Singles & Dating - 4 November 2006

I'm 25 years old and I know I sound like I am 12. I really like him, I know he likes me too. I have a trusting problem. He gave me a few chances, always telling me to "chill" and "relax". I think I messed it up big time, cause after a few dates, I told him, "Look, it's fine if you want to have sex with other girls, but if you want to date me, I rather you not. But if you want to be with other girls, just don't call me..." At first he was scare. He told me. We have A LOT of chemistry,it's like a connection I never felt,u know?It's an unexplainable feeling of comfort and ease,you know?The last "sit down" he said he wishes me the best in life and that he's selfish,his career comes first and right now he doesn't have enough time for me.Had I played my cards right,things could've been different.You think there's hope for another chance with him?He always told me he likes me a lot, to have faith in how much he likes me,i'm so gorgeous,don't judge him cause he's a guy,etc..HELP ME!

2006-11-04 19:39:06 · 4 answers · asked by Gina C 1

okay heres my question straight out

a month ago my boyfriend cheated on me and i came home after he dissapeared for 2 nights and found marks on his neck and i beat him up...the next night he called me and told me to come home so i did and we talked he explained that they never slept together but he let her kiss him then he pulled her away...but now that were back together i cannot seem to get intimate

is something wrong with me


my anxiety dissorder seems to be in a shitty state right now too

2006-11-04 19:34:41 · 24 answers · asked by Vampizzle 1

He's not really obsessed, he's 14, I'm 17, and he has had a crush on me since I was 14 when we moved in next door to them.

I was taking care of his dog this weekend while his parents were gone, and he was SUPPOSED to be at his friends house. He came home and started talking to me, I'm always very nice to him, but then he started getting flirty. I'm pretty used to it. He has ALWAYS been like that.

Anyways, he sat on the couch next to me and tried to kiss me. I told him "Leo, you're way to young for me, I think your sweet but I cant think of you like that. I used to babysit you." I tried getting up, but he's bigger than me now and he kissed me.

His mom walked in the door while this was happening NOW WHAT AM I GOING TO DO? I have talked to him and he told me that he knows I dont think of him that way, he just really wanted to kiss me. I told him it was okay, but just to forget about it and not to do it again.

I feel so uncomfortable around his family now though.

2006-11-04 19:30:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-04 19:30:34 · 13 answers · asked by ruth 1

probably jump on you..would you feel happy angry?

2006-11-04 19:28:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok...I've been with my girlfriend for a little over 2 years (off and on). She's told me over and over that she wants to be with me, and even marry me. She said that if I asked her tomorrow she'd say yes. She has a Yahoo 360 page, and nothing about that page even suggests that she feels that way for me...actually, it implies the contrary. She's even stated that she's bi on her page, even though she's told me that she's not. What the hell am I supposed to do?

2006-11-04 19:25:41 · 6 answers · asked by Tariq777 2

2006-11-04 19:21:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so yea me and the kinda sotra gf called it quits well kinda sotra and now my best friend whos a girl is hitting on me big time right now. what is up with that?

2006-11-04 19:12:35 · 3 answers · asked by slaphappy 3

ok he always likes to take my books and go through them. when we leave the art room after class he puts tape on my back. when he sees me in the halls he smiles and says haha. or says something about my dog. when we are in art he never shuts up. does he like me?

2006-11-04 19:08:20 · 21 answers · asked by Sammie 1

2006-11-04 19:03:04 · 3 answers · asked by krishna s 2

I'm in high school and there is this girl that I have had my eye on for some time now. I have never spoken a word to her and vise versa. We are on the cross country team and I really like her, but I am too shy and nervous to even make a prolonged eye contact with her. I know that I have to do something before it's too late(meaning before she gets a bf) but what?

2006-11-04 19:00:55 · 8 answers · asked by running08 1

We were thinking of having a 3sum - my girlfriends idea, with another girl. Both doing stuff, making it equal. Do you think I would lose respect for her and begin to cheat on her?

2006-11-04 18:54:39 · 15 answers · asked by hello! 2

I found out my Ex was cheating on me like 2days after we broke up. But I loved her soooo much I kept it a secret and I was kind of confused but where still close friends (not romantically).But the more I talked to her the more she kept acting funnier and funnier. So I said *** IT I’m just wasting my time talking to her. Im a let her know how dirty she is for throwing a hotel party and not telling me about it(when we was going out like 3weeks before we broke up)and leave her alone. now I feel kind of sad and glad for doing it…was this right way thing to do ?

2006-11-04 18:54:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am extremely in need of sex but I am in a position where I cant get any and I am not willing to buy a PRO. I can walk down the road and I will get filled with rage because I see couples all over the place and I just get pissed. so how can I temporally kill my sex drive for about 6 months? Really seeing couples really pisses me off.

2006-11-04 18:52:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

If I told you you had a beautiful body would you hold it against me?

2006-11-04 18:46:54 · 9 answers · asked by jess g 3

i accidentally told my guy friend that i liked him and he got mad at me and ignored me totally then after a while he approached me as if nothing happened and then when i tried talking to him again he doest want to coz by that time there was another guy who want to date me.but he just said that he wont talk to me coz that person might get mad at him.

i let that incident passed and after a year he started talking to me again but when i treated him as my friend he got mad again.it has been a cycle and its been 4 years of that happening.him getting mad then ok then gets mad again.he even says things about me behind my back to our friends.

i already tried asking him to fix this but he doesnt want to.even if i just want to know why is he mad at me i havent done anything wrong with him.i just want our friendship back...

please help me what should i do?

2006-11-04 18:43:37 · 6 answers · asked by angel_sakura 1

Ok, so its been like 5 months, since me and my es-bf broke up, and i still have feelings for him, but i don't know if he has feelings for me. all of my friends, noticed that when we were going out that i was so happy, no matter what happend i was always happy. but ever since we broke up, have been misarbale. i really want to tell him how i feel about him, but don't know how to do it. should i write him a letter, should go over to his house, and talk to him, or should i give him a call? what should i do?

2006-11-04 18:39:40 · 15 answers · asked by Janha S 2

Do they still use "Will you go out with me?" Or is it just assumed if they have been make-out buddies for awhile?

2006-11-04 18:39:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My exBF knocked me around twice, kept an ad up on match.com for 5 yrs while we dated, constantly was critical of my weight (125lbs @ 5'5 was fat to him), verbally insulted me and then called me emotional when i told him not to call me swear words and was jealous and when we broke up & threatened to kill anyone he saw me dating.
Plus when we stopped dating he expected me to keep being his maid and errand runner like when we dated.
Finally I told him I could be his friend but not his gopher.
Since I wont help him the friendship if over for him. Sad that thats all he wanted me for. LOL
He keeps writing me long sad letters saying I abandoned him and he was my savIor and was nicer to me than anyone else could be ever.
My ex isnt all bad, but the stuff I mentioned above it pretty damn disgusting.
I dont even hate him, i just think hes out of touch for thinking he is wonderful and im the meanie here !
Do bad men not know theyre bad ? My ex honestly thinks he was wonderful to me.

2006-11-04 18:38:47 · 6 answers · asked by Leea 1

He was my best friend for a couple years, then he asked me out so we went out and now we basically broke up cause he told his parents about us and they said that it was the wrong time, and i know he respects his parents so we talked about it, he was asking me what we should do, so just for the sake of it i said i guess we shouldn't do this ne more cause even if were dating secretly, he would probably actually tell them the truth. yes obviously i find it kinda annoying that he has to tell them the truth everytime cause me and my family are not close in that way at all. but i respect his respect for them. he said how he doesn't want to either but we ended it. now i just feel really like it won't be the same and it feels worse than just breaking up with your boyfriend cause he used to be your best friend. i sort of want either things to be the way it used to be, he says the same but when we talk its just different. how and what should i do to make things better between us?

2006-11-04 18:38:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-04 18:35:42 · 8 answers · asked by hot carmel 1

Okay so this guy likes me and i like him back and we're friends and everything, but we're both shy. We're both not sure how to flirt. He glances at me and I look away, I glance at him..he looks away. So my question is: How can I flirt with him without being too flirtacous?? Thanks for your help peoples.

~Anonymous~

2006-11-04 18:34:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous 2

So there is this guy from my church that my parents are friends with. He raps, and basically just does things that young people do. He flirts/talks to me all the time. At first I thought It was weird. And I still kind of do. But I cant help but kind of like it. I'm not the type of girl that likes a lot of attention, or is a whore, but I'm just wondering...

why do I like it when he does that? And is it wrong?

2006-11-04 18:32:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been studying Graphology lately--it's the science of Handwriting Analysis--and he knows this. I would like him to write me a letter so that I can analize it. He won't agree to it, so I need to find a clever way to get a sample from him.
I'm not going to put too much stock into it, however, I think it's normal to want to analyze some real handwriting samples of people whom I know, now that I've gained this skill.
I love him very much and he's a good guy, but he definitely has a very SECRETIVE nature. He chalks this up to his zodiac sign, but I don't know if that's the entire reason. We are very serious about each other & I'd like to get a more "in depth" look at who I am about to marry. We're from opposite sides of the country, so naturally, our knowledge about each other's lives before we met is a bit limited (we met in college).How can I get him to write a letter to me (or to someone else)? The sample MUST be written TO someone & preferably in cursive (he always prints).

2006-11-04 18:31:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-04 18:31:05 · 12 answers · asked by 21questions 4

i'm a young black woman and my preference in men are blacks and hispanics, and i don't see anything wrong with any other race, why do people get so uptight when people date other then their own nationality? Be honest

2006-11-04 18:29:42 · 14 answers · asked by musikluver83 2

I havebeen with a man for 4 yrs and the sex is great ! but he has issues in how to treat me and my kids out of the bed. We never go any where do anything and I can't even laugh and have fun with him.I think I should dump him and be with someone that I can laugh with even if the sex inst that great. What is your openion

2006-11-04 18:28:50 · 15 answers · asked by southernchick340 1

I have been seeing a guy for a few months now and I have developed very intense feelings for him.When we are together on the phone or the computer with cam (which is a lot) things are just wonderful the problem is He was in a longterm relationsip b4 that went very bad Bad enough that he had to be medicated for depression and he told me when we began this that He did not ever want to feel that kind of pain again there are other underlying issues that he has as well He had a very rough childhood with a alcoholic mother who married many many times and apparently the step dads were not so nice to the kids. My problem everytime things start to go into the right direction he runs away I can tell he cares alot for me from the way he acts treats and looks at me! But he wont verbaly tell me.He let my freind know recently that he is afraid not the first time Hes said this so what do I do I love this man hes the most wonderful person ive ever known and I know it can be good if he allows it to be.

2006-11-04 18:27:19 · 1 answers · asked by witchy 2

This isn't actually me writing this, but my trusted friend. I was wondering if my sight will come back, after i lost it after seeing my parents having hot, passionate sex.

2006-11-04 18:27:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you dress up like this guy, wear the clothes on a daily basis if this kind of clothes are in again?

http://www.bijoucollectables.com/musicphotos/jones.JPG

2006-11-04 18:25:00 · 12 answers · asked by Tiny 2