a couple days now and I want him to understand that I do love him and would do anything to help him. He was really burned in the past by 2 ex's and I believe he carries resentment and thinks that I am going to do the same thing and I'm not.

2006-11-15 03:37:51 · 12 answers · asked by ncgirl 1

i have a crush,he is really shy
i wana let him no i like him b4 my bday comes up soon so i can invite him sumwere,how do i let him no,keepin in mind he is shy?
tell my friends and let them spread it around so he knows (i dnt no if thats a gd idea though) tell his friend and he'll tell him,tell my friend and tell him,or just invite him? i cant find a gd time to tell him myself,but if i do i will,but out of these or any of ur own ideas,plez tell me!! thanks,TEN POINTS 4 THE BEST! xx

2006-11-15 03:35:41 · 10 answers · asked by *cutie with a bootie* 3

I have been seriously dating my boyfriend for over six months. Last week, everything was fine. He wanted to hang out with his guy friends on Wednesday, which was completely fine. Now it is the Wednesday after, and I still have not seen him. Not only that, but he has not returned my phone calls, emails, im's etc. The only contact he has made with me has been a one line reply to an email and a couple texts. There was nothing wrong last week- no fights or arguments. We have good communication and talk about the things that bother us in the relationship. I am in love with him, and I don't know what to do. He has a very stressful job that takes up a lot of his time, but not enough where a phone call is too much to ask. I think I am in denial -that he is just being a coward and breaking up with me, but after six months I do not think he could just drop me and never speak to me again. Please, any kind of feedback would help. (If it helps, I am 25 and so is he).

2006-11-15 03:34:38 · 8 answers · asked by confused 1

Does anyone else think it's sad to do online dating (like match.com)? I'm thinking about it but it makes me kind a little...well...pathetic. Also, like I may just find losers there (like, why can't they just get dates?). Is that an old way to think? Does everyone do it now?

2006-11-15 03:33:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ladies, when you're on a date, and you have to go to the bathroom, do you ask your date for permission to go? Or do you go without asking permission? Or do you just 'hold it in' until you get home?

[I have dated several girls who, when we were on a date and they needed to use the ladies room, would ask me for permission to go to the bathroom. Do a lot of other women do this, or were those women just weird?]

2006-11-15 03:31:39 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-15 03:31:14 · 13 answers · asked by *Luckey Me* 1

Its going to be me and a guy that have been friends for going on six years! We are finally both single and know that we have to give 'us' a shot and we really want this to work. We've always wanted 'us' but have never both been single at the same time. So this weekend we are going to go out just the two of us (there's always been others when we've went out b4). But I'd just like to do something other than just a movie and dinner. You know? Cause this is kinda special. Kinda like 'it's been a long time coming' lets make the best of it.

Anyways all suggestions are appreciated.

2006-11-15 03:31:07 · 9 answers · asked by dixie011406 2

Im actually just trying to learn stuff for my girl and i would appreciate any strategies or stuff i can do to make her feel good!

2006-11-15 03:30:39 · 17 answers · asked by craigorous 2

I love my b/f. our relationship is great we get along great and i love him more than anything. He is great with my daughter we haven't been together that long and i know i love him i think i'm pregnant with his baby and i told him that and he said "Would that be a bad thing? I'm here.i'm not goin anywhere babe" i am scared that he doesn't love me back and if i tell him i love him he will think i fall in love to quickly.

2006-11-15 03:30:34 · 12 answers · asked by ♥ Ash ♥ 2

Kisses or Hugs?

2006-11-15 03:28:02 · 36 answers · asked by Tulip 2

I am being stalked by someone that I have never been able to get close enough to identify. The face always seems to be obscure. I went to the cops but they say they cannot do anything without some type of proof. They also cannot issue a restraining order without a name. They are always in different vehicles, or on foot. I tried several times to chase after them but to no prevail. When I look at the all they do is constantly steer at me and put there hands over there lips, kind of like “Shhhh-ing” me. Sometimes they leave little things on my doorstep such as a few grains of wild rice, or a piece of paper with the word "Returns" on it. I do not know what to do anymore. SOMEONE PLEASE ADVISE AND HELP ME! !

2006-11-15 03:27:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-15 03:26:22 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, We fooled around when we got drunk, Just a one time thing. no strings attached. Went back to school(college) and decided to become partners for a project. Drove each other crazy. argued and scowled at eachother the whole time. Decided not to clash with him anywhere anymore.(this was a month ago) Today, He walks over and asks if we could be partners for this project we had. Turned him down, he left. Now, I would just say he needed a partner that's it but I've caught him looking at me, trying to make things right. Trying to tease me, but after the whole partner scene, he just irritates me. so, Is it just my imagination or is it the fact that we fooled around once got him thinking we're more than just classmates. We did made it clear we were just drunk, nothing really happened, what's your take on this. Do you think I'm reading into this to much or because of what happened, he's starting to have feelings for me. If he is, how am I going to turn him down without hurting him to bad

2006-11-15 03:25:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just recently asked this girl to be my girlfriend, and she said yes, but a couple of days afterwards, this other guy that she had been hanging out with alluded to wondering if he and she(my girlfriend) were officially dating... She's a really nice girl, she has a hard time hurting peoples feelings, but it really feels like she's having "too" hard of a time letting this guy down. She showed me what she wrote him, and not once did she mention me. And the guy wrote back guilt tripping her, basically saying about all the fun things they did together, and saying that she will be the last person he'll ever date... it's just seeming like her feelings of sadness for letting this guy down are stronger than her feelings of happiness for me asking her to be my girlfriend. I don't really think I should step in and tell this guy the way it is, because it may well be none of my business, but I feel like I need to be doing something to fix this. How should I handle this situation?

2006-11-15 03:23:41 · 12 answers · asked by Matt B 4

do i just go up to him and say"I love you"yes or no.why or why not.

2006-11-15 03:23:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met him 8 months ago at the hospital and brought him a teddy bear. We met online and he showed my pic to everyone and their mom. It was love at first sight. Today, he says that he fell in love with me because of the teddy bear I got him, and commented there were HOT nurses there that day, but he only thought of me. That makes me feel so un-attractive. lol He called me beautiful once and pretty other times, but it was part of a question. But he comments on other women about them being beautiful, "hot chicks".. on TV etc., etc. Any of you feel like you have the same problem? As if you're not pretty enough or HOT enough for your man? And why won't they call you beautiful? Maybe because they already know that you are and doesn't want to inflate your confidence?? Help guys.

2006-11-15 03:23:02 · 24 answers · asked by Jenna S 2

I'm in love with a guy I shouldnt be in love with and its killing me, I have decided I want to be hypnotized and change my way of thinking. To be frank, w emeet up, talk about each others problems and then have sex. There are loadsa of complications and he has children and there is a 30 year age gap so we can never be together properley and I want to change my way of thinking.
I dont want to feel upset and depressed when he doesnt text me, I don't want to think about him non-stop like I do, I want to see it as fun and nice and be greatful when i do see him.
Will hypnosis work? Does anybody know where I can get a personalised hypnosis CD?
Thanks

2006-11-15 03:22:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I lived above a funeral home in a small town, at the top af the stairs was the display room for the many coffins for sale. Some were ulta-fancy, one cost 16.000$ Being a creative soul, always on the hunt for the obscure, I asked several ladies on different ocassions if they would like to go for a romp in the fanciest one. None would go for it, I thought it was making memories?
(I still have the key if anyone is game)

2006-11-15 03:21:56 · 14 answers · asked by NIGHTSHADE 4

i know this guy and i think he is still not over his last gf and they havent been with each other and like over two years.....do you think thats weird or do you think thats immature and he should move on?

2006-11-15 03:21:51 · 7 answers · asked by Lauretha 3

you do anything
you do all the crazy things that you cant explain.......
(like the song from Brian Adam)

is that true..
because I find it so silly
dont u listen to ur mind before ur heart?

2006-11-15 03:20:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-15 03:19:53 · 11 answers · asked by alex 1

Most, not all, want the perfect woman physically but they don't seem to see their own shortcomings in the mirror?? Is it because it's all about the visual for men?

2006-11-15 03:18:48 · 30 answers · asked by COblonde 3

2006-11-15 03:17:14 · 7 answers · asked by lovelorn.romeo 2

wel me and my boyf had been dating for about 3 months but it was long distnace and we got in sort of an argument and i brought it up becuas he was totaly not making an effort it seemed in the alst while we were together, always too busy. and he even forgot to call me on my birthday and i donno it seemed excuse after excuse i finally got super pissed off and tried to talk to him like calmly about it and said ididnt know if we could go out anymore, i wanted ot be his priority but i guess i was expecting too much. anyways after that fight he wouldnt speak to me...or answer his phone...does that mean he never reall liked me at all? i spoke with him recently and hes moved up north he says we couldnt be together anytime soon...bnut hed call me when heh comes down here to visit. how should i take this? did i ruin something with someone i really liked?

2006-11-15 03:15:15 · 7 answers · asked by krista22here 1

list if you are single, in a relationship, or married - how often do you "have special time" (my last version of this got removed for being dirty)

2006-11-15 03:11:37 · 19 answers · asked by ksmpmjoll 3

I like this guy and I used to see him all the time but now i hardly see him because i don't stay in the college becaue 1st years bug me. Anyway, now i only see him in one lesson t wo times a week and that isn't good enough for me anymore. Anyway now he hangs out with this guy who i think is a complete and utter jerk. So I don't see him before lessons, because i get in late, I can't talk to after lessons because this other guy is always with him and during the lesson really isn't appropriate, or good enough. I know your supposed to try and build a relationship but how am i supposed to do that? Here are a few of my own ideas.
a) Give him a note. (Don't know what it should say.)
b) Give him a christmas card.
c) I'm in the process of making a really cool youtube video and I thought maybe I could give him the url address for it, and the youtube video would have a dedication to him at the end.

I know you would say just talk to him, but I was bullied heavily for the whole of school...

2006-11-15 03:11:25 · 12 answers · asked by Dreamer 4

This is embarrasing...but could someone tell me how to give a good kiss? Im a freshman and I've never exactly given a "real kiss" even though I've had boyfriends...

2006-11-15 03:10:27 · 21 answers · asked by Sarah 2

thouhg he dumped her as a girlfriend over 20 years ago. Since then , he has go out with at least 3 steady girlfriends including me. i lived with him for 6 years. She lives across the street and saw me living with my ex boyfriend for 6 years. During the 6 years, she was always in his face. Now that she is old and fat, he claims he does not want anything to do with her. Yet they still talk to each other. When we broke up last year in 2005, he has dated other women, but still sees me once and awhile,may once a week. He dated a 33 yrr old girl young enough to be his daughter, but he claims he dumped her becz she was wild and a hoe.Now he wants me back just for the sex. Should I still see him becz I am a young looking 54 year and I can get younger men(20s,30s,40s,50s) than my 63 ex boyfriend, I really do not need the aggravation of a three way love affair between myself,my old 63 exboyfriend, and his old 63yr exgirlfriend. It sort of ridicule. He is not going to get rid the old maid.

2006-11-15 03:08:17 · 15 answers · asked by gigi120pelham 1